Showing your face.

I have a certain type I like but to be honest as I have gotten older, rarely do I see a woman of any race and type that I do not see some beauty. As long as they have taken care of themselves and are not extremely overweight, I see beauty in some form.

Body type of medium to athletic build is more important to me, and frankly I would never put my face on a web site if I were a woman unless you were making so much coin that you never had to deal with the real world again.

I think what I would be most worried about is I were a provider that settled into a normal life one day, is that your son or daughters friend found it somehow when they were 15. No one really know how long these photos will stay around the net.

At least with a tattoo they have laser surgery now. Originally Posted by oktome
very well said , i could not agree more
I've been doing this for 2 months and I have already been in a dangerous situation. I couldn't do it without a face picture to easy to steal another ladies pics and rep Ive already seen ladies with more than one name. Also what if she looks like a guy the appointment has been made is it okay to turn around and leave.
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I would imagine you were in a dangerous situation because you didn't do much research...that's why reviews were invented. One post, and no reviews does not a hobbyist make. If a girl has tons of reviews by REPUTABLE hobbyists, I doubt she is a rip off. Now, that won't determine whether you will find her attractive of course, but I would imagine nothing is forcing you to stay if you are not happy.

I understand some guys want to see the whole package, and that's your choice as a paying customer. It is also our choice not to worry about the money we lose, knowing there is so much more to lose in the real world.
true, as always, London! ALso women with webpages are better than the ones who only post ads and cell phone number.. Plus, if it seems to be too good to be true than it most certainly is....
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true, as always, London! ALso women with webpages are better than the ones who only post ads and cell phone number.. Plus, if it seems to be too good to be true than it most certainly is.... Originally Posted by ninasastri
Yup!
It goes back to the old adage - Dont judge a book by its cover - I have met many a provider who showed their face and thought - Wow she ought to be hot only to get to the session and she acted as if it was strictly a duty and lets get this over attitude.
To me the attitude of the provider and the so called "click " between the provider and the client is more important than beauty.
Lets face it - you are taking a chance everytime you meet a new provider as well as they are when they meet a new client and they also have no face to look at.
Its a blind date for the both of you and god knows if the providers had pictures of all of us we might not get to ever see one if they judged us by the way we looked and yes i know they are getting paid to see us.
But i bet a lot of providers have found some clients try harder to please them and treat them with respect and it has nothing to do with the way we look.
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  • FK
  • 02-03-2011, 12:16 AM
Another consideration is checking into hotels. There are hotel chains who cooperate with LE and have printed out ads delivered to their front desk people. They offer their front desk people rewards for stopping an escort at check in. The times they are a changing.

Showing your face nowadays and walking into a hotel lobby, you may as well have "escort" painted on your forehead. And if you don't dress and conduct yourself properly you still may be labeled as such depending on how tight hotel security is.

In my opinion, if showing face is risky for the ladies, then how risky is it for you gentlemen when you knock on the door of a "made" lady?
I do show my face but I also wear glasses/contacts. I have never had problems except when I did post on craigslists (old high school buddies calling me asking if I was ----) I played dumb and said no I am not ----.
As far as hotels and when I travel. I never really cause attention to myself. Like the saying goes loose lips sink ships. I don't befriend the maids,bartenders,front desk people. When I check into a hotel I make myself look shitty lol. no make up hair up etc. Anything that screams she a call girl. If anyone ask me why I am in town. I always say vacation to relax and clear my head. Being in the lifestyle for about 4 yrs I keep it discreet.
I know when I get my RN Degree. I will most likely walk away from the business. I know I won't be living in killeen. I have family in Denver and Austin. So depending on my life at that time and How much money the job offers. I will be moving out of town.
I respect the girls that choose to show face pics or not everyone has
the right to choose what is best
Another consideration is checking into hotels. There are hotel chains who cooperate with LE and have printed out ads delivered to their front desk people. They offer their front desk people rewards for stopping an escort at check in. The times they are a changing.

Showing your face nowadays and walking into a hotel lobby, you may as well have "escort" painted on your forehead. And if you don't dress and conduct yourself properly you still may be labeled as such depending on how tight hotel security is.

