The two-faced hobbyist

Yes!!!! Agreed!

I think there should be a section to review hobbyists. I know there is a valid argument for who is paying and who isn't but ultimately it might lead to better connections for both both parties. Originally Posted by okiegirllover

I agree Tylus but the minute you mention it the male insecurities and fear light up and mature debate turns into a shit storm.

It's impossible to click with everyone sometimes it just work out. I don't think anyone deserves a negative review or to be given a bad reference just because your personalities didn't click. It sucks getting a no review but I'm sure you will recover from it just fine.

For the record, I don't automatically Avoid a provider because she gets a "no" in a review. Obviously, I'm not alone.

Lariyah, u should come to Nashville.

I think that the easiest solution is for a provider to be able to respond to reviews. I don't really understand the reasoning for that not being allowed. She can offer her side of the story. It used to be that way on ASPD (in the good old days) and it made a lot of sense and gave balance to the story. Like a guy could say - "she rushed me, etc. etc." and she could respond "this guy showed up late, drunk, said he still wanted to go, and I gave him well over his time and nothing was close to going on and finally he gave up and left". I actually remember one like that. Anyway, the main point is I genuinely think the providers should be able to comment to a review just like everyone else.

I am looking into making a trip there soon

For the record, I don't automatically Avoid a provider because she gets a "no" in a review. Obviously, I'm not alone.

Lariyah, u should come to Nashville. Originally Posted by 2dogs

It's impossible to click with everyone sometimes it just work out. I don't think anyone deserves a negative review or to be given a bad reference just because your personalities didn't click. It sucks getting a no review but I'm sure you will recover from it just fine. Originally Posted by Lariyah_Cash

I understand your point of view, but I have some comments. First, isn't it your job to at least feign interest and excitement? Isn't it part of the escort GFE shtick, that the lady is into you? I understand that only a small percentage of your customers are truly interesting or attractive, but don't you have an obligation to fool those who don't make the top echelon of customers?

Second, how do we know that it was just a lack of chemistry and not that the provider wasn't giving it her all? The guys who write good reviews will provide the facts that show the lack of chemistry and will admit that was the case, but some providers are just not into their jobs but the result is the same as a "lack of chemistry".

And finally, why shouldn't guys know when there is a lack of chemistry? It is as important to prospective clients as the size of her bust and the color of her hair. Just this week I passed on a beautiful agency girl who too many guys said she either seemed tired or there was a lack of chemistry. I am getting too seasoned (that's a kind way of saying old) to believe that I could prompt a better session from her, so I passed, with regrets.

Those are just a few thoughts...

I think that the easiest solution is for a provider to be able to respond to reviews. I don't really understand the reasoning for that not being allowed. She can offer her side of the story. It used to be that way on ASPD (in the good old days) and it made a lot of sense and gave balance to the story. Originally Posted by Hatty242

Hookers were allowed to post in review threads on ASPD? That's not the way I remember it.

I think that the easiest solution is for a provider to be able to respond to reviews. I don't really understand the reasoning for that not being allowed. She can offer her side of the story. It used to be that way on ASPD (in the good old days) and it made a lot of sense and gave balance to the story. Like a guy could say - "she rushed me, etc. etc." and she could respond "this guy showed up late, drunk, said he still wanted to go, and I gave him well over his time and nothing was close to going on and finally he gave up and left". I actually remember one like that. Anyway, the main point is I genuinely think the providers should be able to comment to a review just like everyone else. Originally Posted by Hatty242

The p being the good old days? You must be kidding ... Which forum on the p allowed providers to respond in the review areas? It was not in TX ...

I am looking into making a trip there soon Originally Posted by Lariyah_Cash

I can't wait to meet you.

The p being the good old days? You must be kidding ... Which forum on the p allowed providers to respond in the review areas? It was not in TX ... Originally Posted by pyramider

nor Atlanta.

You make some very valid points. To answer your question, Yes it's part of our job to show excitement and an interest in you guys. For me it's not about physical attraction. I get turned on, excited and attracted to anyone who is prompt, respectful and has no problem with coming to have a good time. That makes up 98% of the gents I see, so more than 9/10 my date and I don't have the lack of chemistry problems. I can count on one hand how many people I didn't have chemistry with, but they still came back to see me more than once. Sometimes, being a provider we over think way too much and it's in our nature to want to please and if a gent isn't reacting the way we think they should to whatever is going on at that time, whether it be a conversation, an exchange of pleasantries or even a position we are playing in at that time, we may feel the chemistry isn't there or the date is not into us. The same goes for you guys. I've had some guys tell me that they saw "X" and she wasn't as vocal or didn't seem like she wanted to talk, so the gent assumed that "X" wasn't into him which caused the mood and chemistry to fade. Some people are just socially awkward and hard to communicate with but that doesn't mean that I would ever give any less than the best that I could to make sure that they have a great time!

I don't know whether it was lack of chemistry or if she was having a bad day or maybe he was just really picky. The way that she explained her side of the story sounded as if they just didn't click. I do hear very often that guys will give a YES recommendation, but inside the ROS it sounds as if it would be a NO. I think sometimes guys are afraid of the backlash they will get from the provider and other gentleman that favor the provider so they give a YES when it clearly should be a NO.

I strongly feel that a lack of chemistry shouldn't result in a NO recommendation and as you stated a good reviewer would show facts of lack of chemistry, unfortunately everyone does not present those facts. In the situation you described it sounds like there was something that was more than just lack of chemistry.

I understand your point of view, but I have some comments. First, isn't it your job to at least feign interest and excitement? Isn't it part of the escort GFE shtick, that the lady is into you? I understand that only a small percentage of your customers are truly interesting or attractive, but don't you have an obligation to fool those who don't make the top echelon of customers?

Second, how do we know that it was just a lack of chemistry and not that the provider wasn't giving it her all? The guys who write good reviews will provide the facts that show the lack of chemistry and will admit that was the case, but some providers are just not into their jobs but the result is the same as a "lack of chemistry".

And finally, why shouldn't guys know when there is a lack of chemistry? It is as important to prospective clients as the size of her bust and the color of her hair. Just this week I passed on a beautiful agency girl who too many guys said she either seemed tired or there was a lack of chemistry. I am getting too seasoned (that's a kind way of saying old) to believe that I could prompt a better session from her, so I passed, with regrets.

Those are just a few thoughts... Originally Posted by awl4knot

I am looking forward to it as well!

I can't wait to meet you. Originally Posted by 2dogs

ugh I know this feeling to well ....

Azebella Amor

I tell you what happen to me yesterday I was going to give my whole day to this one guy and he gave me Tara Evans for a reference so. I said ok it was going to a day for to help me with my rent. I gave my address to my incall I had a big box of condoms waiting got all dressed up and silence. I called the number was disconnected. I felt so damn stupid. So yeah I feel the betrayal here. Eccie is not like it used to be.