SO sorry for the rant, But screening is a must.

Wow. Much Ado About Nothing.

Providers - if a client does not provide you with all the info you require for your safety, don't see them.

Clients - if a provider asks for more information than you are comfortable giving, don't see them.

Problem Solved. Now can we stop the drama?

From what I can tell no one asked you whether or not you screened on this board so even posting what you did "I will not screen you in a boat.. with a goat... you get the idea." sort of forces my response.

I would not see an ugly duck, I would not see you in a truck, I would not see you if I had some luck, I would not fuck you for a buck.

Can't help thinking of the Soup Nazi

Wow. Much Ado About Nothing.

Providers - if a client does not provide you with all the info you require for your safety, don't see them.

Clients - if a provider asks for more information than you are comfortable giving, don't see them.

Problem Solved. Now can we stop the drama? Originally Posted by BigMikeinKC

Funny thing is the most simple things are the hardest for many to get or accept. I've far too many times had guy TRY and fail to get me to see them and push and half-way insult me even because they feel they are too good to even sign up to a sight or give a simple provider reference.

Big Mike did put it into its simplest form. BUT as a customer in an industry that deals with very personal activities and wanting GFE and the provider offering GFE it sometimes takes time to get it to the simplest form. To get to that GFE involves TRUST. I am new to this only the last couple of months and I worry about discretion, LE, and STD's: The same that providers do. When I went into this I started looking in BP and comparable sites, then found escort.com, keep looking and since then P411 and eccie. Now I find that word of mouth needs to be added to the complete mix. I want to let the lady have a comfort factor with me without leaving myself open to a scam. Its hard to do. At this time a provider in Oklahoma has been kind enough to work with me over a 2 week period to get that trust factor, without putting me in a position that makes me uncomfortable and able to develop that trust with her. So when we do get there I look forward to the TRUE GFE.

Wow. Much Ado About Nothing.

Providers - if a client does not provide you with all the info you require for your safety, don't see them.

Clients - if a provider asks for more information than you are comfortable giving, don't see them.

Problem Solved. Now can we stop the drama? Originally Posted by BigMikeinKC

Nicely said. But, if I may add to it a little.

If a client doesn't give you what you requested in the first two emails, move on. Its really not as hard as some make it out to be.


DD....love it. Write one for me please


And some of y'all thought I was bitchy. HAHAHAHA

As a newly experienced member, I found it quite hard to get references when all ladies seemed to want them...the old thing about needing experience to get a job yet no one would hire you, came to mind. I eventually got over that hump though, but I also didnt have any lady ask me for personal information either.

Wow BigMike, that is so thinking outside the box!

I'm just kidding... of course you hit it so right on the head.

Sometimes things just don't work out, for either side. There are times when it sucks,
but be consistent either way...and just deal with it and move on,lol.

Everyone has the right to post their own thoughts & opinions on here. There is no need to be rude to her for doing so. What she has to say is just as important as what anyone else has to say.
If no one posted threads or commented this would be a pretty boring place.

No one is arguing whether she has the right to. Only whether it is prudent to do so. I have the right to empty my bank account and go to Vegas and put it on black...but it wouldn't be prudent to do so. Just because someone can do something doesn't mean they should..

Everyone has the right to post their own thoughts & opinions on here. There is no need to be rude to her for doing so. What she has to say is just as important as what anyone else has to say.
If no one posted threads or commented this would be a pretty boring place. Originally Posted by Allie_Kat

I don't think it's necessarily what OP said, it's how she said it that ruffled feathers.

She had a thorn that was annoying her but she used this forum for a rant that would have been better received in a griping session with friends in the trade.

A better post that would have made her point nicely but still delivered the message would have been something akin to:

"Gentlemen, a reminder to please read my terms carefully and fully comply with all information requested. Failure to do so will lead to delay and possible refusal of an appointment. i want this to be a safe, comfortable experience for us both so I ask for your cooperation. Thank you."

As it was, she sounded a bit like a pampered princess throwing a fit. Not too professional.

janwalshes hit the nail on the head. It's not always what you say, but how you say it.

It's still no excuse to be rude. I don't agree with alot of people's opinions on here but I don't say "Hey, you're doing it wrong so I'm going to be a butthead which will totally prove my point." Could she have made her point in a less aggressive way? Yes. Does making a rude comment back to her make everything hunky dory? Nope. We all can say things in ways which won't leave us looking like bullies. So lets try that...

I agree with Allie Kat on this one. If you don't like what someone posts, then scroll on. Honestly, it makes me think that Maddie has a little spunk and I like that in a lady. Id rather have someone say what is really on their mind than toy around with the words to ensure that no one gets offended. That's just a little too PC for me.

Now look here Miss Kat,
you are not going to bully me into doing or saying things that won't leave us looking like bullies. Wait just a minute, this is some kind of double negative bully thing you've got going on here. This is sounding a whole lot like that double reverse cockblocking a certain friend of yours has become somewhat known for! Does this make any sens ?