What better way to grow as a provider than to read threads like this?
I've had a few moments in the past two weeks where I've thought... no wonder these girls act like they do!
My 'I'm tired' list is getting long as well. My reputation may not be established publicly and on Eccie, but I take good care of my regular guys. However, I'm starting to believe I'm too damn nice. I like to connect with someone before I meet with them. I never watch the clock and it's important to me that our time together NOT feel like a 'session'. But lately, I feel like a few people are just flat out taking advantage. It can be easy to allow a few shit heads to ruin it for yourself.
I don't know any other standard, other than my own, by which I opperate. I appreciate good people. Not rich people. (Not all good men make a ton of money and not all men that make a ton of money are good men) I'm genuinely a nice person and I think that gets mistaken for being gullible.
If I do happen to up my donation... I don't up it on my regulars. If your having a bad week, I get it. But don't keep telling me every week is a bad week. People that feel appreciated tend to go above and beyond...
Annnnnd Lets give to Provider Marketing
I think maybe a lot of girls look and see what other providers publish without even considering that they would be expected to meet that expectation during a session. The goal: obviously... attract more calls. I call that marketing tactic... the 'One Hit Wonder'. Good marketing takes thought/creativity. I see where that can be tough for some. It's an ever evolving world.
Last thing (sorry, I know I've went on). Having a connection with your provider is kind of important, right? So one guys experience with a provider may not be the same as the next guy. I feel like you should be able to guage what type of experience you will have with a provider... just by paying attention to how she connects with you when you call to set up an appointment. Was she hurried? Vague? Business like? Inviting? Interested? Nice?!
In this lifestyle we all have our days. Reading this just helped seeing it from a different perspective.