My Eccie Goodbye

Heh see how easy you are Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe

Exactly. Sometimes new people, sometimes new names, but the shit remains the same.

JCM, so how tied are mods hands? Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

I don't think they are as "tied" as you might think. Remember when Cryptkicker was moderating? He was handing out warnings left and right. Hell I got a warning for telling a joke that involved sheep.

[QUOTE=Unique_Carpenter;1057766 372
Ari is correct with every label she placed on this board, and some of the gals I've dated have simply said that it's not worth wasting the time, and are no longer active here, or never joined.
[/QUOTE]
not worth wasting time?
what are you talking about?"
you mean posting all the time and being offended so easily?
or being a top notch provider, using this place for what it's for, to come here, post an add and get business?(I see Kimmy delight as an example of that)

it's not hard to come here and make an ad, focus on your business and ignore trolls like BD, DD, etc

the problem is providers are gals and they are emotional and think the usual rules of the internet won't apply to them
this isnt real life, where a hot girl gets free drinks for doing nothing but being attractive
these girls get treated, sometimes, like people on the internet
if they cant deal with it, boo-woo, blame themselves. not how the internet is

nuff-said

L2:
CK is still moderating.
And yes he is fun

Perhaps our current crew could realize that there's an umlimited supply of candy goes stale unless handed out.

Back to Ari's comment, and an earlier one of mine, why would any gal stay on this board, with bs flying? Does anyone really think the gals need this board? If this place is not a comfortable place for gals to hang out, in addition to posting ads, more will leave, and some may never join.
--------
BCPL: You've missed the primary point, again. It's not about placing ads.

This is Jaycees thread so my apologies I have to answer mr little penis pasty pants here...

You mean like you when you got slammed in Houston....lol


Listen little staff edit-s31 man you raff your ruse...so ima guessin your talking about Major League Baseball big leagues....

But back to Jaycee its people like A2 the reason that great providers like Ari and Jaycee are speaking about.
Losers who think they know the hobby and dont have a fuckin clue.

once again Jaycee thanks for the memories

Hey A2 ill be seeing you soon..yawn Originally Posted by BigDeal

Lmfao man this is fucking funny

I invited him to houston because I already knew he wasn't going to make it...

Dorphy:
A2in Houston?
They'd not even wait for his his legs to be fried before they eat him up.
And that could apply to a few other board folks here as well.

JCM, so how tied are mods hands? Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

I'll try to explain this the best I can.

Warnings and/or points are handed out when necessary ...no one is aware of who receives what and when because that info is only available to the person on the receiving end of it and staff. So while it may appear as if we aren't doing our job that would not be the case.

If a member fucks up enough and earns enough points then they earn a vacation. We don't just ban someone because a group of members decide they don't like a particular member, that's not how it works. The only time someone would receive a ban without a warning or points would be if it involves outing, leaking private info, or caught with multiple handles.

As I mentioned in a previous post ...not everyone is going to get along here and that's just how it is ...if you don't like a particular member and don't want to read their posts then the easy solution would be to just add their name to your ignore list (..it's in the control panel on the left in the edit options area) and your problem is solved.

Warnings and/or points are handed out when necessary ...no one is aware of who receives what and when because that info is only available to the person on the receiving end of it and staff. So while it may appear as if we aren't doing our job that would not be the case. Originally Posted by JCM800

As a separate issue from the whole "toxic environment" theme that's currently in vogue, how many times do the same repeat offenders get to repeat offend resulting in a ban before you tick the "lifetime" option on the ban button and go to the IP address witch hunt?
Not trying to stir the pot- I'm legitimately interested if there's a specific number of times that the same guy can be banned for the same shit over and over, and still come back with the sole intent to just be a dick.

JCM,
I understand that. I assume others do as well.
The point trying to be made is that perhaps the candy should be handed out more frequently.

And zeejoe has a point. Shame a new id might skip around that.

And yes we know you guys are not the dream police.
But wouldn't handing out candy more often actually fit your buzzkill theme?
I couldn't resist that.

