You know what really grinds my gears?

God forbid someone have an opinion about something. I guess little miss P has life all figured out. And butt hurt? Really? If anyone is butt hurt its you. You come on here and start bitchin left and right. It's not a big freakin deal. One mans thoughts. That's all. Why do you keep saying I should close the thread? I have no problem with people reading my opinion and commenting their own. But when someone gets all bent out of shape because of mine... That's just retarded.

And like I said this girl is not on here! So I'm not making anything public about one of our many lovely ladies of eccie.

I admire you for eating crow and keeping your thread open eventhough your view on the matter is largely on the side most won't be on. You should specify that they shouldn't call u back with a time limit. But BP chcks don't care and don't have ettiquette.

Id at least want a lady to respond. Than to blow me off.

A lot of ECCIE girls advertise on BP. A lot of BP girls are verified here. It's not a BP issue, it's a lady issue.

With that said, bitching about someone never wins you any friends.

What grinds my gears more than what the OP posted is when I call, they answer and we set something up, and when the appointed time comes......nothing. No answer, no call back, nothing. That has happened to me a few times. Once, the girl did call back....3 DAYS LATER and said she was ready now!!! I realize some of these ladies are, shall we say, flaky. But damn, it still gets annoying when that happens.

By the way, I haven't had that problem with ECCIE girls except for one and she isn't on here anymore anyway.

I had an Eccie girl cancel on me last minute, she is still on here. She got mad I did not respond to my hobby phone right away. I don't know what these women want but our communication for the previous two days was great, the screening process, time set up, everything. She just got a better offer last minute but she did text me to cancel. Still had no where to go for the time I was out. I do not look at hobby phone at the office, everyone knows what my real cell looks like and pulling out a cheap ass flip hobby phone during work hours is not going to work for me. Hobby phones have there problems too. Staff come in and out of offices very freely cant risk it.

Many people get a cheap ass, flip open phone for a backup because they have a broken smart phone with the shattered glass until their iphone is repaired. I have friends with cheap company cell phones,,, they can only get text and calls.
Friend of mine gave his college kid a cheap flip open phone without internet ability. Serves his purpose and not someone elses.
A smart person has enough sense to set his cheap ass phone on silent mode and feel the vibration setting for incoming calls.
The lady is not perfect and isn't here to resolve all your problems,,,

My cheap ass flip phone stays on silent at all times, cant have phone vibrating and I am talking to a co-worker that says" Go ahead take the call... I'll wait." I leave it in the car where I take much less risk of a co-worker seeing it. Lady just got a better offer, she even text me to tell me that. It was unprofessional to do the screening two days in advance, set a time in advance over 24 hours and then cancel due to a better offer. I wont see her on to the next. A lot of members say get hobby phone, but it has problems to. No sure way to do this.

One mod said, use common sense. Everyone has to suddendly go to the bathroom if they have stomach problems (common reason used to get to a private place), people can thinck fast on their feet and say,,,I will take this call in private or call them back since it's a family matter. Family matters are not done at work and that would be a excuse used for not taking that call in front of a person at work. I glance at the caller id and say,,,family member, will call them on my break time.
Do people thinck it is so difficult to make communication easeir,,, timing is not always right. Things do not go the exact way you WANT IT.
The providers are NOT here to be critized for breathing,,,
Everything is NOT thier fault,,,

I had an Eccie girl cancel on me last minute, she is still on here. She got mad I did not respond to my hobby phone right away. I don't know what these women want but our communication for the previous two days was great, the screening process, time set up, everything. She just got a better offer last minute but she did text me to cancel. Still had no where to go for the time I was out. I do not look at hobby phone at the office, everyone knows what my real cell looks like and pulling out a cheap ass flip hobby phone during work hours is not going to work for me. Hobby phones have there problems too. Staff come in and out of offices very freely cant risk it. Originally Posted by Boudin3112

Some let the anger make the decision for them...I don't get mad I've always tried to be understanding of personal life and keeping discreet is very important

This (d)evolved into such a lively thread. What grinds my gears are impartial or bullshit inquiries such as: "how much is the donations?" Or "u available," or "do you do nude wrestling." I'm glad I switched to only sharing my number after someone has completed screening.

Anyhoo I guess this thread reminds us, everyone, not just the OP, is leading full lives and may not always be available right away to correspond. Perhaps leave a message letting someone know when does and doesn't work to get back to you so there don't have to be guessing games involved. My $0.02

The gears aren't completely ground down by now and unable to shift?

Only someone that has no life whatsoever and no street smarts at all would text you back. However people are spoiled and I have no idea where they grew up without any sense in their heads. They act like they have no idea they might be sleeping with a married man or prostitution is illegal or anything else. Disrespectful and brainless. It blows my mind, frankly. I hope to hell I am never in an emergency with one of these people because they will get you in trouble.

Only someone that has no life whatsoever and no street smarts at all would text you back. However people are spoiled and I have no idea where they grew up without any sense in their heads. They act like they have no idea they might be sleeping with a married man or prostitution is illegal or anything else. Disrespectful and brainless. It blows my mind, frankly. I hope to hell I am never in an emergency with one of these people because they will get you in trouble. Originally Posted by playwithkate

Well thank you miss Kate! Surely I couldn't be the only one that felt that way!

Only someone that has no life whatsoever and no street smarts at all would text you back. However people are spoiled and I have no idea where they grew up without any sense in their heads. They act like they have no idea they might be sleeping with a married man or prostitution is illegal or anything else. Disrespectful and brainless. It blows my mind, frankly. I hope to hell I am never in an emergency with one of these people because they will get you in trouble. Originally Posted by playwithkate

With the dumbass some folks are...
You are correct ma'am. Common sense is a super power.
Greeklover knows that I respect his home life and his SO.