Masterbation during a session

I masturbate occasionally at the beginning of daddy/daughter or teacher/student roleplay. It does raise the little soldier and he is ready to go to war in no time .

Now that I am older, I have a problem with a third pop in a session. Masturbation is sometimes the solution.

There is nothing finer than watching a women masturbate. Any position that allows me see everything drives me over the edge.

I LOVE to jack off for women !!!

Great thread! I've always wanted a session like that.

Turn this into a sticky someone. Thank you all who have contributed and OP.

I don't even need to check... It's wet. Ok.

Touching myself is soooooo private, and I like a guy to:

a. Ask me, or tell me to do this in front of him, and it makes me feel a little embarrassed but like a bad axx at the same time. Pulls me from timid to empowered, huge rush. For me it is super naughty because I've hidden it for so long.

b. Mutual Masturbation is AWESOME. I like exploring each other. I'm more into being touched kinda lightly. I'm not big on having the clit rammed hard at all. Plus I like knowing what he likes, start light here, go strong here. I LOVE instructions.

c. Telling me how to touch myself, and how to move my body like I just fell out of my egg shell. It makes me feel like I'm being touched and sexually awakened for the first time... like we're in high school and you just found out I don't have a clue what an orgasm is.

d. Taking his hand/fingers and having him feel me the way I'd feel on myself. This takes a partner with patience and self control, and also on my part.

e. Finger fxxing, dancing on your finger as you direct my body movement or you watching me dance on mine (because by now I'm past all the shy, embarrassed part)

f. For the session to have some lasting memory, that once you leave and I get in the shower I can't help but knock a few more out because I'm feeling so good.

I always pondered ...if yew don't want to have sex with yourself, who else would? Sex with me is freaking FANTASTIC without even trying lol so sex by myself?? I've had the best orgasms of all time alone! That sounds kinda pathetic now that I wrote that... anyway. Think I need a ...cold shower after all of this XOXOX MWAH!!!

There's a scene in last week's episode of Fargo (Season 2, Episode 4: Fear and Trembling) where the Kitchen Brothers are in a room waiting, each one playing solitaire. I thought the metaphor of the scene beautiful, but I also thought, "Why aren't they playing gin rummy, or some such game, together?"

I don't understand solitaire for two, and never have. Based on the answers in this thread, that puts me squarely in the minority. Maybe someone would be kind enough to explain to me why her hands (or mouth) should be on her lady parts and not on my man parts, and ditto for how my hands (or mouth) ought be employed? Originally Posted by inspector farquar

Sex is in the brain, and most enjoyable when your brain is allowed to play freely. Bieng in the same room, yet not touching each other, puts your brain to work, trying to imagine what is turning him/her on so much that he/she is flashing, and playing calling out your attention.

Maybe someone would be kind enough to explain to me why her hands (or mouth) should be on her lady parts and not on my man parts, and ditto for how my hands (or mouth) ought be employed? Originally Posted by inspector farquar

First off, lets just toss out any and all "shoulds." When you are sharing intimate space, there is only what comes naturally.

When someone is turned on, whether man or woman, they touch themselves. It's a natural response. If a woman is touching herself, in front of you, she is communicating that she is turned on, by YOU. Seeing a guy touch himself, in response to me, is a very powerful and erotic form of foreplay.

Also, when a woman touches herself in front of you, she is communicating something else too. She's revealing "her little secret." You could go on fumbling and frustrating the both of you trying to figure out how the apparatus works, or she can just demonstrate, exactly what she likes. And likewise, every man masturbates differently. It is very unique and special.

And of course, as has already been addressed, there is that wonderful teasing aspect to it. How long can you go before you just can't help yourself and you have to let your hands start wandering to the other person.

Try not to limit yourself with pre-conceived notions of how intimate time "should" go. You'll miss out on a lot that way.

I have an obsession with having someone masturbate and cum on me. Mostly my ass but I like it on my tits and stomach too. I guess I never thought about it much. I keep short nails so I can fingerbang with comfortability for her pleasure.. that's how regular it is to me. I think it's hot. Kind of like a "I'm playing with it, don't you wanna find out what it's all about?" serves as an invitation and works in the imagination well when it's mutual masturbation.

TL/DR: I'm all in.. well actually one is good.. then go for two.

I love watching a man masturbate, that turns me on which makes it even hotter during a session.

Who doesn't like to masturbate.It's fun to watch each others.

One of the hottest moments in my hobby life was in a session where we were both masturbating while sitting facing each other making eye contact and telling the other what we liked and wanted to do to each other... definitely one of the most intense orgasms I have had and her watching and talking me thru it is something I wont forget.... wish I could see her again.....

Its all good!

I have found the men get bored watching and dont even appreciate my big O!
and forget anal toys..they seemed umm to just plain blah.
i understand they paid for me to work on them.. but really.

thats been my experience.

Big turn on!