Hobby Rule #1

Bring the correct amount for you donation!

and maybe a little more...
mar6's Avatar
  • mar6
  • 12-06-2010, 11:01 PM
Hobby rule #1

Don't let the providers get too emotionally attached to me. They keep offering free sessions just to see me again and I have to keep reminding them that I am NOT their boyfriend.

Ladies, let's keep our hobby lives and our real lives separated, okay? Nuff said . . .

BTW- I also always expect the provider to have all necessary supplies.
RoDunn's Avatar
Research, research, research.

It will make your experiences much more enjoyable.

I've had more appointments than I care to admit to and in all my years I've never came across a provider who did not bring the condoms. And I've seen post after post from providers who say they want you to use theirs.

So I never bring them. This doesn't even make my top 100 list.
Have to disagree with the OP. It's fine to mention when a lady shows up unprepared. That's how we see if it's a trend. Sure, it could happen once in a blue moon to a good provider, but when it happens a lot, it's a sign of a bad provider. Her reviews are usually bad.

If I show up to work without the tools I need to do my job, I don't get paid.
White Tiger's Avatar
I used to bring condoms with me because I need a certain kind or it gets uncomfortable. I have found that most of the ladies have condoms, but not always the right size. But I got caught by my wife when she found some of my private stash in what I thought was a safe place. Ever since then, I just leave it to the provider. Only once has this proved to be a problem--one provider, who is still around but shall go unnamed here, after we had gone one round and revving up for a second time at bat for me, asked me if she could just wash out the old one and reuse it. Turns out she only had one condom, even though I had booked for two hours. To make it worse, the first go-round was Greek. Got out of there as fast as I could.
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after we had gone one round and revving up for a second time at bat for me, asked me if she could just wash out the old one and reuse it. Turns out she only had one condom, even though I had booked for two hours. To make it worse, the first go-round was Greek. Got out of there as fast as I could. Originally Posted by White Tiger

Wonder how many times it was washed out before you arrived. LOL

Torito
White Tiger's Avatar
Come to think of it I never saw her take it out of the packet.
Gonzo DFW's Avatar
I always have one just in case. I'd love to tell you that I have this huge dick that requires a cover Condoms To Go doesn't carry, or that I'm such a sex machine that I'm going to need more condoms than she's likely to have on hand. Truth is, I carry one just in case she forgot, brought a different bag, etc. Truth also is, I'd worry about a provider who wasn't professional enough to keep them. Just takin' care of bidness.
If I show up to work without the tools I need to do my job, I don't get paid. Originally Posted by BigEddie
I got caught by my wife when she found some of my private stash in what I thought was a safe place. Originally Posted by White Tiger
These are the reasons that it is absolutely not the hobbyists responsibility to bring the party hats. Plus the fact that finding time to hobby is hard enough, without having to include finding a CVS on my way to her incall.

I am happy for OP that he is so considerate of the ladies, time rich, and free of the normal burdens of marriage. I bet that he does not even mind when the cable guy gives a 6 hour window.