Uninterested/Bored Fetish?

There is growing fetish on this subject the porn industry is getting in out, the best one is where they have a couple girls playing xbox and 2 dudes are just plowing them from behind. However when I have my session, I want you to be a dirty vixen. :-)

You're totally not alone! And I think more guys get off on the idea of being ignored during sex than they let on.. I'm a Capricorn as well, naturally kind of nonchalant. I can remember being with exes, eating, ignoring them, playing video games simultaneously teasing them and withdrawing my advances. They would get so worked up, so hard and release so quick! Lol. And I'd never stop whatever it was I was doing.

I could really picture myself engrossed in a novel, playfully teasing yet ignoring a guy. Even when he's ready for action, I'm way too into my book l to even notice what's going on. Ooh, or maybe schoolgirl roleplay in that fashion.

Is that what it's called, or referred to as?

Is there a proper term?

I would just LOVE to receive some AWESOME DATY, or even get a good pounding, and be like...reading a book. I could even crochet. Originally Posted by bambigirl

Sounds like my marriage. LOL

This is NOT a "fetish."
It is just playing games with the other person or partner.

In FEMDOM it is just playing a game.

The body reacts to stimulation...even if the person "acts like" they are not involved.

This is NOT a "fetish."
It is just playing games with the other person or partner.

In FEMDOM it is just playing a game.

The body reacts to stimulation...even if the person "acts like" they are not involved. Originally Posted by *GoddessDallas*

So, you would say it falls under femdom, instead of humiliation? Or would you say this falls under both categories?

Kinda like newbie provider sex? I've been paying to satisfy someone else's fetish/fantasy? I could definitely do you if you don't call me Daddy.but go ahead; eat fried chicken; suck up a chocolate shake; read Ms. Magazine, I'm ready for another round in your alternate universe.

Kinda like newbie provider sex? I've been paying to satisfy someone else's fetish/fantasy? I could definitely do you if you don't call me Daddy.but go ahead; eat fried chicken; suck up a chocolate shake; read Ms. Magazine, I'm ready for another round in your alternate universe. Originally Posted by Sandsailor

Hahahaha! I don't think, even when I WAS a newbie, that I did this. This is solely something I'd only do in the hobby world IF both parties were in agreement. I'm BIG about mutual pleasure! And...you know I only eat organic/healthy. Haha! See you soon.

After reading through this thread multiple times, I am strangely aroused by this concept. I've never even considered this aspect of femdom before, but dammit... If you're ever in my neck of the woods, I'll damn sure give it a whirl.

I love this fetish, definitely a favorite of mine. I understand what Bambi means, I've wanted to fuck a partner that was attempting to act like nothing was going on at all. Yes, strange but that's what we like right? My struggle is being a bit blessed down there so it's hard for the woman to comfortably take it while also looking like nothing's going on lol

A former SO used to call her mother on weekend mornings while I was licking and fucking her. We both loved it. Took great self control on her part.

Love the smoking fantasy also.... in either role .... a nice cigar, a glass or two of good port, and a blowjob or cowgirl has been quite memorable in the past.

I knew a girl who used to say, "you can hump my ankle..'long as I can watch American idol over your shoulder"

this thread reminds me of her

I would want my sub to want to try to break me of my disinterest. Originally Posted by bambigirl

So your sayin you want your pussy eatin and act completely dissatisfied so the guy will try harder to please you?

....You just need your pussy tongue fucked till you pass out then pounded till you act right. Lol

Once I was researching/writing a paper and I happened to be bent over the counter doing so. My SO at the time came up behind me and stuck it in. I was like what the hell? But he told me to keep doing what I was doing so by golly I got the paper done!!! lol

So your sayin you want your pussy eatin and act completely dissatisfied so the guy will try harder to please you?

....You just need your pussy tongue fucked till you pass out then pounded till you act right. Lol Originally Posted by Thinkinwithmydick

It's more than that...but...I am not submissive and prefer clit stimulation and overall licking/sucking than tongue fucking.

I had a gf who enjoyed being fucked from behind, while I conducted business on the phone, smoked a cigarette, and used her back as a coffee table for the ash tray. I'd slap her ass hard if the ashtray fell off. When she came, I'd hold the phone near her mouth so the person on the other end could hear her coming.

The person on the phone was invariably shocked, and then impressed, when they realized I was taking a business call while fucking.