Humans have pheromones just like other animals. Modern science takes the position that their function is not really understood. Duh. What function would they have? Most scientists are in dire need of getting more pussy, I guess a lot of them have never experienced that feeling of being drawn like a bug to the light, but it's definitely real.I like this explanation....
In civvie life people should be just open and honest and willing to take risks. But they aren't, so with all the bullshit that comes along with dating most of the good chemistry gets spoiled.
Despite what the cynics say, it can also happen just as easily with a provider. The chemistry part - literally chemistry. Two people that get together regardless of the circumstances, and find they have just that certain "smell". Any woman who is providing and also even marginally healthy mentally will put up a lot of barriers to any kind of intimacy. Occasionally some are also willing to at least partially lower those barriers as well. The it can definitely happen because if the women chooses to lower her barriers you don't have to cut through all the bullshit of dating/relationship stuff.
It depends on the woman, and I don't think it is ever as intense as it could be because I don't think anyone ever completely drops the barriers to intimacy. But yeah, you can have real chemistry with anyone who is chemically compatible,and it can be more than just a roll in the hay.
Although I know it can happen, it's not much more than a roll in the hay in a practical sense because it is certainly utterly foolish to think there is any kind of future in it. But in the moment, it is uncommon but not impossible and you can have at least a little more sometimes - for a little while. Just don't kid yourself and think you can actually do something with that. Originally Posted by DatManDu