Those of you who gave kind, thoughtful advice and comments...thank you. I have a bad habit of blamingmyself for everything bad that happens, and I see that this is another case of that. The wife actually sent me an apology text and said she wasn't going to do anything, she was just pissed at the world. I feel bad for her, but like you said...not my fault. So I will just try to let it go
On the other hand, it does bother me that a few of you have this conspiracy theory idea that I am on here to stir people up. Look, I don't have time for that kind of crap, and I am sorry that my question was so offensive as to make some of you think that. I am just trying to pay for scho maybe ol and bills and I am probably not as professional as some of you. I am not used to this lifestyle yet, so please cut me some slack. I feel bad enough without that kind of crap being thrown at me, too, ok?