References:?'s. Please Define

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?p=796209#post796209


just a thought of maybe what the problem is

mmmmm same problem. At, new play ground. weeeee

But what about my other "?'s"

cutie, I try & get them to come to the hotel lobby or motel back or side door to grant me access to the place while I remain safely locked in my car. If she fits the bill Great!
If Not I can just drive away or in the case of the hotel lobby walk away as she isn't likely to make a scene in public and call undo attn to herself.

I hope this helps. Originally Posted by Stud Daddy

maybe here is another issue

mmm I was not thinking of that "?".

I was thinking of the easy to read ones of my naughty status.

maybe here is another issue Originally Posted by naughtynikki84

That is for BP & other girls/ladies with whom I am not familiar. The ladies in here have proven themselves to me and through their many positive reviews to be a quality Experience.

When Its a new deal, 1st time thing with someone I don't and have no real references on ( such as several positive reviews in here by known posters) I know I'm going to opt for my safety just as I'm sure you would for yourself. It also makes it look more like a friend visiting than a dumb john wandering the halls. It gives us both a chance to scope each other out in a less stressful circumstance. But that's just my view.

I stand by my seeming "Catch-22" comments. I re-emphasis my trust in the ladies here based on the overwhelming quality & quantity of positive reviews which do assuage my safety concerns.

You say you were a hobbyist in the past, so maybe your problem isn't a lack of ECCIE girl references? Originally Posted by Doove

Yeah Doove I was, not on this level per se' though. I dated out of the AC & was highly selective. My reputation amongst those ladies was impeccable. As was my experiences while on the road & using another service several years ago. Being safety conscious I don't usually keep incriminating evidence around, on my PC or Cell Ph where it could be accessed by anyone.

I guess you have minimal safety concerns. So be it.

patienceX3 Even as you have not met the References many. You may have of a few and not know it. Or maybe just close, and not know it. And the few could open or close other doors. As I reread this thread yes some doors to you are closed and locked. But yet not all. That would be part of the doing your home work. As it has been pointed out in this thread how. And some how you missed it, mmmmm ""Catch-22""????. Your very posts in the area's that the girls can post or only read. Can Unlock a door with lots of luck and care. But with ease a post can slam a door in your face, as you hear all the locks lock you hear a voive "why you here go away you not wanted here"...... Oh by the way to keep knocking at that door is a waste of time. Work on the one that may be closed and locked, but as of yet where not slammed closed then locked.

unfortunately first impressions are usually the most memorable... such as in what was posted here during your first few days of being a newbie to this site and the tips offered to fellow hobbyists with grandiose & egotistical attitude. i believe your handle has been around for a while and on other sites. any lady who does her research would be able see while you have taken a break for a bit, your style of posting has not. i will offer a suggestion that may or may not help you unlock the doors and you can heed the advice or go about your business as you have been. re read your posts above.... because instead of redeeming yourself, you only slammed more shut. with that said, ahhhhhhhhhhh, never mind. i'm tired of typing. some just don't and never will get it

You say you were a hobbyist in the past, so maybe your problem isn't a lack of ECCIE girl references? Originally Posted by Doove

Yeah Doove I was, not on this level per se' though. I dated out of the AC & was highly selective. My reputation amongst those ladies was impeccable. As was my experiences while on the road & using another service several years ago. Being safety conscious I don't usually keep incriminating evidence around, on my PC or Cell Ph where it could be accessed by anyone.

I guess you have minimal safety concerns. So be it. Originally Posted by Stud Daddy

I have no idea what the hell you're talking about, so i can only assume your response was based on your having no idea what i was talking about.

Originally Posted by Stud Daddy
Yeah Doove I was, not on this level per se' though. I dated out of the AC & was highly selective. My reputation amongst those ladies was impeccable. As was my experiences while on the road & using another service several years ago. Being safety conscious I don't usually keep incriminating evidence around, on my PC or Cell Ph where it could be accessed by anyone.

I guess you have minimal safety concerns. So be it.

I have no idea what the hell you're talking about, so i can only assume your response was based on your having no idea what i was talking about.

Blah!! I agree! I have read and re read all of this a million times *^%&%$&^

And I 2nd what Nikki has said

lots of misunderstandings it appears.

unfortunately first impressions are usually the most memorable... such as in what was posted here during your first few days of being a newbie to this site and the tips offered to fellow hobbyists with grandiose & egotistical attitude. i believe your handle has been around for a while and on other sites. any lady who does her research would be able see while you have taken a break for a bit, your style of posting has not. i will offer a suggestion that may or may not help you unlock the doors and you can heed the advice or go about your business as you have been. re read your posts above.... because instead of redeeming yourself, you only slammed more shut. with that said, ahhhhhhhhhhh, never mind. i'm tired of typing. some just don't and never will get it Originally Posted by naughtynikki84

Thank you for your kind suggestions.
This is the 1st time I've been an active member on a website of this type. However, I'm sure I'm not the 1st to use this name of some variation of it.

I apologize if you've been offended by any of my posts as that was not the intention. I did seek to share some of my knowledge & experiences from a MALE POV regarding safety. I'm sure they may differ or not agree with others viewpoints. It's just my dumb opinion & POV.

Safety & confidentiality are important issues fro all of us & I certainly respect the ladies POV as well & these posts serve to educate us all. Thanks again & have a Happy & Safe Holiday Season.

Can't this be relatively simple, escpecially on this site? If you want to see a lady, email, pm, text, phone-call her, what ever she has available to contact her on either her showcase, her provider ad, or from a review and ask her what she needs to see you? Provide her with what she needs and she will either see you in which case you are all set; or not see you then you move on to someone else and repeat the process. It can be a challange first getting cleared, but patience and courtesy will pay off!

From my experiences here, you can trust the ladies here, if there is a question if you can not there are many that can help you out if you can or cannot.

And don't burn a bridge behind you, as you may need or want to cross it again!

And don't burn a bridge behind you, as you may need or want to cross it again! Originally Posted by Laker

One of my favorite lines from Jane Austen's "Pride and Prejudice": "Good opinion once lost, is lost forever."

i don't think i'm misunderstood one bit. unfortunatly, i am not allowed to discuss the site i am talking about due to eccie rules. however what i saw on there........... . and a bit of lots of and just plain old