A few things I need to get off my chest. :)

I just gotta ask, who the hell doesn't know their balls stink? Originally Posted by monkmonk

I am with you on that one MonkMonk! How do you head to an appointment knowing that you have not washed you ball sack since early morning or even better since the night before and this was before you went to the gym!!! Now thats flat out disrespectful.....

But ladies it does go both ways!!!!

Actually I fixed it before you complained. So, really your input wasn't needed. Feel free to leave my thread in peace. Thanks for stopping by. Originally Posted by tracibrooks

I saw the hot mess before you fixed it. Your second post even apologized for what a cluster of words it was. Anyway I have no problem leaving your threAD.

Everything you ask of the gents is reasonable and should be common sense. I always research a ladies posts and reviews to get a good feel for what she likes and dislikes.

There a couple of things I want off your chest as well!!

Very nicely stated and formatted... Can't think of a nicer and straight to the point way of saying it and they are all things very important and those who care at all will change and this will benefit alot of us ladies... Thank you Traci...
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Originally Posted by trynagetlaid
Thanks for the migraine!!! If you can't type without paragraphs please fix whatever "scripting" problem you have...please!!!

Don't blame her for the migraine you got when you chose to read the thread. Guess taking personal resposiblity for your actions isn't your stong suit, might be why you are trynagetlaid while the rest of us are getting laid!

Traci, I'll bet he's snippy cause he directly fits a few of the good points you made.

Hahaha my thoughts exactly novacain why even post that??? Nothing to do with post, no point, just rude, come on people we all know you don't let everything that comes to your mind come out your mouth...... If people followed this rule we'd have alot less drama...

my only "bone' of contention is this.. so many threads have discussed this.. providers do not want to be asked explicit questions regarding avail activities / menu. often we are told if we ask such questions we will bw hung up on or refused a session. also sp often say reviewers often lie.. so if we cannot ask the question or believe the reviewer how do we book someone who provides the types of activities we enjoy without taking the old ymmv risk. if you only hobby once in a blue moon we don't wanna risk at the intense moment being told oh i don't do that when it is something we thought was ok.. just wondering. all your other points i agree with 100 percent

Hello everyone. Traci here with a gentle-as-possible reminder about a few things that seem to need saying. If these do not apply to you, then please disregard them, and thank you for not adding to the problem, my loves. I hope you can take these thoughts in the spirit they were intended and please feel free to add your own, ladies and gents. Keep in mind that these thoughts are modeled around me, specifically. I am NOT speaking for all of the ladies, though I'm sure many will agree with a few things.

* There IS a different between PSE and GFE. It is pretty well known that I am VERY GFE. So I do not understand why some of you come into my space, and then try to direct our time together in a way that is not natural to me and makes me very uncomfortable. I love to please you and make you feel wonderful, and I hate saying no to you, so please don't try to get me to do things that you should know by now that I don't do. AT LEAST have the decency to ask, first, before just doing them, if you are unsure. With all the information about me out there, why would anyone come to me, specifically, and expect anal play, or stripper slide, or deep throat, or face thrusting (my gag reflex WILL make you regret that one :P), just to name a few? I provide a GFE, which is generally softer and slower and more sensual. If you want balls to the wall f*cking, with all sorts of acrobatics and acronyms, then perhaps a PSE lady is more your cup of tea. If you want someone to make you feel like you are the only man in the world, with an atmosphere of sweet, playful fun, then perhaps look my way.

* It is generally understood that I don't clock-watch. If things take a few extra minutes to wrap up naturally, that's okay with me. But some of you are taking extreme advantage of this and ruining it for everyone. You and I both know how long your appointment was scheduled for. If you notice that you have gone over by 15 minutes or more, perhaps a tip might be in order? I would never demand anything we didn't agree to up front, but if you steal my time from me, without even graciously offering a tip to make my generosity and extra effort feel appreciated, you might discover that I always seem to be booked after that.

* Please, please, PLEASE use the toiletries that are in my bathroom. I put them there for you, I don't mind at all if you use them. And, taking just a couple of minutes to do so, means you and I both will not be embarrassed when I'm trying to avoid your kisses because your breath isn't fresh, or I have to reach for a wetwipe to get your boys smelling and tasting fresh enough to be pleasant. This especially goes for those of you who are uncircumcised. I love an uncut penis as much as a cut one, when it is properly clean. Please do me that favor.

* Don't wait until the end of our appointment to put the envelope out. I will be worried the entire appointment that you have no intention of paying me, and I will not have as much fun as I could have if you had just set the envelope out at the beginning.

So there you have it. The things that seem to have gotten out of control lately. I don't know why, but I really wish it would stop. I love what I do, but some guys are really making it feel like a job. Please do your part to make sure I stay the fun, flirty, happy lady that you know and enjoy. Originally Posted by tracibrooks

Don't blame her for the migraine you got when you chose to read the thread. Guess taking personal resposiblity for your actions isn't your stong suit, might be why you are trynagetlaid while the rest of us are getting laid!

Traci, I'll bet he's snippy cause he directly fits a few of the good points you made.
Originally Posted by Pleasure09

I have no problem with her threAD, other than the fact every point in it has been rehashed on here umpteen million times. The problem was it was originally posted as one long run-on sentence with no separation, and it was very difficult to read. Have you ever tried to read a book or magazine article that has no paragraph separation?

I only wish you could hear my applause after that wonderfully presented message, Traci! ALL of the things you mentioned can tend to get a bit out of control. Guys I beg you to please do your research on a provider, Not Only for Your SAFETY but also for Your SATISFACTION, before going out on a limb and just seeing her and having turn out to be bad for everyone envolved. Tip***Guys the majority of VERIFIED Providers on this site have a showcase which tells you pretty much Everything a provider wants you to know about her & her services. READ IT!

