Provider pics fake or altered or indistinguishable...

I do like Slave's logic here. Nice post.

These ladies do not judge us on first looks and I've learned to do likewise. Originally Posted by ugotme10

I'm sure they judge, even more than some of us in some cases. I believe this is where the acronym YMMV comes in to play, and in all fairness, we're the ones paying the inflated rates that they feel they're worth. The least they can do is be upfront about theirappearance. I've come to learn that the good ones are definitely out there, you just have to find them.

MikeySanSpur has the right of it.

If you don't like what opens the door IMMEDIATELY say "this will not work I was expecting something diffferent" hand the chick a 20 (hell even a 10 is fine) and get the hell outta dodge.

Don't waste either of y'alls time by devoting any more time to explain yourself. She has to know the reason you refuse to go through with the appointment. If some girl can't be bothered to post a picture of what she looks like recently then that's on her. Originally Posted by SA Angel

Hand her money for what? For us driving there and wasting our time?
No no no, I will kindly say-- " may I pass" and that's it.

No harm no foul.

Bing Bing Bing Bing we have a winner! Well said!
Yes a lady should be able to "pass" on a guy, but We all know what kind of retailiation that will bring on!
I have had this same scenario thrown at me, and I end up going through the session and "hope for the best"! Most times I just have to resort to the spank bank, close my eyes and take a deed seat!
Because I know you ladies have your "powder room" section, as we gents have our men's only section... I don't want the drama of having to tell someone she's "not suitable" to my fantasy, then have the worry of her bashing me because her feelings or pocketbook were hurt!

If a provider is posting photos that are in no way a good representation of what she looks like currently then I think you have every right to BAIL... Yes, that time cannot be taken back but that is better than going through with an intimate encounter and then both of you FEELING bad after the session is over...

This is supposed to be a FUN HOBBY... I think it is ok to leave if you get to the ladies in call and there is just NO CHEMISTY and you just do not think that you will have a good time..

It is our JOB to pamper and spoil you boys and if you are not happy RIGHT FROM THE START then things will probably go south from that point on...

Now, lets look at the FLIP SIDE of the scenario... I have seen many a lady get BASHED because they have terminated sessions based on a gentleman's hygiene, bad behavior and yes, in some cases they have lied about their age, body types etc...

So, I also think it is ok for a PROVIDER to BAIL if she is not comfortable as well... WE are all adults and as we grow as professionals & hobbyists we should all be comfortable enough to say what will work for us and what will not...

However, far too often... especially with the new providers they are scared of getting a BAD REVIEW... and yes, some guys do use threats and coercion to get some ladies to go through with a sexual experience that they would rather walk away from...

Honesty and respect are a two way street...

Just my two cents...

Your thoughtful slave

Guinevere

P.S

Great Topic!! Originally Posted by Slave Guinevere

Bing Bing Bing Bing we have a winner! Well said!
Yes a lady should be able to "pass" on a guy, but We all know what kind of retailiation that will bring on!
I have had this same scenario thrown at me, and I end up going through the session and "hope for the best"! Most times I just have to resort to the spank bank, close my eyes and take a deed seat!
Because I know you ladies have your "powder room" section, as we gents have our men's only section... I don't want the drama of having to tell someone she's "not suitable" to my fantasy, then have the worry of her bashing me because her feelings or pocketbook were hurt! Originally Posted by turbotexas

Good point- that's what would happen.

Just wrong. Seen a provider in Houston from back page like 6 month ago. Her ad pictures were of a A.A light skinned provider. When she opened the door she was black like Leslie Jones! I turned around and took off. I just heard the door slam. Got a hand full of texts cursing me out and prank calling me. That i wasted her time blah blah.

Hand her money for what? For us driving there and wasting our time?
No no no, I will kindly say-- " may I pass" and that's it.

No harm no foul. Originally Posted by LittleRedWagon

To be perfectly honest if she's that deceptive it's just a move on the hobbyist part to avoid a BSC girl (or her "companion") getting pissed off.

Notice how I said to get the hell outta dodge. There's a reason for that.

Should you HAVE to? Nope...but it's a good idea to avoid drama from those types.

To be perfectly honest if she's that deceptive it's just a move on the hobbyist part to avoid a BSC girl (or her "companion") getting pissed off.

Notice how I said to get the hell outta dodge. There's a reason for that.

Should you HAVE to? Nope...but it's a good idea to avoid drama from those types. Originally Posted by SA Angel

I understand totally

To be perfectly honest if she's that deceptive it's just a move on the hobbyist part to avoid a BSC girl (or her "companion") getting pissed off.

Notice how I said to get the hell outta dodge. There's a reason for that.

Should you HAVE to? Nope...but it's a good idea to avoid drama from those types. Originally Posted by SA Angel

What is a BSC girl?

I'm super bowl Sunday I agreed to see a fella who was not on the board (which is rare) & I told him please review my reviews of what u can see bc ur references are petite spinners. He said ok. So I got ready & was stuck in traffic trying my best to be on time & presentable. I got a notel & he arrived, we chatted he used the restroom & then I excused my self to change. He said he was nervous but didn't feel comfortable..lol I called him out on it bc I knew he was into smaller spinner types. He agreed & we laughed. He paid me for the room for inconvenience(his words). Without doing f.s & chatting it up he spent 20-25 min in room. I did offer him bk the $ but he declined. Nice guy but No chemistry as well. We both avoided what could have been an awkward moment..

Well all in all I do rent my rooms so of course it's appreciated but not expected however that was my first experience in over 10yrs I've been around.

Xo
Lex Originally Posted by Secret Encounters

I once met a lady while I was up in Georgetown. We decided to meet at a coffebucks and chat there in a relaxed atmosphere. Twenty minutes later we went to her place. I think in situations you described it would be best to meet in a public place where there’s less awkwardness provided you have some privacy. Last thing I need is a waiter coming by the table every few minutes.

What is a BSC girl? Originally Posted by turbotexas

Bat-shit crazy.

To this day, I still don't understand what is so difficult about researching, finding, and booking with a companion who accurately represents what she looks like. Some paid ad sites even provide authentication that listed photos are of the provider in the ad and are current. And with hundreds of escorts now maintaining an active social media presence and sharing new images monthly, or even weekly or daily, it just baffles me when there are guys who will enable and even positively review providers who clearly stole photos.

On the other hand, because I go out of my way to be transparent when I convey what I look like (heck, I even list my dress size in my advert) I would consider someone who pitched meeting me in public first as a lazy researcher and time waster.