Hmmm .... . I still can't understand why ???? Makes NO SENSE!

SO before I go to bed I would just like to debate that I would no longer like to be considered a provider but a companion or escort. It is not my job to provide anything but my time and company. Originally Posted by Cristi Cutiepie

... I don't mean to put to blunt a point on it, but your a Hooker and I'm a John all the semantics you want to throw at it are meaningless. A man shows up gives you 200 dollars and in return you let this stranger fuck you. I don't see anything wrong with that since it is a commodity that you as an attractive young female have that you can profit from in the absence of any marketable job skills.

If you don't believe me have a client come over and then just chat him up for an hour. When he asks about sex just inform him that he merely paid you for your time and that you don't want to have sex because thats not your job. I would be interested in the results of such a bold experiment on your part.

IMO, I think when a guy arrives, everything should be ready to go. If he gets there, and he forgot to bring them, and you don't have any, then either you both will have to wait while someone goes to pick some up or some activities aren't available.

I know it may not make sense to you about why the lady has to provide them, but, that's the way the business works. If you want to start having the guy bring them, just make sure that you advertise that and he knows. I know I'd be annoyed if I go to an incall and was told I should've brought them.

With respect cristi , youre not "so young" and from your pics, you look your age; 22 is old enough to have some common sense.

How could you trust a man bringing in his own protection? What if he brings something that you might be alergec to, or something expired or tampered with? Originally Posted by Miss Molly

Posting while tired can be about as dangerous as posting after a few drinks. Originally Posted by Precious_b

Nobody's problem but the OP's

I've ran into several providers that don't like client's condoms, because they may have had a guy mess with and or pierce it. Either party could go and rig up a rubber.

I've got a latex allergy so I bring my own latex free condoms. Most providers are ok with it and some even enjoy them better then the others.

Mostly though at the same time you are providing a service. Why not provide such a cheap item? They don't cost much and it's not like you are all providing a line-up of different types.

I'd say buy something that you enjoy and if the guy doesn't like it he can bring his own. Originally Posted by Sexwaffle

I am sorry but I thought the OPs original post was dumb.

I mean really. This is a job- right? Then WE, the providers need to be equipt to do the "job". I mean what fucking repair guy comes to the job and asks to use the clients tools? Really? Tsk tsk.

Another thing is "R E S P O N S I B I L I T Y" Say it with me.....

Another one would be as the gentleman above stated "You never know what a person will do to a condom. And what's more is you dont know how long he's had it, is it expired, etc or if he has left it in a hot car just toasting away, or if it is a brand you can trust at all.

The most important thing is to be prepared on either end, I would say. And if you really care at all about your health then you would have them with you- period. Anyone who has any self respect whatsoever uses condoms to be safe in this business. They are not always 100% fool proof but they come very very very close if used properly.

Another thing is this: Married men usually dont carry them- but when visiting a provider they should always be prepared, you can always leave the extras with her or throw them out or give to a friend. No biggie. They are inexpensive when you buy them only once in awhile as opposed to a provider who shells out much more and it becomes a work investment damn near. HA! Try to write that one off on your taxes!!! LOL!

Bottom Line: It is no one elses job to protect your health and safety but your own! A person who relys on a provider and/or client to do so is just plain stupid. Ignorant. Dumb. Oblivious to the biz. You should always be at the ready- you never know when you're gonna get fucked. (pun intended!)



Let's see, what am I missing? Did I mention this was a stupid question to begin with?

KKA

WOW amazing how negative everyone is. All I did was ask a simple question. In all my sexual experiences the males have been the ones with the covers - and then I join the Hobby world and its backward. I am sorry about my spelling. It was late at night and I was just about to go to bed so excuse me for being groggy. If that is what you are going to use to attack me - go ahead, you have no reason to attack me in the first place. I am not trying to hurt you in shape or form, calm down already!


Now also, quit putting words in my mouth. I always have my incall stocked with protection and towels. I have a pretty nice clean and stocked incall if I may say so myself. I am just using the forum to openly ask a question.

KKA, well i give my 2cents but i think you covered everything for me!!!! DITTO on your last sentence!

To me the logic was always that the lady is being paid so she provides the condoms. Also, like you said, a married guy getting caught with condoms is HUGE trouble. As far as a lady puncturing a condom to get pregnant, unless she targets one guy, how the hell is she going to know who it is? I'm assuming she'll target multiple gents until she gets pregnant, but if she does, how will she know WHO knocked her up? Give out a hobby name and post an ad on Craigslist and hope they volunteer to come forward for a DNA test? It just doesn't make sense to me. Originally Posted by Marcus78

not all females are high volume, some actually only one or two clients at most - and could single out and target one client . It wouldn't be that hard to do at all . Unless the gentleman started providing his own protection ...

