do we not deserve respect?

Unless you can find that post and provide a link to it, I think it is totally inappropriate to label VK that way and you owe him an apology. He has been a good member of this board and not ever acted like a jerk. Originally Posted by scorpio31

Good members of the board will gather all the facts surrounding an event; instead of being biased towards one side of the argument; before passing judgment on the subject of complaint. Giving someone a taste of their own treatment doesn't translate into that person being a "jerk."

Sorry that happened to you Staci, Isis is right, ignore, ignore, ignore, not worth you time girl Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

She flamed me, I flamed her, and this thread was born. That's what happened.

The world is tough enough as it is. We all deserve respect, and others deserve respect from us until they prove different. However, not everybody operates under those principles, whether they are members of eccie, providers, or any other group of miscellaneous people you might come up with. When I come across rude people, or folks that think they are better than everybody else, I ignore them and avoid them in the future. Originally Posted by ez2plz

I'm one of those people. I'll give people initial respect. But when they disrespect me, I'm going to disrespect them in return. Respect has to be earned. This case was easily avoidable.

Stacy, definitely get this clown's information to the other ladies on this and any other board. There's no room for that kind of behavior and should never be tolerated. Originally Posted by fritz3552

No room for that kind of behavior? Perhaps you should use that label on yourself, as you decided to run with one side of the story… instead of researching the facts. Considering that she initiated the flame, I should just lie down and let people walk all over me, right? Not happening. The mere fact that I fired back at her indicates that I won't tolerate that kind of behavior.

Thanks for all the information and support. He is on several other boards and I'm not the only one who has had trouble with this guy this week. Be careful. Originally Posted by stacy in kc

Oh really? You're the only one that I seem to be having trouble with. I'm not in conflict with any other lady. The others that I have contacted have been professional.

It's been years since I had an issue with a lady. I was able to match her actions to a quote of her statement of my demeanor on that old message board, to defuse the situation. I've since had a session with her.

I say out the guy to everyone then. Is that a problem? Originally Posted by BigTonyofKC

Yes, it's a problem... for her. She doesn't have a legitimate complaint against me. She provoked me, and she's well aware of that. It's easier to conjure up an evil, dangerous, bogyman to get back for my return fire, then shutting down my PM.

. Giving someone a taste of their own treatment doesn't translate into that person being a "jerk." Originally Posted by herfacechair

Oh, I don't know. I think I know a "jerk" when I see one.

Oh, I don't know. I think I know a "jerk" when I see one. Originally Posted by 6ULDV8

You've never seen me, so by your statement, mine still stands.

good gawd dude, you got way too much time on your hands...unreal.

Now wait just a damn minute. Kissing provider's ass on here is MY job. And having heard both sides, you were right Stacy. Ignore this clown.

Thanks for the drama.

Those are the kind of guys I like to get into a Domme session and make them my bitch.

But this did make me laugh out loud!

And if that's kissing Elena's ass...so be it!

No weapon formed against me shall prosper, it won’t work......Oh I won’t be afraid of the arrows by day
From the hand of my enemy
I can stand my ground with the Lord on my side
For the snares they have set will not succeed-FRED HAMMOND

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OQT5d4G-j1Q

Thanks for the drama.

But this did make me laugh out loud!

And if that's kissing Elena's ass...so be it! Originally Posted by Starry69

Next time I'm in KC Starry, I'll bend over for ya

I've gone over this a couple of times and while this has definitely been heated, I don't see anything that violates ECCIE guidelines. If any of the stuff Zeus (aka Herfacechair) has quoted was ROS, let me know . I'm assuming that it's all fit for public consumption, and frankly, I don't have the time to go back and research it for myself.