Best provider for overweight guys...

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However, please quote for me the part of the original poster's thread where he asked to be lectured to, because I sure missed it. He came here to ask a question. Answer his question or just move the hell on. Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

lecture?
what lecture are you talking about?
My post was just trying to determine what he was really worried about?

BCPL could have put it a bit more politely however I agree with everything he says.
So what's the solution?. Originally Posted by kc810m

more polite?
how? I didnt call him names,I was looking for what he was really worried about?
Even on BP there are providers who say they are patient with guys with ED
or do you think the OP was really worried about he looks and his smell?

Make the damn lifestyle changes, stop being lazy and feeling sorry for yourself. Be more active, get out and help others and you will feel better about yourself. Start by going on long walks, then pick up the pace. Next step get a trainer and learn how to lose weight in the gym working with weights and cardiovascular exercises.

We can sit and BS each other all day long but fat is fat and we need to make changes or this will get even uglier than it is now. Originally Posted by kc810m

he can't be more active, he has a bum leg or something
what he can do is eat less
eat nutrious food/calories to heal his foot/leg without getting obese(vit K, veggies/fruit/ lean protein.) not snickers and twix and sugar water)

I used to have a job where I pushed paper and I'd have a huge punch bowl filled with candy(payday, snickers, sweettartssalt water taffy, twix) all mini, but I'd have it cause I liked watching coworkers look at it and try to resist and eventually eat some of it..
ever watch the netflix show MARCOs, I felt like I was legally giving away product!

in america ever social interaction is involving food.
even as I type this I'm eating chocolate cake and twinkies and a liters of coke! hmmm(right, I'm getting fat, but the posters on this board can"t be mean and tell me stop eating, or say anything bad? right?
sure we can make fun of people with yelllow teeth, crappy skin, and smell like tar/nicotine because those are the reprussions of smoking, but in Merica, we can't say anything bad when you suffer the reprecussions of eating too much!

but when you are lean you can overeat and not gain fat the same way(or at all) unlike when you are fat
it has to do with leptin kinetics, but not worth getting into cause wrong audience
or read this
http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/fat...n-part-1.html/

Here come all the fat people in defense.... ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZz
We can sit and BS each other all day long but fat is fat Originally Posted by kc810m

I won't disagree with you that obesity is becoming a serious problem. If you would care to mosey on over to the Sandbox, I will be happy to share my thoughts with you on the causes and solutions for obesity.

However, please quote for me the part of the original poster's thread where he asked to be lectured to, because I sure missed it. He came here to ask a question. Answer his question or just move the hell on. Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

He does not care much for c-section scars either...too bad we can't lure him into the SH.....

I love a sexy toned female abdomen. Not some nasty C-section-scared bad skinned mess. Also it's a huge turn off if their torso goes straight down -----> | | meaning no shape. Fat and bellies are gross too imo. Originally Posted by kc810m

He'll be really screwed if his SO ever has an emergency section.....

My chime in:

I think it is more of an issue the men have than the women, although I have had many reference requests from younger women asking questions regarding weight, ED etc. I believe it is because they don't really understand what being a provider is about and possibly because they really don't want to be in the business. I will take an overweight person over a jerk any day of the week.

I have no discrimination and am not a large woman. Race, weight, performance, disability etc. are not factors. Respect, being a gentleman, reputation and hygiene are reasonable concerns. How someone functions or if they function is no matter to me in time and companionship.

I have often wondered though, why I don't get many requests from larger men and have come to the conclusion that they must be more comfortable with women larger than me, which is totally an individual choice, but certainly not something I have ever advertised. If you are with a smaller women, the only thing I would mention to be mindful of, is the obvious logistics of your size and hers and not injuring her. I have been with large men who were not and came out physically in pain afterwards due to the impact of weight on my frame. As I said, I mean that with no disrespect, just something to keep in mind.

What most people said here is right. I don't even ask prior nor do I look at the section on enhancers and weight etc.on P411. While I believe everyone has the right to see who they choose, for whatever reasons they choose, you will find the best providers care about safety, hygiene, respect, reputation (like don't make an ass of yourself on the board or you are probably already on lots of DNS lists..not mentioning names). I believe that it is my job to stay good looking and your job to follow the above general terms

Best of luck to you!

My chime in:

I think it is more of an issue the men have than the women, although I have had many reference requests from younger women asking questions regarding weight, ED etc. I believe it is because they don't really understand what being a provider is about and possibly because they really don't want to be in the business. I will take an overweight person over a jerk any day of the week. Originally Posted by Ari816

same as this larger guy,
he was more concerned about his looks/weight and maybe ED which is why he posted this thread. He doesnt know how to be a john

I have no discrimination and am not a large woman. Race, weight, performance, disability etc. are not factors. Respect, being a gentleman, reputation and hygiene are reasonable concerns. How someone functions or if they function is no matter to me in time and companionship.

