How did you get here?

I'm horny and never had the slut girlfriend I deserve. Loved porn when I started and just needed an outlet. If I could find an adventurous slut for a girlfriend who would sleep around with me there, I'd ditch the hobby.

I want to be a sex therapist... I am doing my field study

I traveled extensively for several years; I enjoyed the adventure and the challenges of working at various locations around the world. At one point in time I thought I found that perfect girlfriend, smart, funny before long we were sharing a place together now I/we knew that there be challenges making that relationship work. (The one virtue I require from any relationship inside or outside the hobby is honesty. As fucked up as that probably sounds to everyone here, someone else can start a thread and I'll pitch in my three cents). I was naïve but I never fucked around while I was traveling, I blame my Christian upbringing. Even though I felt as though I gave quite much to the relationship to make it work, just my myopic perspective looking back, I am sure I had my priorities skewed. She found a better companion in our neighbor, do I blame her,Nope, I traveled a lot and it was rough. Then if she had been open to what was going on I might have be okay with it, I just don't like feeling like I've been manipulated.

Ended up hanging out the strip clubs as therapy, met a stripper we had our and was enlightened to craigslist where she posted and later on aspd. Of course, I did not follow the Whispers stripper philosophy back then well because I didn’t know him and still don’t, I just read his threads. I have no doubt I spent way too much in the club but I was also paid very well. I lurked for a while before joining aspd. My first amp experience was in Houston and later I found that I preferred the Dallas amps over Houston. I rarely played in Austin until I rejoined eccie even though I attempted to stay away after aspd went tits up, it's just too freaking addictive

I was in counseling for being a nympho and he referred me here... lol j/k!

Since getting divorced 3 years ago, I've discovered that I prefer the convenience of the hobby. I can get my physical needs met, without the complications of dating. I have young ones to consider, which makes it all the more complex for me.

And, its exciting. Meeting someone new.... doing something naughty..... best of both worlds.

Well, let's see. Saw an ad in the Austin Chronicle. Went to see for for a FBSM which, over several sessions turned into FS. After a while she asked me for a review in ASPD (spelling?) and I kind of got into that, went away for a while and then it was ECCIE and I saw Kit-4-Kat and that was that.

I do it for the money. I needed money. I got into it for the money. Sure, there were other reasons like not wanting to give it away for free anymore, but money was the motivating factor. I continue to stay in the business because easy money is VERY hard to walk away from. I've become tired of this business and decided to quit, only to come back because the lure of easy money is too hard to resist. Today, I would rather do this then date a man for free. Maybe I'm jaded, IDK. My tolerence in relationships is very LOW. I've tried to date, and then the guy plays one lil mind game to test me, and I dump him. No ands, ifs or buts. Then I remind myself why I should never date and just keep escorting for as long as the guys want me. No more dabbling in dating. Thanks to escorting, i finally know my worth. And I would not put up with half the crap today I used to put up with when dating. It's just easier to escort.

I wanted to give back to the community and invest in something made in the USA.

Alright then...two clues later I officially give up. Oh and I don't sell my time in anything less than hour increments so that minute of old fashioned ponderin' totaled up to $250. When should I expect my money? Originally Posted by Hannah Heresy

Nice one...

Hannah, I think you're too young to get it.....

I do it for the money. I needed money. I got into it for the money. Sure, there were other reasons like not wanting to give it away for free anymore, but money was the motivating factor. I continue to stay in the business because easy money is VERY hard to walk away from. I've become tired of this business and decided to quit, only to come back because the lure of easy money is too hard to resist. Today, I would rather do this then date a man for free. Maybe I'm jaded, IDK. My tolerence in relationships is very LOW. I've tried to date, and then the guy plays one lil mind game to test me, and I dump him. No ands, ifs or buts. Then I remind myself why I should never date and just keep escorting for as long as the guys want me. No more dabbling in dating. Thanks to escorting, i finally know my worth. And I would not put up with half the crap today I used to put up with when dating. It's just easier to escort. Originally Posted by incognito isis

At least someone is keeping it real.

alt.ASPD on usenet, to ASPD.net, to here. Been hobbying since the internet was just a hobby for DARPA.

While going through a divorce, I decided that I needed the touch of a woman and the physical release BCD.
Browsed the relationship sites and decided that I wasn't ready for all the BS that comes with "dating".
So, I started searching for escorts and saw a few that said "check reviews" which introduced me to review sites.
After checking out several, I found that this place was most active in my area and seemed to be the most fun, so I stayed.

Don't think I'll ever go back to "traditional" dating, this is more fun and so far it's been drama free, something I can't say for RL relationships!

I've become tired of this business and decided to quit, only to come back because the lure of easy money is too hard to resist.
Maybe I'm jaded, IDK. My tolerence in relationships is very LOW. I've tried to date, and then the guy plays one lil mind game to test me, and I dump him.

Thanks to escorting, i finally know my worth. Originally Posted by incognito isis

isis,
Dating and escorting are 2 different lives my dear.

You will date a guy because you like him, maybe love him (not necessarily In Love with him!). You do not date for the Money, If that is the reason you are dating, then definitely there is something wrong with you.

Escorting on the other hand is all about the Money, there is no doubt about it. When you say " i finally know my worth", You only know your worth as an escort / provider and not as a woman that is capable to have emotions and love!. Your financial worth is only what the customer is willing to pay. Your real worth as a woman is if a man is willing to love you. Way too different things.

Money is not everything, I feel sorry for you that your attention is all about the Money rather then having a fully satisfying relationship with a man!

I do it for the money. I needed money. I got into it for the money. Sure, there were other reasons like not wanting to give it away for free anymore, but money was the motivating factor. I continue to stay in the business because easy money is VERY hard to walk away from. I've become tired of this business and decided to quit, only to come back because the lure of easy money is too hard to resist. Today, I would rather do this then date a man for free. Maybe I'm jaded, IDK. My tolerence in relationships is very LOW. I've tried to date, and then the guy plays one lil mind game to test me, and I dump him. No ands, ifs or buts. Then I remind myself why I should never date and just keep escorting for as long as the guys want me. No more dabbling in dating. Thanks to escorting, i finally know my worth. And I would not put up with half the crap today I used to put up with when dating. It's just easier to escort. Originally Posted by incognito isis

Kind of sad honey. You keep it real so I respect that. Just wonder what you are going to do when you age past what men want to pay that makes the money so hard to resist.

I have always said that when I find the right woman for me, I am outta here.....

sixx

I have always said that when I find the right woman for me, I am outta here.....

sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach

I have always said when I find the right 5 to 7 women to keep me satisfied, I am outta here.....