hmmm maybe i should not speed read threads. just a second elg and i will back the bus off ya lol.
littlered your best bet is to get to know a couple of the providers for support and advise. like ellew is one i hold in high regards because she is a straight shooter with a good head on her shoulders. with guys you have to be careful. there are some good and some that are bad. some will genuine and others are trying to get in your pants. just remember is a basic instinct of males to protect females and others. so they may react with out thinking it though. i am not trying to trash talk the op well unless it was elg then it would be fair game lol. i am sure his intentions were good and genuine and most likely reacted out of anger and discuss for this guy (i am not referring to elg that is). it could have hurt her biz with trust issues but the person it is about already displayed and obsessive, stalkerish characteristics with a massive cranial anal intrusion. crap would that be considered a medical speculation? guess i will find out. i am glad to see you are posting and telling your side. it gives a better picture. many ladies will not reply and just take it and then they look bad. always stick to your guns.