When someone takes advantage!!!

^ Spoken like a true cop

I’ve always been a business man and taking care of my customers is my first priority. I’m not sure how much money each customer will spend with me but if I judge each customer only as a paycheck, I would definitely loose out on a ton of money. If I were to not give a fuck about my customers and only the business at hand, I would set myself back as well. I agree there are time limits and I would not want to infringe on a lady’s time. But, if you treat clients like a paycheck, ultimately it will come back and bite you on the ass.

I’ve always been a business man and taking care of my customers is my first priority. I’m not sure how much money each customer will spend with me but if I judge each customer only as a paycheck, I would definitely loose out on a ton of money. If I were to not give a fuck about my customers and only the business at hand, I would set myself back as well. I agree there are time limits and I would not want to infringe on a lady’s time. But, if you treat clients like a paycheck, ultimately it will come back and bite you on the ass. Originally Posted by stockn2468

The only thing I see here is within the hobby, it appears the expectations by the provider may render "treatment" by a provider to subjectivity. I think what clients expect prior to the appointment and the alignment of the end result of the appointment to the expectation will determine a client's perceived treatment. In my case, I may want true no strings attached appointment where feelings are not remotely part of any expectation, so i would view the appointment favorably, where another cliemt may have an expectation of sweet talk, affectionate like treatment, so if they do not receive that, they may perceive their appointment as being treated as a paycheck. I think that's a tough thing to gauge. Maybe the true measure is that maybe certain providers aren't good fits for certain clients, and vice-versa. Seems the fairest way to go, to me, If one is bad at being an escort, as a whole, I think that will play itself out over time. But, in the end, if a client gets what they paid for, I don't see the issue. I've ordered drinks from nice bartenders and not so nice bartenders, but if I receive the drink i order, I've received the desired product, just next time I need to go to the bartender that suits my expectations for service. Bottom line is they're both there for money, but one does it in a manner more closely to what I expect.

Men are not paying for time, we pay for sex acts. Time is the measurement of how much access we have to those sex acts. You sell sex, not time. When I buy a day pass to Six Flags, I am not buying a day nor time, I am buying access to ride their attractions, the amount of access to those attractions is measured by time, one day.

Does it make people feel better to say things like "I pay for time not pussy?" This is a prostitute website, no need to neat around the bush. We all know what is bought and sold. When I look at a showcase my interests are CIM, no CBJ, and price. Or better stated sex acts and price. Not time, I am not shopping for time, shopping for specific sex acts I enjoy.

Seems people take my posts in a bad way. I clearly stated I never over stay and it is a good thread. I take each session for what it is a business deal, I get fun for a period of time and I do not push the limits.

Seems to me some men get lost between fantasy and reality, or seems that way by their posts. I appreciate a good business deal and being a businessman understand her situation. Providers are people and have some great qualities as people, read my posts and try not to add your own conclusions. She does not care for the Johns, so?? I do not want her to care for me, I do not want texts or phone calls afterward. Not what I am shopping for. I just tell truth and seems to bother some. Originally Posted by gentlemantoo

Try less preaching and adding to your reviews......grand total of one.

^ And that one review is in a strip club go figure.

^ And that one review is in a strip club Originally Posted by R.M.

It is?


Anywho, I thought this thread was about a client abusing 'TIME'

No, it is a review of a provider, not a strip club. I do not write reviews, typically. I do not believe in kiss and tell, I am a gentleman. No reason to brag or discuss my.personal sexual encounters.

I wrote the one (even though P thinks I am cop, is that outing?) as part of a business deal with the lady. I fulfilled my obligation to her. I do not write reviews, my personal choice.

Thanks for the suggestion but I will not add to my reviews. I owe nothing to any one here and PA does not mean anything to me as ROS seems to be mostly bullshit.

I will consider the preaching thing, again thanks.

GentleBoy2 tries to pull his therapy act, the multitude of condescending remarks towards women in this profession is undeniable. i Will find the quotes that you used to pick apart a provider that had temporarily left for a full time career and returned for the mere fact that she missed escorting. You rudely undermined her transition with blantant false accusations that her career didn't work out (she never expressed that).
Putting words into everyone's mouth for the over bearing, high-handed, lout that points out every negative thing in the escort world.

You come for one, you come for us all.
White Knight for the entire kingdom

Yea.. lol. NOMAD national ENFORCER I'd pressume..

Ughhh. Not..

Big boy panties.. again.. ??

What club do you dance in darlin??

^ Spoken like a true cop Originally Posted by Seeking ~P

You knew that fucktard gentleman2 was pig bait all this time and didn't say anything.....


Throw us all under the bus you white woman hater. (P's Signature line, say NO To White Women)

Time to call the real Morale Squad

Try less preaching and adding to your reviews......grand total of one. Originally Posted by bayoucadillac

I don't do reviews either as a general rule. If a provider requests one, I may consider. If client safety is an issue, I may consider. They might mean alot to you, not to me. The only number I consider is the number after Basic Plus.

6 fags.. way I'm looking at it . L mfaof. Annie

Well, this thread has certainly drifted.....

To the OP question: this situation is very similar to what most service professionals encounter with some clients. Unfortunately, the good ones often do not want to seem pushy about the client's time being up, but in reality you need to protect your time and your business. How you do it is a matter of personal preference, but in essence you have to tell them, "I am sorry, but I have something scheduled and have to be going". Or, the alternative, "Would you like to extend our time for another hour?", or "This was fun--maybe next time you can schedule for 2 hours?". But if you don't, those kind of people will continue to take advantage of you.

Even if you are enjoying the date and have no issue with it running over, it is good to let them know that the paid time is up--so they understand that extra time is not to be expected in the future.

I will end on time and get dressed, and sometimes if I am enjoying the overall company of a particular lady, I will say something like, "I think I will get some supper now. Do you have someplace near by to recommend?" It gives her the choice of comfortably showing interest in coming along or not, but the choice is purely hers. Some do, some do not.

Well, this thread has certainly drifted.....

To the OP question: this situation is very similar to what most service professionals encounter with some clients. Unfortunately, the good ones often do not want to seem pushy about the client's time being up, but in reality you need to protect your time and your business. How you do it is a matter of personal preference, but in essence you have to tell them, "I am sorry, but I have something scheduled and have to be going". Or, the alternative, "Would you like to extend our time for another hour?", or "This was fun--maybe next time you can schedule for 2 hours?". But if you don't, those kind of people will continue to take advantage of you.

Even if you are enjoying the date and have no issue with it running over, it is good to let them know that the paid time is up--so they understand that extra time is not to be expected in the future.

I will end on time and get dressed, and sometimes if I am enjoying the overall company of a particular lady, I will say something like, "I think I will get some supper now. Do you have someplace near by to recommend?" It gives her the choice of comfortably showing interest in coming along or not, but the choice is purely hers. Some do, some do not. Originally Posted by Old-T

Love it!!!! Just what HE said....Well put Sir.

M.M.

You are welcome Helen