I have often wondered though, why I don't get many requests from larger men and have come to the conclusion that they must be more comfortable with women larger than me, which is totally an individual choice, but certainly not something I have ever advertised. If you are with a smaller women, the only thing I would mention to be mindful of, is the obvious logistics of your size and hers and not injuring her. I have been with large men who were not and came out physically in pain afterwards due to the impact of weight on my frame. As I said, I mean that with no disrespect, just something to keep in mind. Originally Posted by Ari816

is that your opinion or do you have facts to back that up?
seems like you are making an opinion, not based on any facts except fat guys dont want to see you.

What most people said here is right. I don't even ask prior nor do I look at the section on enhancers and weight etc.on P411. While I believe everyone has the right to see who they choose, for whatever reasons they choose, you will find the best providers care about safety, hygiene, respect, reputation (like don't make an ass of yourself on the board or you are probably already on lots of DNS lists..not mentioning names). I believe that it is my job to stay good looking and your job to follow the above general terms Originally Posted by Ari816

you BELIEVE everyone has a right to see who they choose?

yes, that is correct, whether you believe it or not, people get to pick who they see

yes, a provider staying cute, has more options of whom to see then one who does not stay fit and gets a lot of NCNS and whines(not naming any names)

but then again, escorting is how you make all/a lot of money
while guys dont have a rules to follow we give money to girls we want to bang/spend time with

DNS lists..compiled from how a dude posts on an annoyoumous internet fourm and not hard facts?
sounds like someone (not naming any names) has missed out on lotta cash over the years.

using an internet forum instead of references? that's what is being suggested right?(not naming any names)


carry on

I love big guys!!!! Bigger guys are usually more cuddly, and respectful, and very pleasing. As long as your clean and smelling good and respectful I don't care.
I just put up an ad that I'm coming for Monday but don't know now if that's happening but if I am able to get there sweets I would love to see you...

I love big guys!!!! Bigger guys are usually more cuddly, and respectful, and very pleasing. As long as your clean and smelling good and respectful I don't care.
I just put up an ad that I'm coming for Monday but don't know now if that's happening but if I am able to get there sweets I would love to see you... Originally Posted by shayla84

yeah as
fat guys have lots of belly fat, armotaste converets testostrone into estrogen(ie manboobs)
as House Says(from Skin Deep)

"He has cancer, on his left testicle." Alex has "male pseudohermaphroditism." House tells Alex, "in about 1 in 150,000 pregnancies a fetus with an XY chromosome, a boy, develops into something else. Like you. Your testes never descended because you're immune to testosterone. You're pure estrogen, which is why you get heightened female characteristics; clear skin, great breasts. The ultimate woman is a man."

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I can explain it to you but I can't understand it for you! (one of my Ariisms that VK loved)

I never said it was a fact, although I'm sure my opinion would be very relevant in a study gathering facts, based on my vast experience.

I have often wondered though, why I don't get many requests from larger men and I have come to the conclusion that they must be more comfortable with women larger than me, which is totally an individual choice, but certainly not something I have ever advertised.

This is painful, but here ya go-

Conclusion

A judgment or decision reached by reasoning: "each research group came to a similar conclusion"

fact

1. something that actually exists; reality; truth: Your fears have no basis in fact.
2. something known to exist or to have happened: Space travel is now a fact.
3. a truth known by actual experience or observation; something known to be true: Scientists gather facts about plant growth

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I can explain it to you but I can't understand it for you! (one of my Ariisms that VK loved)

I never said it was a fact, although I'm sure my opinion would be very relevant in a study gathering facts, based on my vast experience.

I have often wondered though, why I don't get many requests from larger men and I have come to the conclusion that they must be more comfortable with women larger than me, which is totally an individual choice, but certainly not something I have ever advertised.

This is painful, but here ya go-

Conclusion

A judgment or decision reached by reasoning: "each research group came to a similar conclusion"

fact

1. something that actually exists; reality; truth: Your fears have no basis in fact.
2. something known to exist or to have happened: Space travel is now a fact.
3. a truth known by actual experience or observation; something known to be true: Scientists gather facts about plant growth Originally Posted by Ari816

*sigh*

LOL
let me see
so you have no science, yet you think you have facts?

so you are saying,"HAY GUYS I FILLED THIS JUG WITH OCEAN WATER! I don't have any fish!
THERFOR IT IS A FACT THAT!
THERE ARE NO FISH IN THE OCEAN

LOl
that's what you've done, right?

maybe you understand that,
doubtful as I know your background
keep up the "smart assremarks", hope they take your mind off reality

I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you. Do you understand that????

Your nonsense comparison made no sense. I see why so many guys warned me of your ignorance and "witty responses." You are not even in the same conversation with me....keep making yourself look like an ass....Hopefully more girls will see this.

Believe me, I am not wasting my energy on you. I AM USING YOU AS A PLATFORM FOR MY THOUGHTS, while amusing myself with your idiotic responses.

Now crawl into that hole you came from and stay there...we have no use for people like you in this community!

I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you. Do you understand that????... Originally Posted by Ari816

No, he doesn't and I doubt he ever will. He has successfully run another thread off the track, so we're done here.