why are wives so fucking mean

If all wives knew what Mistresses & Providers know...you ladies would be out of work! And after a session with THN, I wish you taught classes sweetie.

If all wives knew what Mistresses & Providers know...you ladies would be out of work! And after a session with THN, I wish you taught classes sweetie. Originally Posted by beachcomber789

true!!!!


Now I am the "exception to the sucky wife" syndrome....I have been in an "open minded beyond belief" relationship over 30 years.....My SO calls me his "hot wife" and he gets it good from me!!

Put a mark down sticker on your dick, OP.

And we'll said DK and Luke.

Seriously though for a minute, as a former cookie cutter wife with lots of cookie cutter wife acquaintances l can tell you that many a wife gets resentful about life and takes it out on their spouse because taking it out on the kids isn't an option and you're the only one left. Then she feels guilty for being a bitch then feels guilty for not doing more or doing better and continues to be a bitch. It's a viscous cycle.

It happens. A lot. And it's easy to slip into when stress is high then keep doing out of habit. Especially after heavier responsibilities set in (kids, financial and/or medical problems, etc).

If she's worth her salt and keeps the house running and together then keep her. As bitchy as she is, a responsible woman who isn't totally bat shit crazy and gives a damn about what she puts out into this world is increasingly hard to find.

Take a deep breath, smile....and keep lobbying. Originally Posted by thathottnurse

You Luke and DSK make very good points.

In my marriage, it was like when we got married, he lost his balls of being a man and always asked to get some instead of coming to get some. I wish it would have been different. I don't want a man to beg for it. Come and take what's yours! You married me. Jeesh. Man up!

I took care of the house (not the cooking, but I'd order dinner, buy groceries and clean up instantly after he cooked of course), the kids, the pets, etc. He took good care of me. But the sex thing just wasn't there after we got married. Kinda sucked. He was an amazing man. I wish we were still friends. (Just kind of fell off the radar.)

I think a lot of what THN said is true. And if you can try to either find out what is up your wife's ass that has her all in a tizy and fix it to the best of your ability, try to save it.

If she is just being a bitch to be a bitch, well, not much more you can do about it if she isn't willing to try.

Lots of wise, funny ,real shit here. It made me laugh and think thanks yall

Guys are so easy just feed us and fuck us and treat us with respect and women do that until they get married for the most part. If a girl doesnt like you she wont feed or fuck you but if she does like you she will treat you like a king until you say I do. What makes woman change once they have the ring. Do they get off making you beg for pussy or only giving it up after you have completed her check list. Im so fucking sick of it. Originally Posted by mikecross

She owns half your stuff and she knows that with the right lawer she will own the other half too, she has no reason to give you pussy or anything else.

Best advice

Buy some cool toys which would include a Hitachi Magic Wand
and other assorted shapes and configurations (some that vibrate and some that don't)
You can get them cheaper off of Amazon. Tell her the plan and you can pick
them out together, get her involved from the start. That is part of the foreplay.

And for about 5 to 8 hrs make it all about her.
Start off with giving her a hot bubble bath where you do the cleaning and
massaging in the tub, then take her out and give her about a 1hr massage
with more teasing foreplay. You can incorporate candles, and soft sensual
music into the mix also.

Then start with the toys, slow and with build up (It's all about the tease and buildup)
At first bring her to the edge several times without letting her orgasm.
Do that for a while and tell her she can't orgasm until you are ready for her to.
(Don't forget to have lots of lube)

Tell her she must have your permission first (but don't push it too far and
piss her off, killing the mood, she will be begging you to let her cum and you
will be able to tell when it is time) Then let her come back down and
start it all over again

Start over again with the foreplay and build up and do it all over again, keep repeating
until she is a puddle of satisfied female, with you holding and caressing her.

Then after she has caught her breath after a bit, tell her it is now your turn.

If that doesn't work then I'm at a loss. Originally Posted by bojulay

Sounds like a lot of work. Five minutes of taint tickling and a couple of minutes chewing the kitty should suffice.

Why are all brides smiling?

They realize they've given their last blowjob! Originally Posted by TexTushHog

In the same vein...

