Ice. I feel your pain. I can remember what it was like to be your age 30+ years ago.Very well written, Thank You! Hopefully your insight will be beneficial for the next person. Bravo!
Only the ladies who have age restrictions can tell you why they have them but I'm pretty sure I know.
I'm an entirely different person at nearly 60 than I was at 21.
I am more reserved, respectful, appreciative of the lady's looks, skills, and demeanor, gentle, patient, kind, interested in getting to know the lady and foreplay than just moving to the main event, sensitive to my partner's needs and non verbal communication, skilled at massage, knowledgeable about how to treat and please a lady, concerned about hygiene, responsible, timely, likely to tip, and financially secure than I was at 21.
I am less arrogant, selfish, likely to get angry should something go wrong, to be judgmental, and to get emotionally attached than I was at 21.
I've read more articles and books, had counseling, and had more life experiences that are invaluable in helping me understand how to treat a lady and how a lady wants to be treated than I did at 21.
At 21 I remember working with and for people that were in their 60's and unless they were gifted mentally and or physically being unable to fathom they could know more than me or be helpful to me. I've since learned to respect gray hair and the experience it brings but I confess until I lived it, I probably couldn't understand it.
So to answer your question I would suggest that yes, it probably is a question of maturity. But I confess to not knowing for sure. The only thing I know for sure is I remember what it was like to be 21 and that if I were a lady I'd probably much prefer the older me as a client.
I am presently fat, old, and bald and it still amazes me that the vast majority of the women I see ask to see me again.
But then I remember.
The ladies aren't into this hobby for mind blowing sex. They are in it to make a buck and they understand their demographic - from whom they will make the most money with the least trouble.
One final thing. I've learned not to worry about things I can't control better than I could at 21. It no longer bothers me if a woman doesn't want to see me because I am old, fat, bald or for whatever reason. I just simply move on to the next one that will. There are just too many fantastic choices in Houston to worry about the few providers that won't see people in my demographic.
I hope this helps. Happy hunting. Originally Posted by Houston.Epicurean
Originally Posted by Cyndi Lyn