As a separate issue from the whole "toxic environment" theme that's currently in vogue, how many times do the same repeat offenders get to repeat offend resulting in a ban before you tick the "lifetime" option on the ban button and go to the IP address witch hunt?
Not trying to stir the pot- I'm legitimately interested if there's a specific number of times that the same guy can be banned for the same shit over and over, and still come back with the sole intent to just be a dick. Originally Posted by zeejoe

I think that there would have to be a legit reason for someone to ever earn the lifetime option here ...since there isn't any sort of cap limit on the amount of times someone can get banned here that I know of. I guess that if they want to come back each time just to stir up shit then they won't really be around for very long. Also, If members are caught with a second handle then we take care of it ...but sometimes what might appear to be a troll handle of a banned member doesn't turn out to be anything.

JCM,
I understand that. I assume others do as well.
The point trying to be made is that perhaps the candy should be handed out more frequently.

And zeejoe has a point. Shame a new id might skip around that.

And yes we know you guys are not the dream police.
But wouldn't handing out candy more often actually fit your buzzkill theme?
I couldn't resist that. Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

Candy is passed out when necessary ...but sometimes just a staff instructions type of post in a thread, or a gentle reminder PM will sometimes take care of the problem before it comes to warnings/points.

Well said, JCM.

Speaking for my fellow moderators, we believe less moderation is better moderation in most situations. The assortment of various personalities as is present here and other communities within this site is one of the elements that keeps things interesting and assists with the creation of entertaining and informative discussions.

This is a SHMB, not the opinion page of the New York Times. As Sins of the Flesh said once, "This isn't high tea with the Queen, this is fucks for bucks."

...Candy is passed out when necessary ...but sometimes just a staff instructions type of post in a thread, or a gentle reminder PM will sometimes take care of the problem before it comes to warnings/points. Originally Posted by JCM800

All true, but perhaps the definition of "when necessary" could be reviewed.
Frankly my take on this is that gals are tired of getting slamed, and Im not talking about a no review. Basically its a variation of cyber bully, and its clear that several of us, guys and gals, feel that exsisting guideline can allow mods to pass out more candy much more frequently.

And yes Scorpio, its a hooker board. But I have found that gals are, after everything else is discussed, still gals.
Anyway, I'm cutting this short, dinner plans.

I think if someone reports an outright lie and it can be shown, they should recieve some sort of sanction.

Also if someone is a corrosive influence on the board by unprovoked personal attacks, fabricating stories, and posting false reviews then the board might be better off without them.

I think if someone reports an outright lie and it can be shown, they should recieve some sort of sanction.

Also if someone is a corrosive influence on the board by unprovoked personal attacks, fabricating stories, and posting false reviews then the board might be better off without them. Originally Posted by JD Barleycorn

This is a subject that is curious; why would a guy post a false review? It has come up before; so, I have asked 3 or 4 of the ladies about this during the conversation stage when it is nice to talk and get to know about them personally.

All have told me about receiving positive reviews from someone they have never seen. What? Why? Just trying to get a review in for the fun of it, when they know the lady will never give them a reference with other ladies?

All have indicated that it would be nice to give be able to give some type of feedback to someone about the reviews that are inaccurate. They seem to respect that they can not comment in the review section; however, if a review about them is inaccurate, or unfair a response to the management is warranted.

The other side of the coin, is about anything that is even slightly a little bit negative about a lady. For example, I posted a review that was very complimentary about a lady; but, I made an observation that the pictures were her, but not really recent. She responded that I was accurate, but she really didn't really care for the comment.

I like her, and will try to see her again. But, I was honest and I think that is what a review should be about.

I also agree that the ladies should be able to give an honest response: somewhere without having to be involved with a battle or an angry confrontation. It should be, but how it is set up without conflict is the big question. Perhaps a thread about women preference for the preferred clients, and why? Don't know what works for them. I am just fishing for a response to the problem.



Is there too much BS around here?

JR

This is a subject that is curious; why would a guy post a false review? ...
What? Why? Just trying to get a review in for the fun of it, when they know the lady will never give them a reference with other ladies? Originally Posted by JRLawrence

Maybe for the free Premium time?