I Like My Kisses Down Low....Do You?

Kammye,
thank you for letting me practice, so I can get better for you!!

Lol....man oh man, does that story take me back more than a few years.

Mid-seventies I had a similar discussion with an AA friend who said practically the same thing...."Why are you (white) guys are into that...?" I was somewhat shocked; not understanding why he or other AA guys would consider DATY taboo, etc....especially in light of the fact the young AA girl he was dating at that time was fine (we're talking a 9.9 here, guys...an amazing beauty IMO).

Flash forward, he stopped seeing her (for whatever reason) and began dating another lady (and being the opportunist I am) asked if Miss 9.9 was now "fair game" (some guys are funny about that kinda thing, right?....just didn't need to create a sh*t storm and figured it was the right thing to do anyway.) He was cool about it...if fact, gave me her number (after asking her if it was okay to do so, of course) and the ball, as they say, was then in my court.

Needless to say, it didn't take long to show her what she'd been missing. Oh, yeah....she was an immediate fan the pleasures oral delecti can give.

Side note, I was 26 at the time & a 38 y/o African-American co-worker asked me about DATY. He said, "Your people like to do it", stated some girl he was seeing wanted it and he replied, "No way." I told him he needs to rethink his evaluation very quickly. He asked me why. "Dude, if you get in there sucking, nibbling, slurping on her clit and stick a finger in her ass, you'll be rewarded 10 fold." He asked if I was serious, told him, "Dead Serious." Originally Posted by Mojo1972

Not only do I like it but my step mother said I was the best at it. Originally Posted by thirtyfour

Nailed it.

Most ladies I have been with seemed to really enjoy DATY. Aside from physical pleasure, I think the mental aspects of wanting to please them also is a major turn on for the female brain. Assuming you watch her reactions and pay attention to what she likes while dinning. Or they have fooled this ole fart with some fantastic IOP
End result: Make her feel great and she will turn you inside out in return little grasshopper.
R

Lol. . I disagree with u sweet Kammye. I don't return the favor. Cuz it is an honor to lick my pussy. , not a favor Originally Posted by SweetDulce

That attitude right there will lead to a lot less tongue thrashings missy.

Munching down on Kamm's little juice box?.....believe me, it's a good thing.... Originally Posted by Russ38

Most ladies I have been with seemed to really enjoy DATY. Aside from physical pleasure, I think the mental aspects of wanting to please them also is a major turn on for the female brain. Assuming you watch her reactions and pay attention to what she likes while dinning. Or they have fooled this ole fart with some fantastic IOP
End result: Make her feel great and she will turn you inside out in return little grasshopper.
R Originally Posted by romab

Excatly!

Kammye,
thank you for letting me practice, so I can get better for you!!
Originally Posted by fire engine red

Anytime!

Just grab my ears and pull me in.
You won't be disappointed Originally Posted by Slitlikr

Hello.....

It always excites me when a guy asks if he can go down there...well hell yeah all u want to baby! I'd have to say that's my number 1 turn on. We can start like that and then its all about you... Originally Posted by alexandriajuly

Yessss!

Lol. . I disagree with u sweet Kammye. I don't return the favor. Cuz it is an honor to lick my pussy. , not a favor Originally Posted by SweetDulce

Why let them do it, if your not going to return the favor? Hey whatever, its your kitty.

Girl i can just lay there for days. And cum over and over. Lol Originally Posted by Kammye

Ladies like you have the right attitude as I kinda like that vibe too.

I asked in man coediscusson this queston and had mixed results of ladies and gents s response.

I asked nd the thread was titled.......

" DATY, should I overwhelm giving O's or hold back and stop. Are multi O's 2 draining or 2 intimate 4 providers in session. Is their a limit?" How many orgasms makes it too PSE.....or is it all GFE.

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?p=10...post1056796692

So just curious ladies and gents your opinion on my thread. You can post here too if you wanna since its on topic.

