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CD3--

I'm going to keep this short and simple. I know in this business, so often our lives are thrust into a spotlight we might not want. But always remember, you do not OWE a piece of your personal, private life to anyone here. You do not owe them details of your triumphs or tragedies. Don't ever feel obligated to need to share your personal heartbreak in an attempt to appease people. Because believe me, the people who squawk the most for appeasement, will never be satisfied with your reasons or justifications.
This a hobby for me not a job ...
  • eyefo
  • 02-21-2018, 05:25 PM
IMO, both providers and clients have a lot to lose in terms of exposure. Also, both providers and clients choose to engage in the "hobby" out of personal choice for personal gain.

Even average providers charge the kind of fees only skilled, well educated professionals can normally command. How many "normal" jobs command $200 to $400 an hour for instance. There are potential significant consequences that come with this.

Clients, for the fees, can play out all their sexual fantasies they could otherwise never realize in their real world. To choose to do this, there are potential significant consequences that are part and parcel of this choice.

My choice is to always be polite and decent with people I encounter... here and in real life. No reason to add to the potential risks with bad behavior.

Anyone with an account here should realize there are very smart hackers who could break into their emails and personal data on this site or other sites. And once that's done, they can spread through your world like a virus. (a hooker/john site, however, is probably of no interest to people with these talents...not to mention the fact that what they do is probably more criminal than prostitution)

My point is, there's enough potential pain and risk inherent in this "hobby" and being a decent human being helps to reduce these risks, IMHO.
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  • BLM69
  • 02-21-2018, 05:26 PM
This a hobby for me not a job ... Originally Posted by Sexii Redd
We believe you, head over to Tinder for some free hobby fun since you're not in it for the $. You're getting all worked up and looking like a fool now.
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  • L.A.
  • 02-21-2018, 05:27 PM
Like I said privacy is not an option I got that when they posted my real name in. A revieee abc when they basically posted my neighborhood on a review. And when they posted my fucking birthday on here. So I get it. You should be used to people putting your REAL INFO on here bc Noone got in trouble or it never got erased or deleted. What I said was get your facts straight. Originally Posted by CD3
This is somewhat concerning. Did you report the post or review that gave away too much of your RW info? It's hard to fix stupid, but at least report the posts and get that info removed.
It's obvious that this is pretty upsetting to you. You don't post a lot but when you do it's usually something pretty entertaining (I love your "to the point" ads).
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Mr Rogers by the looks of your reviews you see white providers only why would you screen me anyway lmao or are you one of the ones that see us colored girls on the low Originally Posted by Sexii Redd
Wow........... did she really just pull the "race card" talk about a weak play while being called on the insensitive stuff you've said.

Yeah, this must be a hobby for you, cause from all of this, I doubt you get seen enough for it not to be.
The race card lol how many threads state no AA....or I don't see AA...blow me have a blessed day
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The race card lol how many threads state no AA....or I don't see AA...blow me have a blessed day Originally Posted by Sexii Redd
Yeah, you brought up race in a thread that has nothing to do with, or about race, in a way of trying to attack a guys choices due to you not liking his comment. Just when we think you've gone as low as you can, you keep proving you can and will go lower.
Blow me
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I'm gonna pass, I don't see bitter, hateful and classless.
Sure you don't have a goodday
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The privacy thing is a huge issue for me....im asked questions alot ...about my job..where I live...ect...and sometimes the answer isn't excepted and that's so frustrating...i want to choose which client I share those personal little details with....

I don't think all my clients go home to plane...i would be stupid to think this..some if these guys hobby just because they want variety...or because wifey just doesn't do bjs....his wife is hot...and gives it up several times a week....but again just wants variety

Let's not turn CD3 thread into a bashing match...this is not about us...its about her..and her need for privacy and the need for guys to just stay in their lane....and mind their own damn business...
We all need to give this lady what she deserves and is asking for...and that is for her to have her life and privacy