Giving anyone a no or saying something negative

  • sydmo
  • 03-18-2018, 09:05 AM
I don't even do reviews but I read them, and when I see a hobbyist respond negatively on someone else' good time, I always think "what an asshole" but that's just me
I love a good self-alert. Originally Posted by RetiredNinja
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  • InU
  • 03-18-2018, 07:47 PM
Wow, just 1 NO review? You might actually be an outty with ever growing balls... rare here.

Nothing wrong with writing a NO review. I think giving a 19 or so year old girl 2 bens for a bbbj is probably pretty damn good. Chock it up and move on, sir. It's a good call.


It's just money!!
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  • Old-T
  • 03-22-2018, 10:59 AM
I've givin one no review... I've had a few others I should have givin a no to
Then one has to wonder why you did not


It seems like men just can't wait to praise any piece of ass they get
Here is part of your problem I would guess: A lot of guys put the time and research in so they ensure the vast majority of their encounters ARE positive. So when someone writes almost nothing but glowing reviews it is because they have set things up to make the odds of a good date almost 100%.Isn't that what sites like this are supposed to do--give you the info to insure a positive outcome?

I just put about 10 women in a positive post in the men only section, I'm sure there are 10 more I just haven't thought of who belong there

I've seen at least 5 that are not good looking, I've only walked out on 1, I gave her a 20.00 and walked away, it wasn't good
From this comment of yours it seems looks are very, very important to you. Nothing wrong with that, but then the next question is do you examine the photos--and if you do, and they turn out to be accurate photos--what changed your mind about their looks? If they do not look like the photos, that is a very legitimate reason for a "NO".

Most meetings are ok or better, I'm always polite, never create a scene or have been mean or rude to anyone... Maybe giving a no puts a target on you, some of these gals just do not cut it, either looks or body or yikes, maybe even both! Originally Posted by pleasurem
Again, unless there was a misrepresentation in their photos I would say that is at least 50% or more on you. YOU decide who to contact, and if you don't like that look/body type, see someone else.

I checked your "NO" review, and her photo is quite revealing. If that is what she looked like and you didn't like that look, that's on you. If she did not look like that when you arrived, that's on her.

If the issue was not looks, then say your piece honestly in the review, but say it factually without a lot of emotion. The worse the message, the duller the prose should be. Then if you feel it is an honest factual statement, post the review complete with "NO", and don't worry about it.