Providers that ARE NOT reference friendly

Jules, in a world where it is becoming so hard to get references back - even from well-known providers who say they are reference friendly, thank you for always being an amazing and lightning fast reference. I am reference friendly as well, and always let clients know that I would be happy to be a reference for them in the future.

You do have the right to be haters and not give out references, I don't get it but it's your right.

If you are one of these girls why don't you put it on your profile and in each and every one of your ads and let your clients know this BEFORE they book with you. Guys see girls (especially newbie friendly ones) to gain references to see OTHER girls.

It would save all (CLIENTS AND PROVIDERS) of us a bunch of time if you did.

Thanks Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

Get on P411. Reference problems are way reduced. And its free for you ladies. Why would you not be on there? And for newbe clients , its by far the easiest way to get started.

I think almost every lady in this thread, if not EVERY lady.. is on P411. It makes life easier-- but doesn't eliminate all issues.

I think almost every lady in this thread, if not EVERY lady.. is on P411. It makes life easier-- but doesn't eliminate all issues. Originally Posted by Grace Preston

Nope. It sure doesn't...

I really like your response. Having references has proven difficult. And I'm super respectful 😕

Great Thread Jules!

To add a little in regards to references. Most of the ladies on here (including myself) are more than happy to provide a reference for you guys. However, if I haven't seen you in over a year and you are still using me as a reference over and over and over and over and over and over and over again (you get the point)....I am going to let the lady know that.

I have several people that I haven't seen in over 5 years that use me on a weekly basis as a reference. If I am requesting reference from another lady and she hasn't visited with someone fairly recently...it doesn't count in my book.



To the ladies that are reference friendly....thank you

Spikebaby

Great Thread Jules!

To add a little in regards to references. Most of the ladies on here (including myself) are more than happy to provide a reference for you guys. However, if I haven't seen you in over a year and you are still using me as a reference over and over and over and over and over and over and over again (you get the point)....I am going to let the lady know that.

I have several people that I haven't seen in over 5 years that use me on a weekly basis as a reference. If I am requesting reference from another lady and she hasn't visited with someone fairly recently...it doesn't count in my book.



To the ladies that are reference friendly....thank you

Spikebaby Originally Posted by Spikebaby

Interesting. Have to wonder if you're not a victim of your own success. You're well known and well respected here so I'd think you'd make for a much better reference than the flash in the pan girls.

Just wanted to post a thank you to all ladies who respond to another provider's reference requests.

Interesting. Have to wonder if you're not a victim of your own success. You're well known and well respected here so I'd think you'd make for a much better reference than the flash in the pan girls. Originally Posted by TheEccie214

That's exactly what it is. I get reference requests all the time for people I haven't seen in years-- I still give them, with the note that I haven't seen them since _____

Interesting. Have to wonder if you're not a victim of your own success. You're well known and well respected here so I'd think you'd make for a much better reference than the flash in the pan girls. Originally Posted by TheEccie214

And I am ALWAYS happy to provide a reference for someone. However, if it is over a year I simply let the lady know that. Lots can change in time. If he was a gentleman and all the good stuff that goes with that I let her know that as well. She can choose to take it for what it is worth.

But what if the fucktard is memorable, say has legendary 1.3" of dangling death and absolutely no skills?

Pretty much everyone I contact for references replies back...but the timing sometimes is next day or hours later after I've already screened the client.

I generally hear back within 15 minutes or less though and I try to reply back as soon as I get the alert however sometimes I'm on eccie but in the middle of typing or reading something. If that's the case then I'll reply once I'm done.

I've had ladies in the past PM for a reference then less than 15 minutes later PM again trying to chew me out for apparently not replying quick enough.

I've seen it go down as follows:

1. Says they never saw the guy.
2. Doesn't respond at all.
3. Responds, but contacts guy to give a sweeter deal Originally Posted by Grace Preston

That happened to me. Saw the girl then about 2 days later asked for a reference. She told the provider that she never saw me and that in her words I must be lying. However, I "was" considering going back but that just did it for me. Never again. I am not a newbie been here since aspd days. Just like to keep UTR IF there is such a thing. Thanks for the post.

That happened to me. Saw the girl then about 2 days later asked for a reference. She told the provider that she never saw me and that in her words I must be lying. However, I "was" considering going back but that just did it for me. Never again. I am not a newbie been here since aspd days. Just like to keep UTR IF there is such a thing. Thanks for the post. Originally Posted by hrock1

Oh there was a girl here who recently left that was KNOWN for that. Every single time (I gave up after the 4th man) I contacted her for a reference she "didn't remember" or "have record" of seeing them. Me and the last dude laughed our asses off about it when we met because he had just saw her the week before and he even showed me the texts between the two of them. After that I just informed guys that I don't accept her as a reference and asked for another girl.

The cockblocking usually does not even work and it just makes them look bad

I agree with jules