Make me a sammich...aka "Friend Zoning," gender, and entitlement

Eat me...

Originally Posted by YummyMarie

Yummy's proud of her meaty offering.

So, that was a rhetorical question? Originally Posted by LexusLover

No, it was a question I asked of everyone. I withheld my own opinion for a while. There is no right answer...except the one that suits me at the moment

And it's not that serious. I found the blog interesting enough to share. That is all

Edit: I also feel that there is more power to a man who is happy in the friend zone. Example: he is interested in one lady, and he regularly spends time with another in a platonic friendship. He may start dating the lady he is interested in. She plays hard to get, but when she inquires what he is up to one evening, he is busy enjoying time with his platonic buddy. She realizes he is not desperate for female company. She admires his confidence etc etc. Then she stops playing hard to get.

There is no right answer...

.... She realizes he is not desperate for female company. ...... Then she stops playing hard to get. Originally Posted by YummyMarie

Perhaps she should not have "assumed" in the beginning that he was "desperate for female company," and never begun "to play" initially! Sometimes openness is productive.

BTW ... this looks store-bought ...

I think men that are afraid of being Friend-Zoned need to find their inner-trick and stop trying to woo chicks out of their league. Originally Posted by YummyMarie

What makes a 'chick' out of a man's league?????? All the women I have had have been out of my league... so I thought.. and it's more than a few....maybe two....okay just one....kind of????? The ladies and media put that in our heads. The price of the pussy is the only thing that makes one out of our league. The only true lady friend that I have had (without an agenda) was lesbian.

What makes a 'chick' out of a man's league?????? Originally Posted by BIGSEXY7852

The outward portrayal of what she perceives to be her worth.

Perhaps she should not have "assumed" in the beginning that he was "desperate for female company," and never begun "to play" initially! Sometimes openness is productive.

BTW ... this looks store-bought ...

Originally Posted by LexusLover

I'd bet a high percentage of good pussy is store bought...however a quick google of Arby's images supplied this Sammich.

He may start dating the lady he is interested in. She plays hard to get, but when she inquires what he is up to one evening, he is busy enjoying time with his platonic buddy. She realizes he is not desperate for female company. She admires his confidence etc etc. Then she stops playing hard to get. Originally Posted by YummyMarie

Mary: Hey, Todd, would you like to go to dinner?
Todd: I'm sorry Mary, I can't, I'm watching Netflix with Sandra.
Mary: Who is Sandra?
Todd: She's my entirely platonic female friend.
Mary: I admire your confidence. Let's fuck.

Yeah...that's what happens...no, really...that's how it goes...promise...

What makes a 'chick' out of a man's league?????? All the women I have had have been out of my league... so I thought.. and it's more than a few....maybe two....okay just one....kind of????? The ladies and media put that in our heads. The price of the pussy is the only thing that makes one out of our league. The only true lady friend that I have had (without an agenda) was lesbian. Originally Posted by BIGSEXY7852

The qualifying words in my statement were "that are afraid of being Friend-zoned." If a guy doesn't get his panties in a wad at rejection, more power to him...keep wooing up up and beyond

Mary: Hey, Todd, would you like to go to dinner?
Todd: I'm sorry Mary, I can't, I'm watching Netflix with Sandra.
Mary: Who is Sandra?
Todd: She's my entirely platonic female friend.
Mary: I admire your confidence. Let's fuck.

Yeah...that's what happens...no, really...that's how it goes...promise... Originally Posted by Wakeup

Hahahahahaha...it was a silly scenario. That truly made me lol.

Mary: Hey, Todd, would you like to go to dinner?
Todd: I'm sorry Mary, I can't, I'm watching Netflix with Sandra.
Mary: Who is Sandra?
Todd: She's my entirely platonic female friend.
Mary: I admire your confidence. Let's fuck.

Yeah...that's what happens...no, really...that's how it goes...promise... Originally Posted by Wakeup

Or ....

"Todd": After dinner would you like to go dancing?
After dinner:
"Todd": Where would you enjoy dancing?
"Mary": Would you rather dance or fuck?

That's how it happens.

I'd bet a high percentage of good pussy is store bought... Originally Posted by YummyMarie

I suppose the definition of "good pussy" varies from person to person ..

........... irrespective of the jokes ...

..e.g.... "the worst I ever had was GREAT"!

I suppose the definition of "good pussy" varies from person to person ..

........... irrespective of the jokes ...

..e.g.... "the worst I ever had was GREAT"! Originally Posted by LexusLover

The qualifying words in my statement were "that are afraid of being Friend-zoned." If a guy doesn't get his panties in a wad at rejection, more power to him...keep wooing up up and beyond Originally Posted by YummyMarie

Originally Posted by YummyMarie

What does one call it when a lady gets upset about rejection, but she's not wearing any panties?

It's not always about being "afraid" .... real FRIENDS are few and far in between .... pieces of ass ..... on the other hand .... are just around the corner.

Edit: I also feel that there is more power to a man who is happy in the friend zone. Example: he is interested in one lady, and he regularly spends time with another in a platonic friendship. He may start dating the lady he is interested in. She plays hard to get, but when she inquires what he is up to one evening, he is busy enjoying time with his platonic buddy. She realizes he is not desperate for female company. She admires his confidence etc etc. Then she stops playing hard to get. Originally Posted by YummyMarie

This sounds like it should be a plot to a bad 80's rom-com.

Friend-zoned to me isn't being friends with someone of the opposite gender that you may not like...it's being used by said person. It's fine if you are happy being in the friend zone, but I would think that it most cases no one knows they are there and the friend-zone-er well knows they are reaping the benefits.

Usually it's not playing hard to get....it's knowingly being aloof or feigning clueless-ness to reap benefits.

It's all of the 'I gave her my heart and she gave me a pen' with none of the boombox action at the end...

"the worst I ever had was GREAT"! Originally Posted by LexusLover

sounds like pizza.