I used to be open minded and easily could excuse the married men for being in the hobby...but on second thought....

Lol at anyone who thinks they need to rationalize their shit to people on a hooker/john board.

Lol at anyone who thinks they need to rationalize their shit to people on a hooker/john board. Originally Posted by FloridaShark

Ha! Luv your post! To each his/her own. I don't guess providers feel guilt for driving around in that BMW because moms had to buy shit with coupons so hubby can play?

And how about those providers that post that they need assistance. Rent due, car trouble, need a new incall?

It's all a fucking game. You got it, men want it, we'll pay it. Thanks for the nut! Bye!

Well said man!

What a stupid question to begin with. The irony.

Ha! Luv your post! To each his/her own. I don't guess providers feel guilt for driving around in that BMW because moms had to buy shit with coupons so hubby can play?

And how about those providers that post that they need assistance. Rent due, car trouble, need a new incall?

It's all a fucking game. You got it, men want it, we'll pay it. Thanks for the nut! Bye! Originally Posted by Tpcgolfer

This is the most self-righteous post I've ever read.

"Why are you guys fucking women other than your wife and PAYING FOR IT?!?!

Best regards,
Your Friendly Neighborhood Whore (and don't forget to call me so we can fuck)!"

Oh, and don't forget to note her sig line:
I'm a Gloryhole extraordinaire and pimp (booking agent is a kinder, more gentler term) on top of being a whore when I want to.

Does he think I'm too weak to handle the truth?

Yes. Either he thinks you'll be so emotional devastated or angry and will just leave him or he thinks you are just full of it when you told him your were "open-minded".

Does he think I'm not good enough in bed or not pretty enough?

Maybe? The men that hide the fact that they hobby are missing something in the bedroom...or even outside of it. Most likely if you are not withholding, he just likes variety.

Where did he get the money?

If you really think a man of means will disclose ALL of his accounts to a new wife in this day and age I got some great property in Florida for you. In general, marriages works best when both partners have separate money they can't fuss at the each other for spending. I've known many wives who work so they can spend the money they get anyway they feel like. I've known other couples who each have a budget for personal spending.

Why am I buying clothes on sale when his mistress is wearing Creed perfume and Lou Buitton's. Why am I working at a shitty job just so he can donk off two or three days pay on some ho?

If your husband is forcing you to work a shitty job to help pay bills while he hobbies...that is shitty. That is not the majority of men who hobby.

I should be treated better because I'm home, washing his drawers, dealing w his mother on holidays, raising his kids, cooking his dinner, ironing his clothes and some ho gets the best of him and doesn't ever have to deal with his moodiness, anger, farting in bed, etc.

Why do providers get treated so much better than the wives who are at home doing right?

We aren't. Providers might seem to be because we get to set the rules and cut off any client that doesn't behave the way we would like. There are clear expectations in the provider/client relationship. It feels very personal but in the end it is a business transaction. Both parties are expected to bring the BEST of themselves to a appointment AT ALL TIMES. In a marriage, you are accepting the WHOLE person flaws and all. That goes for both sides of the relationship. Everyone has flaws, even you.

What I want to know is: have you ever thought about what would really hurt your wife if she found out you were seeing escorts? How do you reconcile the money spent on girls? Does your hobby budget bring down the quality of life at home? Does your wife cut coupons not knowing that her savings are going to girls like me who don't love you and only get your best side? Are providers like me really enhancing the home life like I had previously thought or are we really unhealthy and expensive vices that lower the standard of living for families? Originally Posted by HunterGrace

I'm sorry you had a terrible experience with your current/former husband but in mine, clients are cut from entirely different different cloth. For the peanut gallery, I don't feel guilt for the seeing the clients that I do. They are financially responsible adults who understand the hobby is a luxury and give their own SO's luxuries she desires as well.

As for the non-financial side.....have you ever heard the phrase "If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?" Discretion is important for a reason.

I'm sorry you had a terrible experience with your current/former husband but in mine, clients are cut from entirely different different cloth. For the peanut gallery, I don't feel guilt for the seeing the clients that I do. They are financially responsible adults who understand the hobby is a luxury and give their own SO's luxuries she desires as well.

As for the non-financial side.....have you ever heard the phrase "If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?" Discretion is important for a reason. Originally Posted by SA Angel

How do can you make such a statement? How can you possibly know how responsible your clients are financially or how they treat their spouses?

How do can you make such a statement? How can you possibly know how responsible your clients are financially or how they treat their spouses? Originally Posted by Whispers

How can you tell if a girl is BSC once you meet her (or even before)?

Emotional intelligence and good observation are important skills for being a provider. It very similar to what a hiring manager has to do. You have a limited time with an individual and you have to suss out how they approach things and what their motivation is. I have the added benefit that I get to see the person I'm figuring out for longer than a couple interviews. I am very comfortable with my assessment for the clients I see often and they were who I was thinking of when I made that statement.

I guess the OP is announcing "not caring" is now an upcharge?

Who am I to say that someone has an ego that's larger than life.

How can you tell if a girl is BSC once you meet her (or even before)?

Emotional intelligence and good observation are important skills for being a provider. It very similar to what a hiring manager has to do. You have a limited time with an individual and you have to suss out how they approach things and what their motivation is. I have the added benefit that I get to see the person I'm figuring out for longer than a couple interviews. I am very comfortable with my assessment for the clients I see often and they were who I was thinking of when I made that statement. Originally Posted by SA Angel

Think about it this way, whether on not they pay you, they will be paying someone for some ass. It might as well be you.

You don't know their story, I could bore you with mine but it seems like your mind is made up.

Lot of us have wives who are repressed/frigid and don't take care of our physical needs but we can't throw away a marriage, family etc, if the s/o was as open minded as most the ladies on this board it wouldn't be an issue. but since she isn't I have to come here...

Meh, I'm single by choice...but have been married...being judged by a worn out prostitute is more funny than upsetting when you put it in perspective.

A few of these girls are GOOD friends & have their shit wired tight...smart, funny, fun to be around & in some cases I PREFER to be around them than smug/clinging civvies..but a LOT of them are like OP...incapable of making a living any other way than this. So they become jaded & lash out at the hand that feeds them.

Tryin to make guys feel guilty for getting pussy? GTFO with that rubbish...LOL

Not that she has ever garnered much interest here but I am curious as to how many mongers would even consider calling the OP after this post?

I imagine there will always be those few who will pay to lick shoes and get kicked in the balls.

Not that she has ever garnered much interest here but I am curious as to how many mongers would even consider calling the OP after this post?

I imagine there will always be those few who will pay to lick shoes and get kicked in the balls. Originally Posted by Lightesttouch

LOL Wow do you have it wrong..!!! Garnered much interest??? Some don't need that much press. You've obviously never met this lady. Think what you will, I'm seeing her (again) tonight and will leave the appropriate review later. You can't judge the performance by the writing.. I'd say Stephen King is a limp dick mofo, but his books sell. LOL

LOL Wow do you have it wrong..!!! Garnered much interest??? Some don't need that much press. You've obviously never met this lady. Think what you will, I'm seeing her (again) tonight and will leave the appropriate review later. You can't judge the performance by the writing.. I'd say Stephen King is a limp dick mofo, but his books sell. LOL Originally Posted by nuglet

Hey Nuglet...how ya doing?

So which is the act...

The ranting angry whore...
Or the sweet freak-in-the-sheets?

I'm of a mind that the real feelings are expressed in late night ramblings, but thats just my experience.