and Slayde, i've given you TWO references WITH DETAILS to help you out but yet I never got one back. Originally Posted by addison_scottThank you so much AS for your comment.
I am 100% reference friendly (giving & receiving) and want to make that disclaimer before I get to my problem with number 2.Thank you for clarifying to the individuals that are going in blind
It is NOT the responsibility of another provider to keep you safe. That is YOUR job. Reference exchange imo is just good manners and can be nice and helpful.....to a degree (we all know sometimes a client can be great to 1 lady and a dick to the next). But it's a courtesy not a right.
It's tacky if the provider I ask for a ref check from doesn't respond but I don't care because I have other ways to screen .... another ho won't stop my dough lol.
The client should probably also know about the unresponsive provider so he can avoid wasting his time trying to use her in the future (and probably avoid seeing her in the future too). Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA
Thank you for clarifying to the individuals that are going in blind Originally Posted by SknyDiva
Welcome to eccie world. The only bad attitudes tolerated are the ones with DICK. That's the normal attitude right? Hobbyist are better than providers. We only risk ourselves. Desperate bunch of ho's. Originally Posted by SknyDivaHeh!
I'm the only one responsible for 'MY PURSE' as each and everyone
of us providers are
but If I can take 3 minutes of my time to help you w/your purse and safety I'd like the same courtesy back. I don't mind helping any verified providers even If you don't like me or you're not a favorite on my list I WILL STILL GIVE A PROVIDER A REFERENCE!
I understand a reference Is a courtesy and not mandatory to give one
but If you're gonna ask other providers for references then you should give them back or don't ask for them If you're not gonna give them Originally Posted by Seeking ~P
She's just on the Mississippi board begging now...Please come to Lafayette and make these gentlemen smile. If I can assist you in any way please do not hesitate to Holla .
This is the first time I've actually been ticked off, it's not just her this week that won't respond, and knowing these ladies got the message I sent... I'm sure if it was me offering them a gentleman they'd respond real quick..!
Such is life.... just as quick as I thought I was mad, it's truly not even worth it. Time to move along and make some people smile!! Originally Posted by addison_scott
Gents - What percentage of hobbyists do you think are in the hobby because of the spice of variety? I personally suspect this number to be fairly high.Where you at chic? You stir up your own stank and run away. Like blaming your dog for that fart you just let out.
Ladies - What are your thoughts on a Provider getting mad at a Client for wanting to see another Provider and refusing to provide a reference? I personally think it is a double disrespect. 1. She's refusing to assist her newbie client to get established in the hobby.
2. She's refusing to assist her fellow Provider in staying safe in this industry. As well as .... your thoughts???
Please add to .... Originally Posted by Slayde