This is principally why I do outcalls mostly. I like being on time and ready and not needing to wait. Plus I take very hot "project" showers. I need time to cool off an chill as it takes a lot of energy out of me. Since this is all paid for time I'm sure the amount of time it takes me to shower and cool off she won't afford me in extra time during my booked time. Especially after post coitus when I'm even more relaxed and lethargic. I can't get a shower under 25 45 minutes tops. I like to be clean and pristine. Especially for someone that doesn't know me and my habits.This, absolutely. I like long, hot showers and to be freshly scrubbed when a lady shows up. It's common courtesy.
Now if I used the bathroom prior to her coming again I'd shower again. Nothing is more strange to me than someone saying "you don't mind if I shower quickly do your mind." And then they proceed to only shower for five minutes or less than ten.
Generally I like when ladies arrive and are ready. If a lady arrived to me and the first thing she said was she needed to shower I might assume she just came from an appointment. Does the smell and taste of vagina go from sugar to shit within the few minutes or an hour she would take to drive to me? I hope not.....call me weird but sometimes I like my pussy to smell like pussy just a little.
Now because men can be more oily.....generally even when I'm dating non providers I will shower before sex occurs. But spontaneous sex does happen in my real life. If I went out to dinner and a movie with a girl, out for dancing, and came back to the crib to chill.......at the heat of the moment when we are netflixing and chilling I'm not gonna tell her to stop taking off her clothes and don't even reach for mine until she showers. Some of yall both hobbyist and providers are pinicky as hell. But your fucking a stranger basically. So it's understandable. Originally Posted by gimme_that
Yeah a man douche of brute/ax and a fresh coat of vitalas hair oil , just don't cut it, use the damn shower! If not for the ladies, do it for the next guys in line ! Originally Posted by miloLoL @ milo's comments. They are spot on.