They have ways of knowing man.Dude not to worry I communicated with her yesterday...she's coming back
And dam hope the OP doesn't run her off with his post. Definitely want to check her out. Originally Posted by JuanBear4U
I can understand those who suggest that the provider should control connecting her porn work to her escort work. But I'm not sure how realistic that really is. Once one does porn for public consumption, one makes the implicit bargain -- or at least accepts the risk -- that any aspect of his or her life may well become liked to that performance. That is true whether one works in a Dairy Queen, a law firm, or as an escort. I seems to me that the notoriety just goes with the territory. Originally Posted by TexTushHogTrue, keeping our lives separate can be very difficult. But I think it's in bad form to publicly announce something you find to the boards. We kind of depend on each other to keep our secrets secret. If any of us has a normal day job and someone just happen to run into us and recognize us, we wouldn't want that person to post on the boards where we were spotted. I've run across a few providers on social media and the like all the time. I never bring it up here.
True, keeping our lives separate can be very difficult. But I think it's in bad form to publicly announce something you find to the boards. We kind of depend on each other to keep our secrets secret. If any of us has a normal day job and someone just happen to run into us and recognize us, we wouldn't want that person to post on the boards where we were spotted. I've run across a few providers on social media and the like all the time. I never bring it up here. Originally Posted by pathfinder420I don't disagree with what you've said so far as it goes. But having a job is hugely different from being in a porn video. The latter is, for good or for ill, guaranteed to attract attention and follow you for the rest of your life. That's part of what you are signing up for and you (should) know that from the get go. You know to a moral certainty that 60 years from now, some old geezer that's in the same nursing home will be pointing at you, whispering to the guy next to him, and showing him a video on his 22nd century cell phone equivalent.
I don't disagree with what you've said so far as it goes. But having a job is hugely different from being in a porn video. The latter is, for good or for ill, guaranteed to attract attention and follow you for the rest of your life. That's part of what you are signing up for and you (should) know that from the get go. You know to a moral certainty that 60 years from now, some old geezer that's in the same nursing home will be pointing at you, whispering to the guy next to him, and showing him a video on his 22nd century cell phone equivalent. Originally Posted by TexTushHogThat may be true. I was just hoping that in our little corner of the internet, we'd have each others' back.
That may be true. I was just hoping that in our little corner of the internet, we'd have each others' back.But there is no way to link her real identity to her porn career or her esvort career. And while porn is legal, it probably carries a greater social stigma that prostitution. I just don't see it as either unpredictable or damaging to the private person or the provider.
Is outing her porn career here (and specifically here) a ban worthy offense? Are we going to treat porn differently than other jobs? What about webcam sites? Let's say a girl is a dancer. Can we out her stage name and club she works at? Where's the line?
I think these are valid questions to be asked. Originally Posted by pathfinder420
<snip> And while porn is legal, it probably carries a greater social stigma that prostitution. I just don't see it as either unpredictable or damaging to the private person or the provider. Originally Posted by TexTushHogRespectfully disagree . . . prostitution is illegal, porn is not and my experience is that porn is becoming more mainstream all the time. The bigger issue may be how willing is the OP (or anyone else for that matter provider OR client) to see their pic on ECCIE that was found on a "PUBLIC" website such as Facebook; Twitter, etc.? Is it ok because the pic is of a provider rather than a client?
But there is no way to link her real identity to her porn career or her esvort career. And while porn is legal, it probably carries a greater social stigma that prostitution. I just don't see it as either unpredictable or damaging to the private person or the provider. Originally Posted by TexTushHogDepends... would you feel differently if she were a provider who did not show her face?