All well stated and understood, but you have got to understand that whatever the situation you have stolen from a man. Unfortunately alot of members dont see any further than that. Rightfully so.
You may mave tried to make it right but in the end it is still hanging out there unsatisfied. He left the hobby or maybe just this board over it.
I guess i have been lucky to have had any time i have spent with the ladies here go without many issues, and surely am glad i havent been ripped off yet.
But thats due to the fact that i never see anyone ive seen an alert on.