A Hobbiest Who Bashes Providers on The Board ....

And a hobbiest who treats a provider as such on the board has the tendency of treating a provider, SO, wife, etc the same in person. The person is the person they are.

I may have over simplified the term split personality in my previous statement. You do raise a good point, as have others on this thread that it may not be congruent to generalize those that display a disparaging behavior towards certain women on this board would associate with behavior of treating them poorly BCD. But it does beg the question why; why is it okay to belittle BBWs and older providers on the board, but have one's buddies come out and defend that person's personality as being genuine and good-natured? The obvious answer, to me, is that they are flat out misogynists. Not that they have a deep-rooted hatred of women, but are carrying over trauma involving a female figure they trusted; an abusive or negligent mother, sister, or girlfriend that pressed fear into their vulnerable minds. This kind of behavior could lead one to believe they have a split personality, but I'm not psychologist nor am I qualified to make that kind of leap. Originally Posted by Billy Shakes

I wonder why these hobbyist don't see the pattern?

Because its a figment of your feeble mind.

Sadly, no.

Maybe, but not necessarily. Some people do project themselves differently on an online persona thats vastly different from how they truly are. I recently found this out, which I really dont understand but to each his own. I also think it's the providers choice whether or not she chooses to see individuals who act that way and deal with them in person. If she has issues with disrespect in person the same way she's seen him act online, kind of her risk for accepting those standards in the first place. Hopefully she would stick with gentlemen. Originally Posted by JadeRose

I just think if you stick with a guy who has less problems there will be less problems.

Aren't we all living double lives or sporting split personalities? Originally Posted by sixxbach

No. And compartmentalization is not a difficult concept to understand.

For some it is.

No. And compartmentalization is not a difficult concept to understand. Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

Mike/Dante... You need to start wrapping up and keeping it dry.....

It's starting to look like most guys fears are becoming a reality for ya!

I can easily see how someone who is aggressive, critical, rude and even insulting on these boards could be a polite, clean, considerate and paying drama free client.

I think instead it comes down to what service is being offered.

A lady may see herself as offering her companionship and comfort on clear terms and sees it as a mutually beneficial (and not wholly black and white) exchange of pleasure for financial support. Such might not choose to serve the few who they might feel have expressed contempt for "whores" here, viewing them as seminal ashtrays and almost sub-human meat to be graded, however much they keep those views to themselves in person. I see some ladies here saying pretty much that.

Of course others might not care, a bucks a buck. A different service could be indulging such a client to bolster their ego or fulfill whatever dominant "nasty whore" fantasy gets them hard, especially if they don't show it too much in person.

Different strokes for different folks.

I can easily see how someone who is aggressive, critical, rude and even insulting on these boards could be a polite, clean, considerate and paying drama free client.

I think instead it comes down to what service is being offered.

A lady may see herself as offering her companionship and comfort on clear terms and sees it as a mutually beneficial (and not wholly black and white) exchange of pleasure for financial support. Such might not choose to serve the few who they might feel have expressed contempt for "whores" here, viewing them as seminal ashtrays and almost sub-human meat to be graded, however much they keep those views to themselves in person. I see some ladies here saying pretty much that.

Of course others might not care, a bucks a buck. A different service could be indulging such a client to bolster their ego or fulfill whatever dominant "nasty whore" fantasy gets them hard, especially if they don't show it too much in person.

Different strokes for different folks. Originally Posted by irishlad

Well said! Also note that there are those that are simply laughing their respective asses off as to how worked up others get by simply making a statement or offering an opinion. Some people take this board WAY to seriously! It is fun to witness I must admit! Like Dante0322 / Mike Vronsucky's man crush on me and a few others. Funnier than shit! Notice he doesn't answer questions? He just keeps posting the same old BS. Nothing anyone says effects him. When he gets shook up his front gets larger and often turns to RED. No one needs to be here for him to post. He is in his own little world.

Dante0322 / Mike Vronsucky's


No one needs to be here for him to post. He is in his own little world. Originally Posted by Still Looking

LMAO! So True

Notice he doesn't answer questions? He just keeps posting the same old BS. Nothing anyone says effects him. When he gets shook up his front gets larger and often turns to RED. No one needs to be here for him to post. He is in his own little world. Originally Posted by Still Looking

There's no arguing with that. When I read his posts I see images of some nerd in a cubicle smacking his monitor and punching his keyboard.

There's no arguing with that. When I read his posts I see images of some nerd in a cubicle smacking his monitor and punching his keyboard. Originally Posted by Windinhishair

Fuck... I've seen the same image....

Do I detect a Mike Fagotsky obsession here?

Do I detect a Mike Fagotsky obsession here? Originally Posted by fun2come

Careful Fun.... once this guy latches onto you he's like a sticky booger you can't get rid of!