The longer I refrain from hobbying

Building a muscle car is becoming more attractive Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy

Funny you should mention. I've been thinking about restoring a vintage race truck.

The hobby is best experienced with a wife who loves you and doesn't mind you playing, a bisexual girlfriend who loves hot looking girls also, and the funds to pay for it.

Dk-

Rather than sex addiction, I should have used the proper term : you were are hyper sexually sensitive. You may not use sex to a point of harming yourself, but the hobby made you hyper-sexually sensitive. Think of it as the more you do it the more you need it. Sex,strip clubs, porn etc all can lead to hyper-sexual sensitivity. By taking a break, you have returned you sexual sensitivity to closer to normal and so the hobby does not hold the same allure..

Be aware: once you start back, the hyper-sensitivity will return rather quickly,

I saw the title of your thread and was going to respond with - you need a girlfriend. One that you get to fuck quite often.

Just my opinion on the matter.

When you have one of those in your life, the less often you feel the need or urge to hobby. Originally Posted by tntangie

This would just make me want to set up a 'chance' encounter with a provider to have them click, which hopefully would lead to a threesome.

Dk-

Rather than sex addiction, I should have used the proper term : you were are hyper sexually sensitive. You may not use sex to a point of harming yourself, but the hobby made you hyper-sexually sensitive. Think of it as the more you do it the more you need it. Sex,strip clubs, porn etc all can lead to hyper-sexual sensitivity. By taking a break, you have returned you sexual sensitivity to closer to normal and so the hobby does not hold the same allure..

Be aware: once you start back, the hyper-sensitivity will return rather quickly, Originally Posted by howsilly

No worries man, 99% of what I say here is said in a non-serious joking manner. You can call me an addict, a slut, or whatever you want (just don't call me collect). Rock on sir!

The hobby is best experienced with a wife who loves you and doesn't mind you playing, a bisexual girlfriend who loves hot looking girls also, and the funds to pay for it. Originally Posted by DSK

The ever elusive unicorn, with such a mate, my life would be complete!

I think that's what happens with most things, once you get over, for want of a better term, withdrawal you think more clearly about the risks vs benefits and hassle vs reward.

It could be argued that every action repeated long enough becomes an addiction, though I think the term is way over-used. Habit is more appropriate most times I think.

I haven't had a provider session in forever.. Prefer to stick to 1 maybe 2 civvies...
Don't really miss it but hobby fun is a WHOLE lot simpler... Last I hit up was Kylee Lynn- but I think she thought I was 5-0 and never responded.. I would still love to fuck her but oh well..hobby is fun and had some great times but when it gets to be a pain or lack of IOP I tend to bow out

Nosweat been a while brother

The less I want to do it. Why do you think that is? I used to love the shit, now I can take it or leave it. Originally Posted by DarkeyKong

I feel you DK buddy when you been on vacations as much as me lol the more you fuck outside the hobby and the less you want to hobby when you return just not a big reason to for me so it happens man. Fall back for a minute and come back strong boss

Trust me, my T levels are fine. I had 3 hard-ons before noon today. Couldn't leave my desk for 3 hours, lmao! Originally Posted by DarkeyKong

Lmao!!!!!

I totally agree!
So tired of all the crap to set up a visit.
When you are paying to see them.
I feel your pain.

Yeah it has Butch- we need to catch up soon!!

Barring any events unforeseen, the Friday following this coming Thanksgiving will mark the fourth anniversary of the last time I busted a nut in any way, shape or form.

There used to be an encouraging website out there which would have assured me that I had passed one of the major milestones on the path of the brahmachari (after three years of abstinence, the horn-dog demon is supposed to be 70% controlled, if I remember rightly).

Now all I find are disheartening, demystifying explanations like Alaine's: (age>50 years)+(income<50K)=NO SEX.

Wow. Who knew?

In the past, I have had provider sessions which made me think hard about refraining from the hobby. But, hoping for better, I always end up going back, whether is be contacting a provider or going to the strip club. I do not do studios anymore and never have done AMPS.

I have a few providers that are in my circle of providers I repeat with and a couple of strip clubs with a few strippers each who I see and have fun with regularly. However, I am always looking to expand both circles and also looking to see new to me girls for BCD and VIP fun when I can.