If you notice that you have gone over by 15 minutes or more, perhaps a tip might be in order? I would never demand anything we didn't agree to up front, but if you steal my time from me, without even graciously offering a tip to make my generosity and extra effort feel appreciated, you might discover that I always seem to be booked after that. Originally Posted by tracibrooks

So, what's the best way to tip in this situation? Do I take out my wallet and hand you a $20 or two? Do I ask if it's okay to tip you? Do I offer to give you 15 minutes of sex for free to make up for it?

Even after I have visited a woman a couple of times, I still get the feeling that there should be no money exchange outside of that little white envelope, which should be placed in plain sight at the beginning.

Traci,
Well put.. !
Thanks so much for posting.. !!!

my only "bone' of contention is this.. so many threads have discussed this.. providers do not want to be asked explicit questions regarding avail activities / menu. often we are told if we ask such questions we will bw hung up on or refused a session. also sp often say reviewers often lie.. so if we cannot ask the question or believe the reviewer how do we book someone who provides the types of activities we enjoy without taking the old ymmv risk. if you only hobby once in a blue moon we don't wanna risk at the intense moment being told oh i don't do that when it is something we thought was ok.. just wondering. all your other points i agree with 100 percent Originally Posted by petiteassman

I can kind of see your point, actually. And truthfully, I am one of those providers who will not see someone if they try to talk activities before meeting me. My answer may not be perfect, but lets not forget that the hobby has come a long way since the days of looking up an agency in a phone book and just hoping she's not crazy or hideous. First, research research, RESEARCH! There must be three dozen reviews about me on this site alone. Read half a dozen of them and you can get a very good idea of what to expect from me, just by looking at the activities listed. You could also read my website to discover that I am much more centered around the experience and atmosphere than the acronyms. And finally, once you've done that, and made it to my boudoir, THEN you may ask about activities you are unsure of. Is it a teensy bit of a gamble? Yes. Is it worth it? I'd like to hope so, considering the huge gamble I take every time I meet one of you for the first time. Again, this is modeled around me, specifically, but most ladies on this site have multiple reviews about them and a showcase or website.

As for the troll who insists on mucking up my threAD , I appreciate the well intended responses, but lets just ignore him. Obviously he thrives on causing trouble, which is kind of sad, and I don't want it on my thread. Do me the favor of considering him what he is. The gum on the bottom of your shoe.

So, what's the best way to tip in this situation? Do I take out my wallet and hand you a $20 or two? Do I ask if it's okay to tip you? Do I offer to give you 15 minutes of sex for free to make up for it?

Even after I have visited a woman a couple of times, I still get the feeling that there should be no money exchange outside of that little white envelope, which should be placed in plain sight at the beginning. Originally Posted by filbone

Most of my clients that feel I have earned an extra something outside of what they originally intended to leave me, simply place it where ever they placed the envelope on their way out the door. No discussion, no awkward moments, and I get to feel really good about myself because I know I went above and beyond what they were expecting. If you don't feel the desire or need to tip, that's perfectly okay, just don't overstay your welcome.

I know it's a big joke around here that what we sell is our time. It's not a joke to me. I sell my time, and in that time, I intend to make you feel as wonderful as possible, within my comfort limits. When you take extra time and don't even offer a tip, to me, it's the same as if I reached into your wallet and took extra money without your consent. You wouldn't like that very much, would you? **Disclaimer: I would never do that.** However, as I said, my goal is to make you feel as good as possible, so I will not pitch a fit and try to literally push you out the door if you thoughtlessly run way over your time. I will politely try to guide you that way, but no matter what, I will try to maintain an atmosphere of welcome. I will not ruin your perhaps expensive experience just because you are being inconsiderate of me. However, you may not get to repeat the experience. Honestly, I think that's more than fair, and I don't think it unreasonable to either expect you to make your exit within the time limits you set for yourself when you booked, or leave me a little extra something since you took a little extra something.

You should just schedule and appointment with me, and I can run out the door when Triple-A shows up.

Dunno if this has been brought up bcs I just flipped to the last page. So if redundancy applies here, appologies. I assume that all my fellow hobbist show up fresh and clean, so to here this along with requested activities outside your menu is very disappointing. IK there are a few hobbist who fall in the mediocre category>>not good and not bad either, that need to be reminded. Thus a rule of cleanliness and hobby etiquette is born. This topic needs to be brought up. Im sure your not the only one with this problem. So thx for speaking up and sharing this intel. Rules are made bcs someone srewed up. Safe travels on tour

Right on Traci, my biggest peeve is good clean hygiene! When you guys are clean and fresh we really get into what we are here for. But if hygiene isn't good then it is really hard and then ymmv and that wont be very far. Originally Posted by Sami

Very fair point, but keep in mind that often times we need a little help with that. We may have come from the office, airport, or may have simply been in a car for 15 minutes in August. I've left home squeaky clean and fresh and after 30 minutes in the car things are funky again. Texas is a warm moist place lol.

Make sure we know there's a shower, soap and towels. Heck, offer to help scrub the hard to reach places even A girl who offers a shower and jumps in with me would be a favorite!

Traci, it is a shame you had to post that. It seems that common sense is not so common after all. Originally Posted by OldGrump

Old Grump, I know a guy who doesn't even remember to put gas in his car, then wonders why the car won't start????

Traci, I couldn't have said it better myself! I appreciate you posting this.
I am not sure why, but it seems like some have gotten too comfortable and think not showering, over staying the appointment time, and almost walking out the door without paying is fine by any lady.
I believe most ladies are discreet and respect the hobbyist's privacy. We just ask the same in return when is comes to our guidelines. A friendly reminder never hurt anyone.
Thanks again Traci!
Hugs and Kisses,
Maria of DFW