A question for providers and experienced clients

Could you point me in the right direction Jules? I am trying to find the respected providers that see newbies but it's like finding a needle in a haystack. Thanks for all the help and I hope to see you someday. Originally Posted by j.huernz

To those who are tired of lurking, and/or don't know how and where to get started . . .

I am very newbie friendly and have helped a lot of gentlemen get in, or get back into the hobby! Quite naturally, I do have a screening process, but it is very quick and easy.

Here's the link:
http://www.mybrownsugarbaby.com/screening

After screening and popping your newbie cherry, I can vouch for you as a reference and refer you to P411. Just keep in mind, that when a provider refers you to P411, you can get six months membership for free.

Jesus, the ML is being touted as the land where honesty resides? The last time I was in there it was a bunch of fucking whiners wondering where to get their ED fixed or bitching about why providers thought they were weasels for bagging on them or NCNS whining or bragging about their studliness. With a few notable exceptions. The same horseshit that haunts the open forums is alive and well in ML, only the nutless fuckheads who won't come out and bag on a bitch in public go in there and snipe. ML, where manly men throw limp darts from cover. There is a place where the truth can be told but you have to outgrow whining in the shadows to get in. Kind of like whining about newbie stigma. Search, strap on a pair, hold your nose and dive in. You might end up in the Ozarka spring or the Trinity, but at least your feet are wet and you aren't whining. You want a guarantee, buy a coffee pot. You want some pussy pick up the phone.

Godammit I know better than to read this shit. Every time I encounter the unending cycle of madness this happens. PrettyFuckingMarvelousTony, why have you forsaken us?

i'm blonde I've no issues seeing new hobbyist
but I do screen !

Why do providers not like newbies? We all have to start somewhere. Will providers be more easy going if I grab a P411 account? I'm a legit client and if I can get some beautiful, busty blonde providers I would be happy. Please help me with some advice for my journey. Originally Posted by j.huernz

Not to belie the obvious but since you asked:

You could be a cop.
You could be a nut.
You might not smell good or just be gross.
You could be a horse's ass.

By "you" I don't mean you. I mean the generic newbie.

Looks like you've gotten some great guidance. Go with it. Just don't be any of the above. Lol

I do have a screening process, but it is very quick and easy.

Here's the link:
http://www.mybrownsugarbaby.com/screening Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

Adrienne, does the name have to be the newbie's real name or will the screen name be enough?

I was newbie friendly up until not too long ago. Not because I had any bad experiences with newbies, but due to the time and effort it takes to get a newbie screened. With my full time job, I do not have time for it any longer. When screening a newbie, your 1 hour appointment actually becomes a several hour appt. By the time you go back and forth several times to get info. Actually take the time to screen (various methods, it isn't just a phone call or email), then of course the time getting the appointment scheduled, get to the apartment get ready, appointment, then cleanup time after the gent leaves. That can equal out to several hours. I prefer to just look up your P411, see a few ladies that I know and boom make the appointment.

I had a few weeks off during the holidays, so I had some free time then but not any longer. When I was screening newbies, most of them were very nice and a bit nervous. And once I explained my methods, they were okay. Some gents who were newbies, did not want to give any screening information other than "my handle is ...., my email is ...." that should be enough. Ummm NO.

In agreement about when choosing newbie friendly provider, I check to make sure the girl is a P411 lady. If not, I will not contact her for a reference. Period.

As a total newbie myself, I'll say thanks to the OP for asking the questions he did. I'm using the SEARCH button a lot trying to educate myself, and it's helpful to see the responses and guidance some of you have provided.

I sent a PM to a provider a few days ago who stated she was 'newbie-friendly', but I see that she has since changed to "No longer newbie friendly". I hope I didn't scare her off!!

I still hope to see her someday. In the meantime I'll keep looking for a newbie-friendly provider. Perhaps one listed on this thread. :-)

I've read conflicting suggestions on what to say in an initial PM. The impression I get at this point is to NOT mention specific services or fees, but to just say something friendly and say I'd like to meet her sometime... Originally Posted by whynottx

I'd say you're pretty safe with the "don't mention specific activites" in the initial PM. I complimented my first provider on her numerous positive reviews (which I read several of) and asked if she had some time available for a get together. Things went pretty smoothly after that.

Adrienne, does the name have to be the newbie's real name or will the screen name be enough? Originally Posted by Stanfeld

Real name, along with a blood/urine sample, and an anal swab.

All of those things are disposed of and placed into the hazardous waste bin once you are screened.

I'd say you're pretty safe with the "don't mention specific activites" in the initial PM. I complimented my first provider on her numerous positive reviews (which I read several of) and asked if she had some time available for a get together. Things went pretty smoothly after that. Originally Posted by feetnstuff187

I've found some lovely ladies that are newbie-friendly. Stay calm. Stay calm.