[QUOTE=~Ze~;1060244773]There is a wrong way to pull hair. And if you do that shit to me... expect a stop in the session for a good ole learning lesson. I will show you how to have control while pulling hair and not actually make it uncomfortable or painful for the lady. Believe it or not, it's not about pain.
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Yes, I do love a man to take control and BE in control but he seriously needs to actually be able to read my reaction and not make a great time turn into pain and temper. I love to be swatted, spanked, thrown around the bed and even pinned down with my wrists held above my head by a strong man in control of his body.
But Ze expressed it well. I don't want it "gentle", I mean spanking and hair pulling are meant to be FELT! But turn it into an Ike & Tina Turner experience and you're getting a flying dismount off of Tina.
I don't act; my face and body WILL definitely show what I'm feeling, or not feeling and if a person can't tell the difference between boredom, fear/pain and passion then that person isn't in control.
I DO absolutely, want to FEEL it, it turns me on and hopefully turns my partner on too, I also love gentle caresses, foot play, roleplay, massage; LOTS of things. So if a man isn't confident in his ability to judge my physical reaction to his hair pulling; fine, no worries. On to the next thing. We WILL have fun!