Drinking or Smoking During A Session ... A Yes or No? A Question To All Providers = )

Why do you have smoking in quotations?

Why do you have smoking in quotations? Originally Posted by Permission2Look

Cause I felt like putting it in quotes. Have a problem with that? Good for you.

Alcohol and smoke stink up the room and the body of the working girl. If I wanted an rendezvous date with a merchant marine, then I will go and get one.

A working girl who drinks and smokes during a session is eating up a John's time and is setting herself up for disaster because a lot of women can't handle booze and most have a tendency to drink too much at once which of course will cause a disturbance that will ruin the mood for everyone but at the John's expense and who then gets online and rants about it.

I knew this thread was eventually going to edge along impropriety.

Some of you are begging for points, even if you're trying to be clever with euphemisms.

Be aware of guideline #15 - There is no place in our forums for the general discussion or speculation of illicit drug use. This is to be considered a forbidden topic and mention of it will be removed.

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But I've seen a lot of gals that smoke...a common thing in this line of work.

I'm down with the drink as long as one party doesn't get soused....but it's kool if both do.

... I'm down with the drink as long as one party doesn't get soused....but it's kool if both do. Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

Yah that 15 guideline skipped my mind. Forgot bout it and gathered some points. Deff won't bring it up again, no Biggie.

I'm down with the drink as long as one party doesn't get soused....but it's kool if both do. Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

Hah!

Disclaimer: I've never tried a one hour session, so different opinion on drinking.

I don't smoke, I don't like the smell of smoke...but drinking is another story. Alcohol is liquid courage. And whiskey dick...but liquid courage too.

-Seeing a provider makes me nervous because of the legal ramifications.
-Being in a state of undress around a strange woman makes me nervous.
-Performance anxiety makes me nervous.
-Lots of things make me anxious.

I prefer to have a drink, and I REALLY prefer the lady have a drink with me - because it makes me feel like...I don't know. Like we're relaxing together. Having a woman march in and tell me that she doesn't drink while she's working reminds me that she's working, which punches holes into the IoP.

I had a session recently where I awkwardly tipped a provider a bottle of wine because she didn't drink while working...and I don't like drinking in front of people who aren't drinking, so it was unopened, but I was flying the next morning, so it would have been wasted on me...and she does drink wine, just not on the job. It was awkward.

I've had sessions where alcohol (or not alcohol) led to an inability to to anything. It's my money, my choice on who and how to spend it - and more than one provider has been paid her prevailing wage for a multi-hour session to sit and have a few drinks with me, pretend to be disappointed when my junk is unresponsive, and go home unmolested.

Providers - what's to lose?

People still smoke cigarettes?

I do not smoke cigarettes nor do I like the smell. However, on rare occasions a snifter of a good liqueur matched to a fine cigar is hard to beat. When coupled with the company of a lovely lady, in an appropriate setting, it simply cannot be beat for memorable relaxation and connection. Better than a massage, at least for me.

I don't smoke and I ask that gentlemen don't show up smelling like cigarettes or other substances. If it is an extended appointment I have a patio that can be used along with mouth wash. I don't mind having a drink with my partner but only if it is during an extended appointment. I like to have a drink or two to relax and talk before getting down to business. I don't think getting drunk during a session would be a good idea for either party.