In my opinion, if showing face is risky for the ladies, then how risky is it for you gentlemen when you knock on the door of a "made" lady? Originally Posted by ScarlettKiss
As far as hotels I never heard of hotels being printed out such things. Most of the time I have check into a hotel. The front desk lady/guy either playing online or on her/his cell. I don't check into 5 star hotels. Nor the motel 6. I just go for the simple med-budget hotels.
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I do show my face but I also wear glasses/contacts. I have never had problems except when I did post on craigslists (old high school buddies calling me asking if I was ----) I played dumb and said no I am not ----.
As far as hotels and when I travel. I never really cause attention to myself. Like the saying goes loose lips sink ships. I don't befriend the maids,bartenders,front desk people. When I check into a hotel I make myself look shitty lol. no make up hair up etc. Anything that screams she a call girl. If anyone ask me why I am in town. I always say vacation to relax and clear my head. Being in the lifestyle for about 4 yrs I keep it discreet.
I know when I get my RN Degree. I will most likely walk away from the business. I know I won't be living in killeen. I have family in Denver and Austin. So depending on my life at that time and How much money the job offers. I will be moving out of town.
I respect the girls that choose to show face pics or not everyone has
the right to choose what is best
Originally Posted by Jennatexas23
As far as hotels I never heard of hotels being printed out such things. Most of the time I have check into a hotel. The front desk lady/guy either playing online or on her/his cell. I don't check into 5 star hotels. Nor the motel 6. I just go for the simple med-budget hotels. Originally Posted by Jennatexas23
No offense but are you kidding me?

You just posted that you tour so you mean EVERYTIME you check into a hotel the front desk clerk is playing cards online or on his cell phone? I'm calling bull here. You do know that there are OTHER escorts on this board that would laugh at what you just said right?

1.) I have never checked into a hotel where the front desk clerk was on their cell phone while checking me in. If such thing were to happen I probably wouldn't be staying there. I am very BIG on customer service. I'm guessing you are staying at 3-3 1/2 star hotels from what you posted. Honey I have stayed in 3 1/2 star hotels and I have never experience what you posted not even once.

2.) How do you know what a hotel clerk is doing on their computer? You cannot see what they are doing on their computer. How do you know they are not contacting the police department right then and there? Do you know that when you use the computer at a hotel the people at the front desk are able to see each and every website you go to? So if you're posting ads on eros, posting on eccie.. THEY KNOW .. Yes! My advice? Use your own internet connection.

3.) Ma'am I have worn contact lenses they change your look a little but they don't totally disguise you. You also posted that you wear NO makeup when you check into these hotels all it takes is for a hotel clerk to put two and two together. They are NOT stupid. Changing just your eye color does not fool them. If ya call that being discreet .. it ain't.

And last but NOT least, Hotels DO print ads of escorts I have friends that own/work at hotels so I know this for a FACT.

I am not trying to get you to show your face. How you run your business is none of my business but when you post silly things like what you just posted above I have to say something. There are clueless newbie escort that surf this website everyday. I rather them be informed than be steered wrong by what they read on this site...Obviously you have been misinformed. No offense Jen.
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In 10 years, have never shown my face, and never will!! But I am very well reviewed and may not be everyones cup of tea.........but who cares! The ones I do see love me!!!
Wow ok well I am not taking offense at all. I have never had problems and never been busted etc. (Knock on wood)
I do show my face but I never and I pray I never had problems. I don't knock how you do your business or how you post. So please don't knock me down. I was meaning when I have checked into hotels. I am discreet. I like to admit I am a low key provider. When I tour I do see gents but keep it low-volume. I don't have guys in and out every hr.
as far as other provider laughing at me. (Shaking my head) okay..
Some guys will not see a provider if she does not show her face. Some do not care either way. It is our choice this is how for the past 4 yrs. When I have toured to Midland, College station, Lake Charles, San Antonio, Austin etc. I highly doubt that there going to pick me out and I bear the scarlet A.
Plus-
- as far as internet I have my own internet card through my cell company. I never use the hotels Internet
- I am big on customer service but If I am touring. I don't become a diva and change a room over a small thing or complain
over spilled milk.
- I don't bug any employees or anyone like the saying goes out of sight out of mind

Like I have said I am discreet. When I travel and tour.
So I understand and appreciate your feedback. I have never heard of hotels printing out ads and us being targeted to that extent. If so I will take this into consideration. When I tour next time. Thank you
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I have never had a problem in this business either/never been busted and I have showed my face in the past. The only time I "bug" hotel employees is when I'm leaving them a big tip. Other escorts can confirm everything I have posted. It is better for one to know what goes on than be completely clueless about what goes on in this business. Good luck.
well said and I agree completely
In 10 years, have never shown my face, and never will!! But I am very well reviewed and may not be everyones cup of tea.........but who cares! The ones I do see love me!!! Originally Posted by tammy4u
FYI hotels DO print out the ads. Piece of advice: rent a condo or apartment in the city you tour in most often. sometimes you can find weekly rentals in tourism driven cities. That is safer for you and your clientele.