Oh, this is my area of expertise. Absolute must! I think I have an older thread on this very thing floating around somewhere.
Dirty talk to jump off foreplay is a necessity, and all the way through to the mutual orgasms - I cum so much harder at just the thought of a woman telling me to “bust that big nut, baby” or if she references her body/assets in any way, something along the lines of asking me “you gonna’ cum all over my tits with that big cock?” or “yes, baby, cum all over my big, juicy ass” while she shakes it - “that was a good load with that big cock”. Ego stroking. Lol! OMG, so f%*!ing hot. About to bust through my boxer briefs right now just typing it out.
Shit, even alone I can talk myself into a frenzy.
Especially coming from a more experienced woman, “yes, baby, lick my juicy pussy”, “fuck my tits with that big cock” or “yes, baby, use my pussy to cum”, “put that big cock in my pussy”, “make my big tits bounce and put that creamy cum all over me/inside me”, “you know you want to”, “I’m gonna’ make you cum all over me - you wanna’ cum all over me?” - SHIT - it doesn’t have to be name calling, but I once had a provider tell me to “pull that big dick out and cum all over my pussy you nasty (nasty in the good way) motherfucker” (with a hard R) before moaning HARD during her O, and I pulled out and could’ve painted a fucking wall. That shit was amazing.
Another said, “I love the way those big balls slap my clit while you stroke me deep from the back - fuck my fat pussy!” At that point, I’m holding on for dear life, pulled out and held the tip but ended up creaming that big ass and her back till it was dripping down her legs. She was shaking. Wiped it, put another cover on and slipped it right back inside her while she moaned. That was so hot and incredibly memorable.
Mutes have always bothered me. I like my partner to communicate with me and vice versa. Tell me what you want me to do, when it feels good - just tell me in the nastiest way possible.
Some don’t like talking, but it’s more fun when you can cut loose and lose control. Stopping way short of humiliating - but to each their own.
Hopefully, you’re all playing with yourselves at this point.
If not, you should be. :P