Private residence incall locations or hotel incall locations?

So, as soon as you said you have to put an ID into a mailbox my mind started going in all kinds of conspiracy ways...

You've already mentioned you've got a workaround with one of the guards. Means you can be sweet talking them into letting you move guests past them. What else could you be sweet talking them into? Opening your mailbox and copying the ID?

Do you let the guests know this will be the security protocol before they arrive? Or are they taken by surprise when they get there and just submit rather than look suspicious?

Please understand I am NOT saying this is what is happening. Just random bs that went through my head and I ain't even one of the guys that will want to come see you.

Now, you have had a stand up reputation for a long time here, and I think that speaks louder than the naysayers. If this situation works for you and your clients, then rock it. Originally Posted by ~Ze~

Once again, you've read my mind. Identity theft is becoming too much of an issue in these days for a guy to even consider handing over an ID. Sure, there's some that will do it, but many more who won't. Also if LE thinks there's a possibility a provider is stealing identities, that may put her on THEIR "to do" list.

Are you implying that I am doing something wrong? It's not me who does this, it's the management company and armed guards....I've got a wonderful record and even greater presence on here, and been a great provider for years before getting on here..... I'm sure lots of you Dallas girls are known for dumb shit, (look at the many ripoff reports) but I am glad I am not one of the many "not worth it" girls here... there's also other decent providers, and a few of us great ones. if my high rise apartment's tough security bothers you, feel free to get a hotel downtown and I will most happy to accommodate anyone.... there's hardly any real licensed massage therapists and/or physical Rehabilitation therapists in the DFW area, let alone who also provides great companionship, intelligent conversation, and a 10th floor high rise apartment downtown Dallas by the Ross Tower......

No one is implying anything about you. There are just too many people with ulterior motives, male and female, in the hobby. That is why so many have strongly voiced their opinions.

I dont mind going through gates. But I dont like having to retrieve an id. I usually dont bring one. I also dont like the idea of lots of cameras.

and you are getting honest replies. I have not seen where anyone is questioning YOU,

They are replying to the security issue of giving up there ID. I can not blame them, I would not either,

that said you must be comfortable, so do as you see fit. But know that it will affect your business.

I know a number of ladies who see folks at their private residence. Most after a visit or two elsewhere so they are more comfortable. You mentioned the shootings, Those did NOT take place in the residence, they were in the parking facility which anyone with a bit of determination can get into. The other shooting took place on the street. I advise folks of this stuff all the time and you have no idea how many are not "situationally aware" of their surroundings.

Bottom line is, the ID issue will keep many folks away- too bad as you have a good reoutation and a nice unit~~

Sounds like a nice place to live, and a terrible place to hobby. Originally Posted by corona

Couldn't say it better.

There is a great big firewall between RL and the hobby.

Plus those high profile residents make for a high LE presence. Sure it's great place to live, though.

There are many ladies here who keep a separate private incall that is separate from there home.

I think it would be an amazing place to live and see regular hobby clients with whom you have built up a level of trust, and also legitimate massage clients with no hobby trail to cover up.

I do expect for one time hobbyists of the paranoid type or with a lot to lose in their RW that having to relinquish their ID is just more than they may be comfortable with.

I wouldn't take offense personally, this is more about them than you.

I live in a secure building and when the door buzzers aren't working and I have to come down and retrieve my hobby guests I always feel like it's an indiscretion for my neighbors to see me walking through the hallway with a random stranger. Thank goodness the keypad entry has been working with very few hiccups since they repaired it last year!!!

So someone has told me about renting a monthly room space I believe I saw a thread on here about it. Where do I find info about these places? I think analeese was talking about it.... anyone have any info on such a place?

I just sign my name and apt# and the guests id goes into my mail slot until they return to pick up the ID and leave. Nothing more. In my building there's some high profile Tenants and for safety reasons they do it this way. I've had a few (2) clients come and have had no problems with this and was happy with the complete security aspect of it... Originally Posted by Lovelyyellie

That would be a deal breaker for me,And I would find it VERY uncomfortable standing there getting signed in.. But I do prefer a private residence over a motel so long as it is not in the hood. I also won't do the shady motels with a carnival atmosphere going on in the parking lot and walk ways.

I prefer a private Incall. Must be clean and discreet. I definitely do not like other people there. If I even here somebody
over the phone I will cancel the appointment.

There is no way I would check in at a security desk.

My last visit was at a hotel and the provider had her large lab in the room and the room was a mess. The session ended up OK but the whole scene was a lot to take in. Will not her again.

So someone has told me about renting a monthly room space I believe I saw a thread on here about it. Where do I find info about these places? I think analeese was talking about it.... anyone have any info on such a place? Originally Posted by Lovelyyellie

There's a place off Frankford & Coit(?), Spa Suites HQ that's been advertising on CL & maybe BP (http://www.spasuiteshq.com). They say they supply everything. You need only bring oils & clients. And, they rent by session or by the month. But, last time I drove by there (a moth ago?), they had not opened it yet.

Also, a couple of gals, popular with AMP guys, rent at the sslon places. But, some momitor closely.

Medical plazas are popular and fairly discrete.

There's a place off Frankford & Coit(?), Spa Suites HQ that's been advertising on CL & maybe BP (http://www.spasuiteshq.com). They say they supply everything. You need only bring oils & clients. And, they rent by session or by the month. But, last time I drove by there (a moth ago?), they had not opened it yet.

Also, a couple of gals, popular with AMP guys, rent at the sslon places. But, some momitor closely.

Medical plazas are popular and fairly discrete. Originally Posted by Billogoods

Thanks I'll look into it

Good luck!