"To Kiss or not to kiss

I usually don't like to kiss too much on the first because I'm still trying to get to know her and what she likes. If there is a second date, then yes I do like to kiss.

No kiss, no date. Essential for me.

I've only met a few men in my 40+ years who didn't kiss.
They made for being very boring lovers and I wished I never met them. Because when one doesn't kiss then they tend not to enjoy other aspects of physical affection. And it was very true with those few. No kissing = lacking in pleasing the woman!
How one kisses is VERY telling of how the person is as a lover.


NOT saying your like those I've met. But may I ask why you can't get to know a lady and what she's like, on the first date AND still kiss her?
If there's NO 2nd date. Do you ever regret not having kissed her and tasting her lips and wandering what her kisses might of been like?
And do you or men like you who don't kiss. Ever tell the ladies from the get go? Or do you back away when she leans in for a kiss and tell her then, that you don't kiss?

I can't fathom meeting a man and only giving him my body and not enjoying his lips or his mine.

I usually don't like to kiss too much on the first because I'm still trying to get to know her and what she likes. If there is a second date, then yes I do like to kiss. Originally Posted by shorty

WM you stated the case perfectly. You describe the situation from this man's prespective. In fact kissing is a major part in getting to know the lady.

I absolutely love to kiss...big turn on for me.

How one kisses is VERY telling of how the person is as a lover. Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

I think you've said it all, right there -

No kiss, no date. Essential for me. Originally Posted by EJunkie

Absolutely! The lady would never even receive that first call from me.

I love a girl that kisses and a girl that can kiss well is a keeper in my book. Lots of girls kiss, but very few know how to kiss well

Wicked,
You nailed it right on the head for me. if there is no kissing then there is no passion and that leads for a boring session.
Its like going out on a date with boundries already set up and this is what you can do and not do.
its sort of like saying you can have sex without friendship..sure u can..(like 2 robots very impersonable )but you could have so much more if you take the time to get to know someone and enjoy the give and take between two people.
I know this is a business deal set up for both of you but if the provider is willing it can be so much more and it may exceed the term GFE because you both took the time to enjoy each other.

I love a girl that kisses and a girl that can kiss well is a keeper in my book. Lots of girls kiss, but very few know how to kiss well Originally Posted by the.namssa

+1!....I love love love to kiss, it is so sensual and erotic, however, I do not enjoy kissing someone who doesn't know how to kiss....I also don't really like it if the other person doesn't have relatively full lips (harder to bite!), I have rather big pouty lips and I love a man with nice full kissable lips!

+1!....I love love love to kiss, it is so sensual and erotic, however, I do not enjoy kissing someone who doesn't know how to kiss....I also don't really like it if the other person doesn't have relatively full lips (harder to bite!), I have rather big pouty lips and I love a man with nice full kissable lips! Originally Posted by Valerie

Damn it Val....That's the perfect answer!! Why aren't you kissing me right now!?!?!

I like to hold their head/face in my hands as Im sitting in their lap facing them so i can have total control of how i kiss them & where i kiss them mmmm

I like to hold their head/face in my hands as Im sitting in their lap facing them so i can have total control of how i kiss them & where i kiss them mmmm Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

Oh Lord !!! Where's a box of Kleenex when you need one....or two....or ten ?

Kissing, yes !!! its a must...the more lip locking the better..whats wrong with sensuality ?

i can here the scratching off now of 1 name from many to do lists

Sweet N Little = Yeaaaaaahhh!!

JahiaraQ = Boooooooo!!! Originally Posted by Ed Highlight