Does a Providers Character Really Matter?

I don't think I have ever been so turned on by a woman in my entire life! You rock Caroline, and yes you are beautiful because you are confident on top of sexy! Originally Posted by Kaylee

Kaylee, thank you.

As Big C already mentioned, he and I have NEVER MET. That fool who called me .. what was it, a "witch" LMAO was lying just like the rest. But he's predictable, I knew he would OUT his character.

My character: if you must know, I'm all about discretion.

Kaylee, thank you.

As Big C already mentioned, he and I have NEVER MET. That fool who called me .. what was it, a "witch" LMAO was lying just like the rest. But he's predictable, I knew he would OUT his character.

My character: if you must know, I'm all about discretion. Originally Posted by caroline!

Be careful who you are calling a liar, Caroline. Once again BigC lets you get away with libel. Don't forget who again started this open argument. Keep it up, Caroline, I'll post your emails and your true character will be exposed on this board for all to see.

Ok, I'm not going to say this again: "KEEP YOUR PERSONAL DRAMA BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU OFF THE BOARD.....

And TGL, threatening to violate the rules by saying you're going to post emails and/or PMs on the board here is a pretty good way to get yourself a vacation.....

A further post from you or Caroline in this thread that has nothing to do with this thread's topic and expect a pretty lengthy vacation.....No one really cares about what went down with you two on ASPD.....This is ECCIE, not ASPD, and this board is drama free.....'Nuff said (or it damn well better be).....

I feel the character issue works both ways. The author of this thread did himself no favors with the ladies posting what he did, some might assume he was a scorned sugardaddy. Also, men may opt not to see her based on his thread, because the stereotype given to providers as being opportunists, using men, and all that was written. Now I do believe that if a guy is aware of a ladies legal issues he may want to think twice. I check for a clients legal issues before I will see him, sex offender, violent felon, etc. I dont want to see someone who will place me at risk, that day or any other day. So the character issue works both ways. One thing that Ive had guys do is thank me for being honest in our communication about what they will get and what they dont get. Ive never lied about NOT being a GFE. Nor do I have any arrests, drugs or anything in my past. I have a few tickets and thats about it--and identity theft GRRR!! I think the boards can be a great tool on both sides. But you do have to remember that people can be anything they want to be on here. There are a few guys I thought were total jerks but really they are the sweetest(you know who you are--I wont ruin your rep here though lol) so I would have almost missed an opportunity to become friends had I just judged them by their posts. I also come across mean at times, but those who know me, well they know Im really a sweety. Just some people rub me the wrong way--or have a God complex, and well, I enjoy a challenge.

You really have to remain open minded, and instead of caving to rumors, why not just ask that person straight up, and follow your gut feeling from there. Try to tame your boy while your at it because most men tend to think with the wrong head. This is a risk you are taking, with your well being, family life, career and more, but you know this, and have to be prepared for consequences if something goes wrong. Some see this as a game, but in reality it isnt. This can be serious....and can ruin lives. Something to think about when your seeking out a provider in the future. Maybe her character should matter, and her rap sheet as well.

And Big C, for the record, I read your posts, and I can tell your a VERY SEXUALLY FRUSTRATED MAN--maybe someone needs to be getting busy!

Ha leave C alone Chella! He already admitted he missed super fine Angel...don't rub in in for the poor man