Here's my thoughts on the topic from that thread:

I really think good daty is an awesome appetizer an nice means of foreplay prior to sexual intercourse that kinda sets a good mood. Builds comfortablity and builds anticipation. I lke setting the oral bar hgh before she services me too. So that mere 15 to 20 minutes most ladies average there will pale in comparison lol.......

So I have a little issue I've experienced on overnights with some ladies I no longer see. Every other element and attribute of our meet was perfect, but it caused me not to want to go back and took the motivation to perform away. Realize every woman is different and I appreciate those differences.

So I seek to overwhelm ladies ladies I see same as some do for me sexually and orally through very attentive and non teasing no forseeable time limit DATY. If I start there I wont stop until she peels me away, my tongue goes numb or my speech slurs, or she simply says stop. I can easily do this two hours straight and longer if she's with it and actually help her continuously achieves O's as it motivates me to continue. I find daty as intimate if not more than kissing. You really have to be in tune to what your partner likes.

So I had a lady a sugarbaby I used to see. Keywords used to see. What happened with her was when she would cum from daty........usually after an orgasm or two.......she would have a strong orgasm.......and then promptly told me she didnt want to be touched, cuddled with, or fondled for up to an hour or two after achieving orgasm. Said she was too sensitive and would pass out if I didn't stop so she claimed. No gentle tongue strokes or slow licking after to establish bodily trust either. It sucks because I'm happy that she's achieved orgasm, but it doesn't feel gfe to me with the treament after and the rules. Made it seem more pse to me (which if I know that beforehand not so much an issue as I can bring that vibe too, but dnt prefer to an rather be gfe/bfe) and moreso an appointment liabilty. I had to imagine and realize that if I overachieved and gave her a strong orgasm.....she would be hands off for a long time. And doing daty gets me real horny, so being told sex isnt avalable while she recovers is a freaking bother.

Other type session of daty that turn me off.

1. Lady bodily seems to be having orgasms, but will never tell you when she's about to or has came. I'm steady going to work tryng everything thnking I haven't discovered her yet.....and she just smply won't admit she's cumming continuously. They get you so perturbed they bring out the best in you lol.

2. The provider or lady that doesn't cum or achieve from daty at all ever. Just nothing you can do to get her there. Maybe less senstive now since it occurs so often....or just jaded to it, or simply doesn't like it. Just tolerates it basically

3. The provider that needs too much stuff done at same time to cum. Although I do like a challenge sometimes.......if I have to hold a sex toy to her clit in one hand while licking her clit and fingering her vagina and anus with the other available fingers......then licking my other hand to moisten her arieolas and twisting counterclockwise......etc..... ....that might be too much for me.

So here's my question to both ladies and gents here. But I hope ladies put their input here too.

1. Is there ever a situation where daty and O's associated from it need to be limited? Is this considered a PSE activity if I want to keep doing it, or is multiple msog daty still GFE?

2. Does too many daty orgasms effect your sexual performance after. Can all but assume knees may be weaker.....but are you less likely to return the favor in supreme fashion orally or intercourse wise if you are drained and serviced entirely first? Should I have her go first to get her at her best, or does good daty motivate you to step your game up the same? Originally Posted by gimme_that

Ladies like you have the right attitude as I kinda like that vibe too.

I asked in man coediscusson this queston and had mixed results of ladies and gents s response.

I asked nd the thread was titled.......

" DATY, should I overwhelm giving O's or hold back and stop. Are multi O's 2 draining or 2 intimate 4 providers in session. Is their a limit?" How many orgasms makes it too PSE.....or is it all GFE.

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?p=10...post1056796692

So just curious ladies and gents your opinion on my thread. You can post here too if you wanna since its on topic.

Here's my thoughts on the topic from that thread: Originally Posted by gimme_that

Two 4 me is good..then i wanna screw.

Nope, not me. DATY does nothing for me. I prefer my butt being bitten or played with. Not in a gross way...just a fun relaxing feel good way. That is how I have always been. I let guys do DATY if they enjoy it, but pleasing me is my boooottayyy lol