Why don't more girls respond to ISOs

ISO responses can be good for marketing for those times between ads to let other guys know that you are available, but please only post if you think you fit the bill.

I have tried to post to them less and use the PM's more to make it more personable, but like when an ISO happens to ask for say ISO Tall provider, well, I'm going to openly respond to that post so if it gets searched again later, then I show up in that thread and make it easier for guys to see that I fit that bill and might want to choose me later on.

But so much of the ISO's have turned to cheap requests or outlandish requests is getting to where you just want to not even look at it.

It's not your fault we aren't looking, it's the guys asking for ridiculous things on there all the time. It's just becoming a total turn off.

So I've been trying to say more in my ads and showcase. I know it's more to read, but I try to cover more questions that may be asked ahead of time. I try to stay where I can answer my phone quickly. Advance notice is always helpful. But if you are on like P411 a lot of the trouble with posting an ISO goes away when you can see who is available now. But not all I'm sure. I forget to post to P411 because it expires after an hour.

Well, personally, I think a gent's ISO should be a little more informative than most are.
1. The location in which they are willing/able to play.
2. Rate and/or session length desired
3. Time frame they have available to complete said ISO

Just as a lady's ad should contain the same relevant information.

We can complain and complain, but what does it all come down to? Whether or not you are willing to put in the work. (Both ladies and gentlemen)

Xoxo
Tay Originally Posted by ForeignPlaytoy

Good points.

Maybe just saying "Looking for later tonight in Plano/Frisco for an hour, but can only spend 200" isn't enough to pique some ladies interest.

I don't look at that section often and I usually reply by pm to ISOs that say the gent is looking for specific things, like bbw/thick/voluptuous, GFE, and searching for a mature lady.

Why waste each other's time with willy nilly replies if I'm not what you want?

Here's another reason many ladies might not especially openly reply to ISO's.

It has gotten a little bit trashy in there.

Car dates,no-tells, the bbfs, some of the requests are really not the class of activities many ladies want to be associated with.

That might be some of what you are seeing.

Originally Posted by 214dallas

Same here I only post to iso's if I am available at that time and I am usually always in the same location
But I also do have a life outside of Eccie and I don't live at my location so I'm not always there and sometimes the guy cancels at the last minute so that makes me lose my money and time

Originally Posted by 214dallas

/me ganders around this giant glass house we call ECCIE and giving side eye to the dickhead with a handful of rocks...

/me ganders around this giant glass house we call ECCIE and giving side eye to the dickhead with a handful of rocks... Originally Posted by corona

Good one

Because sometimes your post gets misunderstood and turns into a 3 page shit talking session.

HAHA sorry Jackie....I just couldn’t resist! Hopefully no hard feelings. My bad for going a little too far on that. In the end though I enjoyed the banter lol.

I just did a quick search of your ISO and gosh please don’t take this negatively . I only saw 1 post that didn’t get any replies. Your others have plenty of responses, just because those ladies might not be your cup of tea, doesn’t mean people don’t post on there. There were a few different ladies on each of your posts.

Here’s reasons why I don’t respond to certain ones -

1. I can’t offer what you’re looking for or it’s not the area you need.
2. It’s been a significant amount of time since it’s been posted and I’m just now seeing it, I just assume he has found someone already.
3. I see the SAME guy post ISO all the time.
4. If you’re looking for NOW and I don’t see any reviews from ladies who respond back quickly for a reference. There’s not much that can be done on MY part if you are screened with me. Screening actually takes time. Sometimes you get lucky and sometimes you don’t.
5. If you’re a newbie

I think that’s about it. Originally Posted by justjackie

Because sometimes your post gets misunderstood and turns into a 3 page shit talking session.

HAHA sorry Jackie....I just couldn’t resist! Hopefully no hard feelings. My bad for going a little too far on that. In the end though I enjoyed the banter lol. Originally Posted by pistol shot

Ohhhh yeah I forgot to add

- when someone isn’t clear enough about what they want, and I have to ask to clear up some things.


No hard feelings.

LOL

Honestly, I stopped being irritated with you long before the shit talking stopped. Your wit was funny and I love a good shit talker.

Makes me want to try and book an appointment with you and see if you tell me to piss off lol.

Cheers Jackie.

I agree with the consensus on the general bullshittery of ISO's. Nickel and dimers basically looking for a steak dinner way too often. On the flip side of that, I know how it feels to have a few hobby bucks to spend, and there is no women in sight. You're PM'ing, calling, and sending texts and getting nothing. You feel like that guy on Twilight Zone where he's the only person alive.

Then, four hours after you've given up, responses start flooding in. Different thread for a different day. But, yes. Most ISO's are ridiculous, ask too much for too little, and insult the ladies more than anything else.

I've successfully used ISO posts a couple of times to find a specific type of session (not bbfs, not a bargain hunter). I like it because it's easier for me to see who's available rather than search through ads hoping to find a good match.

It's not the only way I've found providers but I have met a few that I may not have otherwise and it's worked great. I do prefer the responses I get by PM since those usually have a little more detail/information.

My reasons for not posting in ISO:


Most times when I glance at the ISO section, the majority (not all) seem to want "the works" for the price of the McDonald's dollar menu. So most searching in ISO are not my type of clients.
Otherwise known as "Bottom-Feeders." Again, I am not referring to everyone, just ones constantly asking for Specials.

Lastly, I'm not comfortable doing some of the things that are sought after, so I don't bother.


Originally Posted by SxySpanishMia

^Mostly guys trying to bargain.

Too bad your not in Austin. I'd respond. Lol. But literally being serious. I look at iso everyday. Makes it easier for me to know exactly what y'all want and need. And if its something I don't offer then I don't respond.

i’ve found a handful of great regular gals from an iso.

and i like bbbjs from a variety of providers - so i post an iso hoping to find a girl for the rotation. i just wish more hot gals would respond...