Looking for an actual relationship

Thank you!

I was in the hobby for 15 years. I then married someone who had never been in the hobby. You could count her previous partners on two hands. I never disclosed number of previous partners or being in the hobby. But there was still a disconnect in our marriage due to my hobby background. I can't put it all into words. My wife passed away from a terminal illness after five years of marriage. I was a faithful husband during our marriage. I went back into the hobby for several years after wife passed away before finally retiring from the hobby for good. While I enjoyed my time in the hobby, it wasn't something I wanted to continue doing long-term. I'm looking for a provider or ex-provider who feels the same. Originally Posted by New Day

Try reaching out to women in the swinger community.

You want a whore to be a whore without being a whore...

Fuck a whore and make her not want to be a whore for anyone else but you.

I wonder which major fucker you are that is hiding behind a re-tread... Originally Posted by ~Ze~

Jealousy gets you nowhere

I'm looking for a normal relationship with someone who has been in the hobby, but doesn't want to be in the hobby anymore. Originally Posted by New Day

Providers don't even leave the hobby for maternity leave.



CG

Well... All I can say is that so far it's working for Ashlynn Eden, Dragonfly, and Fawn. I know that two of them married clients and are still together. I assume that the same is true of Dragonfly since she has been gone several years. Good luck.

DAYUM. It's like they gave you explicit permission to post their personal lives on a hooker board...

-_-

DAYUM. It's like they gave you explicit permission to post their personal lives on a hooker board...

-_- Originally Posted by ~Ze~

Meh, what harm is done... I'm sure they would want people to be happy for them. I personally enjoy hearing about fairy tale endings like theirs because it gives me something to hope for that dreams every now and then still do come true...and the positivity is welcome anytime over the general negativity around here. IJS....

I would ilke to take this moment to state that if I do leave the community because I find true love-- if I ever find out my personal information is shared here in any way, shape, or form without my permission, heads will roll.

Fairytale endings ARE wonderful.. but when it isn't your story to share on a board like this... eh. There is a reason why I didn't name names when I said I knew of one. Because it isn't my information to share. Discretion is everything.. and everyone is owed that much here.

Dude. Get a girlfriend from church and don't tell her about your hobbing past! You aren't going to go to Hell for not being honest with her. I mean "500" providers kind of puts the lying sin to shame. That is assuming you feel either of those are sins. I don't, but it seems you are hung up on it.

Where do you think most retired ladies found someone? At bible-study? Several are happy with their "last client". Y'all don't hear about them because they don't want to post it on ANY forum.

While I commend the op for wanting to be honest and up-front I don't think the approach of "I'm looking for a fiancé" in your initial screening information will get you in any lady's door here.

For 5K per month hands will raise.

Just go to your local bar, the last girl left, sitting by herself with hard liquor in front of her....that's your girl.

He got to learn the hard way . If they never have gone through it

Not a good idea, you get your heart and bank account broken. A provider lived with me for nine months. She didn't trick for the entire time she lived with me. She claimed she was retiring and was looking for a regular job. That FREE pussy ended up being the most expensive piece of ass I've ever had. She never found a job, barely even looked. Slept in till 2:00 pm every day, failed to pick up after herself. She would disappear for a few days and then show back up. Being an ex dancer and a provider she exhibited a great deal of sex appeal and was constantly being approached by strange men out in public. She lived a secret or double life and lied continuously to cover her tracts.

Well... All I can say is that so far it's working for Ashlynn Eden, Dragonfly, and Fawn. I know that two of them married clients and are still together. I assume that the same is true of Dragonfly since she has been gone several years. Good luck. Originally Posted by mellobugler

okay, 3 out of how many providers that have worked in this part of the world in the last 6-10yrs ???


as grace said, the probability of it lasting for a long time is rather low.