Mothering & Skin Hunger

A double cuddle session with Purrrsia and Merry Minx?! Any guy lucky enough to get that session would have to be in heaven!

I am not referring to the diaper and pacifier fetish, but of our primary need for touch....non-goal oriented skin to skin contact.

I have come to believe that many (not all) men do not actually want sex or need sex (some cannot due to ED or traumatic injury) but are so touch deprived that sex is the only way they know to get the touch their body, mind, and soul craves.

Cuddling is a very powerful method of experiencing deep connectivity and nurturing. Oxytocin is released and endorphins alleviate pain/mental anguish.

Imagine being cradled in your mother's bosom or lap, breathing in her essence while she gently strokes your head, tucking your hair behind your ear, tenderly kissing your forehead, nose, and eyelids.

It is highly erotic done naked but with pentetration/orgasm not the goal. The sexual energy is slowly cultivated and saturates every cell of your body like a deep soul massage. Originally Posted by Purrrsia

Heavenly sessions

Great thread! I once had a session with a PTA (petite travelling Asian) provider and she had me lie down on my back and spent the next 15 minutes just kissing and licking me all the way from my ears to my nipples and all the way down to my knees before we actually started having sex. It was one of the most intense experiences I ever had and I would love to repeat that. However, I have not found another provider seemingly enjoying giving that much attention to my senses. Well, maybe she comes back to visit some time....

The distinction between sexual and non-sexual touch may be an artificial one anyway:

http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/a...-acts-to-calm/

The distinction between sexual and non-sexual touch may be an artificial one anyway:

http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/a...-acts-to-calm/ Originally Posted by Cheesecake7

Thanks for sharing article.Relaxing sessions

Last May, during one of our overnighters, Purrrsia and I were basking in the afterglow of Round 1 of lovemaking when Purrrsia suggested we try a "sensate focus exercise" that she'd recently learned at a workshop.

If I correctly recall, Purrrsia sat against the headboard (cushioned with a pillow or two) while I sat between her legs, facing away, and rested against her. She spent a good 10 - 20 minutes slowly tracing her fingertips and running her palms at varying pressure over my scalp, face, ears, neck, shoulders, and chest. Then we switched positions and giver-receiver roles. (Purrrsia later commented that the exercise is as much for the benefit of the giver as the receiver.)

While the details of this session have faded from memory over time, I distinctly remember what a high degree of intimacy I enjoyed without being sexually aroused.

If I correctly recall, Purrrsia sat against the headboard (cushioned with a pillow or two) while I sat between her legs, facing away, and rested against her. She spent a good 10 - 20 minutes slowly tracing her fingertips and running her palms at varying pressure over my scalp, face, ears, neck, shoulders, and chest. Then we switched positions and giver-receiver roles. Originally Posted by Bush Pilot

Holy shit, that sounds amazing....

"Cuddling literally kills depression, relieve anxiety, and strengthens the immune system."

I've had a few dates like this .... very soothing for both parties.
Heck just reading this was relaxing .

I am not referring to the diaper and pacifier fetish, but of our primary need for touch....non-goal oriented skin to skin contact.

I have come to believe that many (not all) men do not actually want sex or need sex (some cannot due to ED or traumatic injury) but are so touch deprived that sex is the only way they know to get the touch their body, mind, and soul craves.

Cuddling is a very powerful method of experiencing deep connectivity and nurturing. Oxytocin is released and endorphins alleviate pain/mental anguish.

Imagine being cradled in your mother's bosom or lap, breathing in her essence while she gently strokes your head, tucking your hair behind your ear, tenderly kissing your forehead, nose, and eyelids.

It is highly erotic done naked but with pentetration/orgasm not the goal. The sexual energy is slowly cultivated and saturates every cell of your body like a deep soul massage. Originally Posted by Purrrsia

I have a comment about this in my P411 profile and get a few questions. I have had several sessions where this was part of it and I am convinced if my wife was interested in cuddling and snuggling I would have never found this site. 1 experience of note was a doubles session with Mary Ann and Kami405 in OKC. Oh wow.

Sessions don't have to be about intercourse.
Some men need to feel appreciated, valued, listened to.
It takes a special woman to understand this and be sincere about it.
To not watch the clock and dismiss the man after an hour, but be real and compassionate.
Life is difficult at best and sometimes a man needs someone who will listen and massage him and feel close to someone.

...and sometimes a man needs to be nurtured like a naughty boy who needs his naughty aunt/mommie...that is fun too♥♥♥

…. I have had several sessions where this was part of it and I am convinced if my wife was interested in cuddling and snuggling I would have never found this site... Originally Posted by The Big Kahuna

Total bummer… yet just another reason the Hobby has my thumbs up. Why is it so difficult to communicate things with the ones we love the most?? Like not even just a partner, but loved ones. If only…. and then my pride gets in the way… and rejection or ridicule from them usually hurts the deepest…

It is crazy and frustrating, but I know how you feel. This is one of the reasons why I am totally against Escorting or Prostitution being illegal. I see no harm in providing pleasure, and like this thread discussed, the need to be touched lovingly… even if your need is to be be spanked and tied up lol … without LE involvement or "the righteous" finding sin with it.

I naturally spend time afterwards cuddling. It's just something I do. I talk and play with their body hair( I like chest hair &#128563, and just caressing them. I guess I just forgot it is something not a lot of girls do. Plus, I love to cuddle. I feel so warm and fuzzy 😊