Team Ginger...

We come here for the perception of safety. None of us here, male or female, are angels or, in any way, perfect people. But we entrust each other to some extent, to not violate one principle. Never, ever, under any circumstance, no matter how pissed off we get at anybody, do we violate rule number one. And that rule is that we never expose to the real world what we do here. Those that do, and those who play any part whatsoever in what others that practice that sort of behavior do, cannot be trusted and should be held in complete and utter contempt. And we should know that if they will do it to others, they would also do it to us. A word to the wise, avoid them. Originally Posted by watchoutthegameisrigged

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People will always have differences, you can't stop that from happening. It's how they handle themselfs and the situation that shows if they are adult enough to be here. Have some self respect and respect for the forum group by handling your shit privately thru PM, Text, or a phone call. Nobody really wants to know anyway. Some times it will work out, some times it won't. It has happened to me and there is no way in hell I would stoop to that level. Just because u think you don't like someone or don't like the circumstances doesn't give you the right to totally screw up their RL. There is no place on here for someone that low. If you can't control yourself please leave us all the hell alone.

I'm with everyone who's against outing someone else's real life (RL) information at all costs. It's based both on principle of your agreement to the terms of use of this website and how much you respect not just the honor code, but your own self-interests as well. Stating the obvious, the harm caused by outing someone else's RL information ruins the other person's legal standings leading to prison , family life, and career life. And remember, ruining someone's career leads to how much bread they can afford to feed their children. Many hobbyists and providers here have children that are dependent on having a constant source of necessities that cost money, so fucking someone else over will lead to harming individuals who had no involvement with any conflict. Regardless of having children, that damage you bring to someone has life scarring misfortunes, which is what we all need to be dearly cautious about and this cannot be taken lightly.

Furthermore, again stating what is a no-brainer is that, get ready to be outed back if you out someone else. And if you are not afraid of the receiving the same reprecussions that you are bringing to someone else, you are basically saying that you have nothing left to lose making you lower than bird shit (bird shit at least provides nourishment to plants as a fertilizer, whereas the person who is outing someone else is not helping the conflict, the people around them, or themselves thus qualifying themselves literally being lower than bird shit). If you're comfortable with being lower than bird shit, then you admit to yourself the lack of integrity that you have.

The easiest way to handle this conflict is to prevent the same mistakes leading whatever conflict tempting to out someone. Message the moderators, alert people in the appropriate threads to stay away from the trouble maker using their identifying username (yes I know that person can make another username, but it's not hard to find parallel actions to identify that trouble maker), and go work on something that leads to building the quality of your own life rather than to actions to destroying someone else's (and your own - read above). This should be a no duh.

Outing someone is not justified at all. It doesn't matter if your panties are stuck up your cunt or not. You're hurting everyone when you do such a thing and it makes YOU look bad.

I'm with everyone who's against outing someone else's real life (RL) information at all costs. It's based both on principle of your agreement to the terms of use of this website and how much you respect not just the honor code, but your own self-interests as well. Stating the obvious, the harm caused by outing someone else's RL information ruins the other person's legal standings leading to prison , family life, and career life. And remember, ruining someone's career leads to how much bread they can afford to feed their children. Many hobbyists and providers here have children that are dependent on having a constant source of necessities that cost money, so fucking someone else over will lead to harming individuals who had no involvement with any conflict. Regardless of having children, that damage you bring to someone has life scarring misfortunes, which is what we all need to be dearly cautious about and this cannot be taken lightly.

Furthermore, again stating what is a no-brainer is that, get ready to be outed back if you out someone else. And if you are not afraid of the receiving the same reprecussions that you are bringing to someone else, you are basically saying that you have nothing left to lose making you lower than bird shit (bird shit at least provides nourishment to plants as a fertilizer, whereas the person who is outing someone else is not helping the conflict, the people around them, or themselves thus qualifying themselves literally being lower than bird shit). If you're comfortable with being lower than bird shit, then you admit to yourself the lack of integrity that you have.

The easiest way to handle this conflict is to prevent the same mistakes leading whatever conflict tempting to out someone. Message the moderators, alert people in the appropriate threads to stay away from the trouble maker using their identifying username (yes I know that person can make another username, but it's not hard to find parallel actions to identify that trouble maker), and go work on something that leads to building the quality of your own life rather than to actions to destroying someone else's (and your own - read above). This should be a no duh. Originally Posted by petervire

This is the best post I have ever read on here.


There are posters here I like. There are also posters I really do NOT like. But in the end, they are real human beings who bleed and hurt just like I do. This entire community is built on a house of cards...trusting people we don't know to not fuck us over. The good thing is everyone has something to lose, so even if someone is shitty enough to want to destroy someone's family or career or ability to eat, they have to realize they are susceptible to the same.

So Peter, you are spot on that anyone with an attitude of "who gives a shit" is a person with zero self respect. Those are the most dangerous members of our community, because there is no collateral to keep them from doing the worst.

We all have things about us that aren't normal, or we wouldn't be here. But no matter how little I know or care about any of y'all, I would never want your spouse or your children or your parents to have to know all this...or for you to be shamed at work or lose your job...or anything of that nature. You basically have to be a sociopath to do that.

Thanks, RJ! That post was so easy to write because of how much of a basic concept it has behind it. People just need to think straight and think long term what would help themselves move forward best.

Thanks, RJ! That post was so easy to write because of how much of a basic concept it has behind it. People just need to think straight and think long term what would help themselves move forward best. Originally Posted by petervire

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I would never out anyone.it was ingrained in me in my teen years that there's nothing worse than a snitch.I was in a subculture then,and this hobby is also and illegal subculture.I will never be mainstream anything.you not going to find people generally speaking of high moral character on a whore board.don't be incredulous. If your live is going to be over because your outed for being a monger,I would have my account deleted.please save the higher moral platitudes for the phony politicians.

There's "higher morals" then there's common fucking courtesy. Someone that easily outs a hooker will easily out the guy sitting next to him. Yall think having a WK leaking locker room info is bad, just wait until the "no morals" outer decides they want to go out with a BANG!

Bottomline: Snitches get Stitches (or in this case, permabanned)

Tell you who I would out, Ginger and Maryann, out on the beach.
No on second thought, I've had sand up my ass, it's no fun,
even worse, so I've been told, sand all up in your kittie.
All this outing talk to much for me.

I would proud to be a supporter of TEAM GINGER even we have never met I still have respect for these ladies and they do not deserve to be outed or threatened.

Thank you for all the supportive replies. It's good to know that there are still many who feel as I do, and respect the non-negotiable need for discretion in our hobby.

"Higher moral platitudes"? Really? Some of us - damn near all of us but not all of us obviously - strongly (very strongly) object to outing - as you also do apparently - but "higher moral platitudes?". Are we invoking "higher moral platitudes" when we do that? It's great that you would suffer no severe consequences if it was revealed that you participate here. I doubt that the vast majority here have that luxury. You are a lucky guy.

Originally Posted by DallasRain

That's cute, you know softball season is coming up we could always put a team together and Ginger could be the head coach. Even if we loose we know there's a happy ending at the end of the game!

That's cute, you know softball season is coming up we could always put a team together and Ginger could be the head coach. Even if we loose we know there's a happy ending at the end of the game! Originally Posted by Worldtravler

If I'm the head coach, we will definitely lose. Softball is not my sport.

Besides, that's Baby Dallas' moniker.

You know how to tell who the Head Coach is?


It's the one with the dirty knees.

:rimshot:

If I'm the head coach, we will definitely lose. Softball is not my sport.

Besides, that's Baby Dallas' moniker. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll