Just Wondering...🙋🏻

You truly are a sweetheart. I appreciated your email yesterday morning, I haven't had a chance to reply, working on it now lol. It's refreshing to hear that some girls have your back in this business. I've had some crappy experiences as far as providers just blatantly ignoring reference requests or once I contact them they'll message the gentleman and all of a sudden they're offering specials, lol. Originally Posted by Victoria Anne

Cool I was wondering if it got to you! 😘
Hope it helps some.

I have heard similar stories Victoria Anne...so sad...and Amber is Ahmmmmazing! Girls like her and Jenna that are always there with a ref and an encouraging word make my day even brighter

References are nice to have and are mainly what I depend on for screening because it hasn't really been an issue before.

But in the end you really don't know how well any girl screens and it's a chance to go on someone's word, especially ones that sometimes can be petty and vindictive that don't want to 'lose their client'.

People are fucked up and usually only care about themselves especially when it comes to money. When you think about it, there are so many bad situations other providers (vp or not) could impose on other working girls.

It's nice to have a back up method of screening in some cases. You just have to do what you feel most comfortable for yourself...

It's nice to help each other out but at the same time I also respect girls that don't GIVE references or TAKE references from other girls.

Like this I just read:
The girls in Indianapolis would even offer a discount if he would see them instead is the girl asking for a reference. ...they thought it was funny.

"I also pay no attention to references because reputable girls who were busted would give a reference for the police to set others up....all his information would screen properly because he would be using a busted clients information."

That`s why I implemented employment verification through a main line into the business. Girls and clients tore me apart on forums for doing this 9 yrs ago when no one checked employment....but I`ve never been busted and they all were. I don`t care about references...they have never meant a thing to me.



At a end of a day only you can protect yourself in this business.

Fuuuuuck. I'm glad I'm a white dude. It's just easier, lol.

References are nice to have and are mainly what I depend on for screening because it hasn't really been an issue before.

But in the end you really don't know how well any girl screens and it's a chance to go on someone's word, especially ones that sometimes can be petty and vindictive that don't want to 'lose their client'.

People are fucked up and usually only care about themselves especially when it comes to money. When you think about it, there are so many bad situations other providers (vp or not) could impose on other working girls.

It's nice to have a back up method of screening in some cases. You just have to do what you feel most comfortable for yourself...

It's nice to help each other out but at the same time I also respect girls that don't GIVE references or TAKE references from other girls.

Like this I just read:
The girls in Indianapolis would even offer a discount if he would see them instead is the girl asking for a reference. ...they thought it was funny.

"I also pay no attention to references because reputable girls who were busted would give a reference for the police to set others up....all his information would screen properly because he would be using a busted clients information."

That`s why I implemented employment verification through a main line into the business. Girls and clients tore me apart on forums for doing this 9 yrs ago when no one checked employment....but I`ve never been busted and they all were. I don`t care about references...they have never meant a thing to me.



At a end of a day only you can protect yourself in this business. Originally Posted by Amber Does

What is easier for you being a white guy?

I would think for the most part references would be more reliable than screening. A nut job can probably get past screening. At least with a reference you can talk to a gal that has actually seen the guy.

What is easier for you being a white guy? Originally Posted by Amber Does

what isnt

what isnt Originally Posted by Tirolian

besides dancing

LOL!!!....

sometimes you just have to work with whats already here




I guess

That

all there is too it...

Bad guys can be screened/referenced, you cant trust some ladies....

I do very little 'reference' checking myself unless I know/know of the gals. Or I feel I need to. I ask my own info about them and ask enough where I feel safe to see them.

I do ask who they have seen but does not mean I contacted the ladies. Its a do If I need to like I contacted Amber a few weeks back about a fella, it was like pulling teeth to get any info from him.. I never ended up seeing him.

When I work from home I 'fear' more I will know the guy over LE. haha. Ive had to turn down visits for knowing him. Ones you could see if you know them and ones you just cant... Ive had a few cants.. hell to the no.

What is easier for you being a white guy? Originally Posted by Amber Does

why ya ...people makin fathers ...day jokes?

Bad guys can be screened/referenced, you cant trust some ladies....

I do very little 'reference' checking myself unless I know/know of the gals. Or I feel I need to. I ask my own info about them and ask enough where I feel safe to see them.
Originally Posted by ElleW

Not sure how you can screen for badness. A guy can tell ya anything.

Soooo just what do these references consist of, whether a guy.......... a) stiffed you b) had bad breath? c) small dick? d) big dick? e) wasn't into slurping slits? f) asked for bbfs? g) none of the above h) all of the above......................... ...

Soooo just what do these references consist of.... Originally Posted by lickidyclit

Mainly this & that......but DEF slurping slits!....
Most are very appreciative if a good gash gobbler.....