I spent quite a few years getting established on ECCIE and like to think I've had a good reputation during my time here. One of the things I find limiting in my activities lately is that I rarely have time to see established ladies these days, due to either phone tag, floating schedules (mine) or the lady just isn't in town or advertising availability when I'm able to play.
I did P411 for a couple of years, and have recently let it expire since the ladies I have recently been able to see weren't even on there, so it has been a useless resource for me as of late. Not to mention the increasing cost. I'll have to get that reinstated at some point. Then there are the ladies that require recent OKs or recent referrals. Referrals in the past 3-6 months I can understand, but why require that my OKs be within that period of time too? Makes it very difficult for an occasional hobbyist to get in the door. I've got 5+ OKs but none in the last 18 months even though I was a paying member for that time. Why should when I got the OK matter if I'm verified on there?
Ok, I'll shut up now.
Sorry I never got around to seeing you again Diva.