What does GFE mean to you...?

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I enjoy the personal connection. If HE doesn't want kissing, conversation, and mutual enjoyment....I am not likely to be available for him again if he calls.

I like and need money just as much as anyone else. But if the client makes me feel like "just a fuck"....I'll pass if he calls again.

But then, he is not likely to call again because if I am not truly enjoying it, I don't think I perform as well. Originally Posted by Krystal_RoseBBW
Ditto, darling lass. There have been times when I felt pretty certain that I was just another notch on a belt, perhaps a check mark off the "Irish redhead," "mature," or "BBW" box, or that someone was seeing me merely for a ref based on my reputation. I would much prefer to be called because a fellow thinks I'm interesting and that we'll have fun together!
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You Could not of answered this topic any better! Great minds think alike! Originally Posted by Beau Derierre
Whats wrong you need friends ha
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Whats wrong you need friends ha Originally Posted by Cendell M
Is your comprehension level really that low? The Poster "BDirty" and I are quite good friends.

Keep chasing your own tail....
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^^^it was a simple question,no need to insult wasn't being mean..

i got it o btw can i get me shoes back from you just those,no references is ok i know you don't give them because you're so friendly...


*Hugs & Kisses*
One thing that you didn't mention was that for a true GFE I must be willing to give almost as much as I get. Originally Posted by NordicJag
What does this mean?
IMO there are two areas (physical and non-physical) areas where a provider differentiates herself as GFE rather than a BNG / Non-GFE type of provider:

Non-Physical:
-She acts (or fakes) like she is actually happy to meet you in person
-Greets you with a smile, nice hug and even better a good kiss
-She is dressed well and not necessarily in lingerie but just presents herself well
-Big bonus is she has taken the time to have refreshments on-hand i.e. water, soda, juice etc. Not necessarily expensive type of alcohol but just something for you to drink

Physical
-DFK, BBBJ, Eye Contact, Fucks in all the various positions: CG, RCG, K9, MISH, Scissors, etc..etc..and definitely IOP (even if she is faking it but at least it appears to be real)
-Brings a warm washcloth and wipes you down after
-Basically, she provides a very nice session where you feel like she enjoyed herself and she enjoyed the sex...

Again, since the OP asked - this is just my own opinion... Originally Posted by BelvedereDirty
Lmao
As far as ads, if GFE it should be bbbj, some kissing, DATY, and positions where she does some of the work.

In reality, it happens when dude and hooker click and iop is completely realistic.


My favorites all time, all from Latin agencies and all gone: the original Alondra, Cristi, and Lexy. Originally Posted by tbone77494
Where she does some of the work lmao

Seriously?

I do my work by whispering to your winky if you want the kitty then you get up & work for it... ijs

There's alot of men that want the provider to do everything & that ain't going to happen with me.. I work hard with my mouth you want a nutt get your ass up & work for it pffft.. I don't offer cow girl so you have no choice to Zumba your ass on top or behind of me...
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What does this mean? Originally Posted by Amiliah Rayne
Most of the things that the guys have been listing are the things they expect from the provider. However, what should the client be prepared to do for the provider. And don't tell me pay her. Have you found out what she likes. Maybe it's just take a little time to cuddle and just listen to her. Make sure she has a good experience also. A real GFE has to be a two-way street.
Most of the things that the guys have been listing are the things they expect from the provider. However, what should the client be prepared to do for the provider. And don't tell me pay her. Have you found out what she likes. Maybe it's just take a little time to cuddle and just listen to her. Make sure she has a good experience also. A real GFE has to be a two-way street. Originally Posted by NordicJag
Pay me give me your winky & shhhhh

Those are my standards if you don't want to comply I will be compelled to THROAT PUNCH YOU..ijs
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Pay me give me your winky & shhhhh

Those are my standards if you don't want to comply I will be compelled to THROAT PUNCH YOU..ijs Originally Posted by Amiliah Rayne
So what you're saying is that even though you list GFE sessions on your showcase, you don't really offer GFE. You can't have an attitude like you just stated and say you are providing GFE.
So what you're saying is that even though you list GFE sessions on your showcase, you don't really offer GFE. You can't have an attitude like you just stated and say you are providing GFE. Originally Posted by NordicJag
Lmao FUCKTARDS they're so funny.. I'm saying I don't offer CG In My RW Life Or WL & if you can't accept that you can run along to the next WHORE! I can have whatever attitude I choose because Not Every Whore You're With Is The Same I Mean If You Can't Handle This Then That's One Thing But Don't Knock Me Because You Suffer From Stunted Nutt Syndrome That's A Personal Problem But Def Not Mine.

You Might Not Be Able To Handle My GFE But They're 5 Fucktards Behind You That Can... I Don't Kiss Ass So You Either Deal With It Or Go About Your Buisness... ✌✌✌✌

My skills are well documented but since a jealous whore decided to out me I had to start over but trust me I don't care if you disagree because I'm well off.. pffft lmao

#fucktardslivesmatter
#throatpunch
#winkywhisperer
#throatpunch
#fartbox

Lmao clueless tards
Most of the things that the guys have been listing are the things they expect from the provider. However, what should the client be prepared to do for the provider. And don't tell me pay her. Have you found out what she likes. Maybe it's just take a little time to cuddle and just listen to her. Make sure she has a good experience also. A real GFE has to be a two-way street. Originally Posted by NordicJag

Generally when things are done as above.....it's those special gentlemen that will be MOST remembered and visa versa.

NJ.....the wine was devine....thank you again
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Generally when things are done as above.....it's those special gentlemen that will be MOST remembered and visa versa.

NJ.....the wine was devine....thank you again
Originally Posted by Luvs2Purrr
It was my pleasure.
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Lmao FUCKTARDS they're so funny.. I'm saying I don't offer CG In My RW Life Or WL & if you can't accept that you can run along to the next WHORE! I can have whatever attitude I choose because Not Every Whore You're With Is The Same I Mean If You Can't Handle This Then That's One Thing But Don't Knock Me Because You Suffer From Stunted Nutt Syndrome That's A Personal Problem But Def Not Mine.

You Might Not Be Able To Handle My GFE But They're 5 Fucktards Behind You That Can... I Don't Kiss Ass So You Either Deal With It Or Go About Your Buisness... ✌✌✌✌

My skills are well documented but since a jealous whore decided to out me I had to start over but trust me I don't care if you disagree because I'm well off.. pffft lmao

#fucktardslivesmatter
#throatpunch
#winkywhisperer
#throatpunch
#fartbox

Lmao clueless tards Originally Posted by Amiliah Rayne
Oh my Amiliah, I sense some very out of control hostility. I never criticized your attitude, because you are correct. You are free to choose your own attitude. I merely questioned if your attitude was compatible with GFE. Right now there is a wide range of usage of that term. I believe that the reason Cyndi (the OP) started this thread was to narrow the definition. There have been some very good responses. The guys for the most said what they expected to receive from a GFE provider which usually included that the provider was happy to see them, a believable IOP, etc. On the ladies side, Cyndi, Fancy, Krystal, and others seemed to be saying that in order to do that, they need to be treated as something more than merchandise. In other words, if you want a "girlfriend experience" then treat the lady more like a girlfriend.

Amiliah, if your attitude works for you that's great. As you say we are all different. However, from reading the posts on this thread, it would seem that your attitude is not conducive to GFE and possibly not be mentioned as part of your menu. I wish you the best.