Q: Did you know there's a food that's virtually guaranteed to suddenly and permanently cool off a woman's sex drive?

A: Yes, it's called "wedding cake."

Thanks for the comments ladies. They helped.

You guys whose wives actually talk to you and pay attention to you what is that like? Can tell you that when your spouse refuses to talk to you, never shares with you, you're on your own when you have the flu, and communicates that divorce is a certainty when the kids finish school - it's a mighty cold life.

I agree wives can be mean bitche's and no matter how hard you try to please them .They will wake up the next day meaner than cat piss. I wish someone had of been honest with me before I got married and told me to run. But nope they all wrote a wild fictional reviews like you read here so many times and I got suckered in.

Thanks for the comments ladies. They helped.

You guys whose wives actually talk to you and pay attention to you what is that like? Can tell you that when your spouse refuses to talk to you, never shares with you, you're on your own when you have the flu, and communicates that divorce is a certainty when the kids finish school - it's a mighty cold life. Originally Posted by Guest15000

Well if she has told you that she wants a divorce when the kids finish school, you should start to plan for that financially and certainly leave no evidence behind for a private investigator. Talk with a divorce lawyer now.

Put a mark down sticker on your dick, OP.

And we'll said DK and Luke.

Seriously though for a minute, as a former cookie cutter wife with lots of cookie cutter wife acquaintances l can tell you that many a wife gets resentful about life and takes it out on their spouse because taking it out on the kids isn't an option and you're the only one left. Then she feels guilty for being a bitch then feels guilty for not doing more or doing better and continues to be a bitch. It's a viscous cycle.

It happens. A lot. And it's easy to slip into when stress is high then keep doing out of habit. Especially after heavier responsibilities set in (kids, financial and/or medical problems, etc).

If she's worth her salt and keeps the house running and together then keep her. As bitchy as she is, a responsible woman who isn't totally bat shit crazy and gives a damn about what she puts out into this world is increasingly hard to find.

Take a deep breath, smile....and keep lobbying. Originally Posted by thathottnurse

You Luke and DSK make very good points.

In my marriage, it was like when we got married, he lost his balls of being a man and always asked to get some instead of coming to get some. I wish it would have been different. I don't want a man to beg for it. Come and take what's yours! You married me. Jeesh. Man up!

I took care of the house (not the cooking, but I'd order dinner, buy groceries and clean up instantly after he cooked of course), the kids, the pets, etc. He took good care of me. But the sex thing just wasn't there after we got married. Kinda sucked. He was an amazing man. I wish we were still friends. (Just kind of fell off the radar.)

I think a lot of what THN said is true. And if you can try to either find out what is up your wife's ass that has her all in a tizy and fix it to the best of your ability, try to save it.

If she is just being a bitch to be a bitch, well, not much more you can do about it if she isn't willing to try. Originally Posted by tntangie

What about when the wife just checks out of the relationship? Everyone has bad days, that is a given, but just checking out ...

Of course I can't speak for all women, but from my understanding it could be one of two things:

1) most women will endure a lot, but when they've had enough they've had enough. Some women will talk about what's bothering them and try to fix it and some won't. When she's finally had enough there's no turning back.

2) she found a better deal or thinks she found a better deal.

#2 is usually the reason a man up and checks out too though, isn't it? Grass is greener syndrome. Happens to the best of 'em.

I am right there with you guys. I am in my early 50's, still fit, all the girls at my office still think I am a handsome guy. I have worked on my career for a very long time, great house, she drives a brand new caddy suv....I paid for my kiddo's college, she drives a brand new lexus (graduation gift). my S.O. pays for nothing...absolutely nothing, I even still pay for everybodys cell phone..insurance.

and guess what.............. I an still an a-hole. go figure.

My SO said last night "we haven't had sex in like 2 months" I told her well get in bed, she says o' not now. WTF really - (sad but true)- That's why I hobby right there.

I honestly don't understand why a man or a woman would live in Hell rather than make a change in their lives.
Yes divorce sucks, it's painful for everyone for a while...then it gets better!

Why do you think you hear so many people say "I'm never doing THAT again"?
(Whether they do or not isn't the point)