so...what if I like you?

I agree with Woody.....if I received a PM/txt from a provider I had seen telling me she had a great time and would enjoy seeing me again, I would remember it for a long time; assuming I too had a great time, I would likely return for a follow-up date in short-order.

I get it many guy's don't want any communication initiated by the provider for various reasons that all make sense.....but not me.

If I were one of a provider's fav's, I would want to know. I think a provider's direct marketing initiatives, if done correctly, have great potential with select clients. Endless "perks" she could extend beyond of price to instill loyalty. I like to know my business is appreciated and like knowing she really wants me to come back. Rarely happens for me....but feels great when it does.
I'm gonna go with fuck who you want as hard and dirty as you want.
I'm gonna go with fuck who you want as hard and dirty as you want.
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I'm gonna go with fuck who you want as hard and dirty as you want. Originally Posted by lookintoo1
RIGHT ON!!! + 100,000,000,000
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RIGHT ON!!! + 100,000,000,000 Originally Posted by Savannah Moon
What she said!
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  • Emmie
  • 09-04-2015, 08:02 AM
I'm gonna go with fuck who you want as hard and dirty as you want. Originally Posted by lookintoo1
YES YES YES!!!
Like what you do not who you do it with......
Just a few thoughts.

First of all, I appreciate the OP's intent with this - but the 'that was awesome, honey' line is pretty much how most providers close out a session. There are a couple of providers that I have heard that from where I think it's genuine, but most of us are conditioned to just smile and think that it's good customer service and starting the 'sale' for the next session.

That said, I never mind getting a PM from a provider if we've had a great time together. I'd prefer not getting a text, though, just because you never know where I might be and who I might be around when the text alarm goes off. Remember, discretion is the most important thing in the hobby.
I guess I just know who I can and can't text. Plus, I'd like to think most people appreciate when I compliment them. I appreciate it. I mean, I know I'm good as shit between the sheets but a compliment every now and again does make me smile.
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I guess I just know who I can and can't text. Plus, I'd like to think most people appreciate when I compliment them. I appreciate it. I mean, I know I'm good as shit between the sheets but a compliment every now and again does make me smile. Originally Posted by Gemma34
A compliment can go a very long way in making someones day. It's going to be even better to compliment you between the sheets because you are HOT!
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Like what you do not who you do it with...... Originally Posted by i'va biggen
That's HILARIOUS ☆♡☆
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Personally, I love when ladies I've shared enjoyable times with get in contact with me by PM or text to let me know they are available / back in town. I can't always shift my schedule for appointments but if I'm worth your while to reach out and contact it does make me feel like we've had a solid.

That said, most of us would agree that by being your booty call it would cross boundaries.
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quote===I'm gonna go with fuck who you want as hard and dirty as you want.

fuck yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
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  • Dkayz
  • 09-05-2015, 09:18 PM
I've had this type of a relationship with two providers before. The first one we pretty much just extended our first session way past the time it was supposed to run and she said she liked to spend time with me and asked if I wouldn't mind hanging out off the clock while I was in town. Not sure how the conversation went exactly, but it was more like an actual relationship when I was in town, but we both knew each others' limits and when I'm not in that area we rarely talk. It's just one of those things where it's great when I'm in town, but it's not serious to the point where I think she wants to give up hobbying for a SD and she doesn't think I want to steal her away and marry her or some bs. It's mutual.

The other one, we met under weird terms, but hung out before a session ever happened and it's similar, where if I'm in town we just have sex all day on and off for a while and we're cool with seeing other people.
Gotta luv Savannah )! I like the way you think