This statement really bothers me.

Getting pregnant would not get anyone more money. On the contrary. It would diminish one's potential to gain and sustain a comfortable living (assuming that the person is a single parent). This really bothers me, because I grew up among people with this ideology. People that had no ambition to raise beyond their station. I am not scolding you, but I am concerned about the way you proposed this argument. It pains me to hear it from young adults. You have such great potential. Use your escorting money to better your education and open your minds to new ideas.

This hobby is not an ideal place. Sometimes it is dangerous. You never truly know who is showing up at your door. The least bad thing that can happen to you is someone not paying you for your time or getting busted. At worst, you pay for it with your life.

Back to the child issue. Getting pregnant is not a reliable venue for money. Some guys are dead beats. Others would never know they have a child (because you wouldn't be able to track them). Some would fight you in court for custody of the child (and some of us here have great lawyers and deep pockets).

Besides all of that drama, you will have to dress, feed and educate the sea monkey. If you do find a guy who will pay for child support, it will only pay for so much (which will go towards the kid, assuming you will be a good parent).

Getting pregnant for money, will make your life harder than you have ever imagined.

Did I mention that a pregnancy would wreck your body?

Ok, I'll get off my soap box. I think I have derailed this enough. Originally Posted by JJ

its called child support - it's an extra form of income - and if a girl takes care of herself she can have an even better body then before becoming pregnant .

I am sorry but I thought the OPs original post was dumb.

I mean really. This is a job- right? Then WE, the providers need to be equipt to do the "job". I mean what fucking repair guy comes to the job and asks to use the clients tools? Really? Tsk tsk.

Another thing is "R E S P O N S I B I L I T Y" Say it with me.....

Another one would be as the gentleman above stated "You never know what a person will do to a condom. And what's more is you dont know how long he's had it, is it expired, etc or if he has left it in a hot car just toasting away, or if it is a brand you can trust at all.

The most important thing is to be prepared on either end, I would say. And if you really care at all about your health then you would have them with you- period. Anyone who has any self respect whatsoever uses condoms to be safe in this business. They are not always 100% fool proof but they come very very very close if used properly.

Another thing is this: Married men usually dont carry them- but when visiting a provider they should always be prepared, you can always leave the extras with her or throw them out or give to a friend. No biggie. They are inexpensive when you buy them only once in awhile as opposed to a provider who shells out much more and it becomes a work investment damn near. HA! Try to write that one off on your taxes!!! LOL!

Bottom Line: It is no one elses job to protect your health and safety but your own! A person who relys on a provider and/or client to do so is just plain stupid. Ignorant. Dumb. Oblivious to the biz. You should always be at the ready- you never know when you're gonna get fucked. (pun intended!)



Let's see, what am I missing? Did I mention this was a stupid question to begin with?

KKA Originally Posted by KlassyKelliAnn

If it's so stupid why are you even wasting your time replying??? It is an important question that I wanted input on, so I have every right to ask. You can just stick your snotty nose somewhere else next time, k?

I am responsible - I never said I don't stay stocked.

Yes I do feel uncomfortable buying packs of condemns - I don't think it's anything to put me down for. Some guys feel uncomfortable buying tampons for their girlfriends. I don't attack them.

I understand the married man not wanting to be stocked but it is just as easy for you to go pick up a 3 pack as it is for me. I may have an S.O. too, what is he to think if he finds my stash???? I would like to be discreet too

wow just, wow..................

sixx

HEB and Walmart do have a self checkout. No need to be embarrassed. Sorry but your reasoning behind not wanting to provide protection seems silly to me. You think the men should be worried about the provider tampering with it but I would be more worried about a crazy client fixing it to bust for a BB feeling. It's hapened to a few providers. Why not avoid any chance of that and bring your own? I am in charge of my health. Originally Posted by Audrina Monroe

why would you see a weirdo like that in the first place??? screen screen screen!

I have to agree with Miss Monroe. What if this guy is a walking pietry dish of STDs? He won't care if you give him something if he already has it. Originally Posted by JJ

again screen screen screen, and clean and always good hygiene

I am amazed! She opens her mouth and it just comes out!

Isn't this so entertaining just like her other posts? Keep it up CC. I have become one of your big fans.
I am being sarcastic.

This is getting past painful... maybe posting groggy or the morning after isn't such a good thing for business.

Over 40 is a good thing.