Lordbighorn is out to get me with his lies

I learned my lesson: gave a couple of ECCIE providers money up front (for rent, food, sick relative's medical bills, etc) and promised a session later and never got one.

Many times I've seen them online posting an ad and I send them a PM and no, I'm busy hon, I can't see you today and yet you see them answering ISO all day and night long.

They don't want to see me because they don't make a penny off seeing me for one hour but technically they have already made the $ for that hourly session.

Stormie; if he took you to dinner, that’s on him, you don’t have to pay him back for your meal. HE invited you to dinner right? Some ladies do charge for their time, when dining with a client, (I don’t, I consider a good restaurant a treat, and it had better be a very nice place, lol), but if you charge for that you should get paid for the time you spent with him. If he was aware of the amount of the donation up front.

But if you didn’t go through with the BCD part of the session, you can’t keep that money. Unless he decides to go ahead and give it to you. But since you were the one who bailed, you should not have kept it, IMO. I’ve had a couple of clients who got beeped or called and had to leave, and they didn’t want the $ back because they were the ones who had to leave. And if a client cancels before anything happens, I believe a cancellation fee, at least, is always warranted. I mean a lady books that time just for him and spends an hour or so getting ready. But YOU were the one that canceled. And if what you said about him leaving the hotel because cops were pulling in, well YEAH!! I would have left too. Sounds like you chose a shady, unsafe “no-tel”. That’s on you too.

You definitely have to listen to your instincts and your gut, and if you didn’t feel safe for any reason; you absolutely have the right to cancel. (As does the client, but he should pay your cancellation fee unless it’s a bait & switch). But you don’t have to go through with anything you don’t want to. But you don’t get paid for that. If you had just given it back, like a lady, none of this mess would have happened. Just my point of view. Originally Posted by GingerKatt

Yep...that's all that needs to be said. The bold red fonts only drives business away.

Self alert much? what a nightmare. best thing you can do is give him his money back, take down those photos from your showcase and put accurate ones up. Apologize to him and try to start over. babe

About mid March I was the unpleasant recipient of a "No Call No Show" by the now infamous Stormie Weathers.

I plan to not ever see her again...avoid at all cost.

I don’t know this provider and It’s too early to try to read that big ass font but He’s actually been known to do this type of crap before when he does not get his way. He isn’t a very credible source and is basically on all known providers dns lists already... a lot of stuff isn’t posted on this site but we do have others that we share information on and the hobbyist here is no saint.

I don’t know this provider and It’s too early to try to read that big ass font but He’s actually been known to do this type of crap before when he does not get his way. He isn’t a very credible source and is basically on all known providers dns lists already... a lot of stuff isn’t posted on this site but we do have others that we share information on and the hobbyist here is no saint. Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

He may not be a saint and we will never know the entire story along with the information that you and other known providers have.

However, Stormie openly admitted to taking his $$$ without service. That's foul.

well jules ... what crap have i done before? ... please enlighten us all ... & how am i not a credible source? ... again, please enlighten me & the others ... & if i am on all known providers dns lists, how am i still seeing known providers & still posting rvws & still getting referrals? ... & what & where is this so called site where u share all your super secret anti-hobbyist info? do tell ...

unlike me, u have provided very generic & vague information ... just like stormie ... same bullshit, different provider.

could it be that your response is retribution b/c i have NEVER attempted to contact u nor see u? why u would have me on your dns list is hilarious b/c i have never tried to see u & wouldn't ... i mean, just look @ those pix ... yikes ... how many damn filters did u use on that main pic? ... yeah, i bet u look JUST LIKE THAT in person ... puhlease ... & u haven't had a rvw posted in about 6 months ... tho i bet that's just b/c all your regulars just don't post every time they see u ... hahahahahahaha, ok

i stand by the rvw. nothing was posted to intentionally trash the provider. if these things had not occurred there would be no reason to post. the rvw was edited by staff for things i was unaware i could not include. the sight should protect BOTH providers AND hobbyists. admittedly i did not make a wise decision letting her in the car & giving her the full donation after dinner in good faith for a future appt ... that idiocy is completely on me.

the main thing i want to address is she states i threatened her family ... absolutely not true. would not do that to anyone ... especially not people who have been unknowingly (seemingly) brought into her escorting. she gave me access to information that made it very easy to find very personal & detailed data about her family ... i reminded her of this when she was treating me like shit b/c if i were a real asshole, i would use that stuff against her ... but that is not how i do things. i did tell her that if she did not follow thru on the actual session or returning my donation (which she offered), i would post a negative review ... which has occurred ... obviously.

if any hobbyist needs to know further details that were edited in the rvw, please pm me. again, intent is not to trash, but to help fellow hobbyists avoid a potentially negative situation by being appropriately informed. Originally Posted by LordBigHorn

Good lord this is a cluster fuck. Clearly the OP owes you the money. No if ands or buts. However I take exception with your claim of not threatening her or her family. The mere mention to her that she shared private RW info to you is an implied threat and that’s despicable

i stand by the rvw...

the main thing i want to address is she states i threatened her family ... absolutely not true. would not do that to anyone ... especially not people who have been unknowingly (seemingly) brought into her escorting. she gave me access to information that made it very easy to find very personal & detailed data about her family .. Originally Posted by LordBigHorn

First: rvw? Why in the hairy fuck can't you just type out the word "review"?

Second: the quoted is SUPER fucking shady. "I didn't threaten her, I just reminded her I could find out all her personal info any time I wanted..." Oh yeah ok buddy, totally on the up and up.

so this moron provider shares ALL her rw info w/me & i'm the ass for reminding her of that & that i didn't share any of that w/anyone while she's treating like complete shit ... u can frame it however u want ... i NEVER threatened her in any way ... nor her family ... NOTHING was implied ... i attempted to take the high road the entire time but when she left me no recourse but to post a negative rvw i did ... all i did by reminding her that she shared all her personal info w/me was remind her that i was not the asshole b/c if i were, i would have shared that info & i did not & will not & actually did not retain any of it ... u can twist my words & requote me however want

& u really have a problem w/me using the abbreviation "rvw" instead of spelling out "review"? is the absence of vowels that hard for your brain to comprehend?

i suppose these are the white knights i was warned about ... more to follow i guess ... let me go get some popcorn

so this moron provider shares ALL her rw info w/me & i'm the ass for reminding her of that & that i didn't share any of that w/anyone while she's treating like complete shit ... u can frame it however u want ... i NEVER threatened her in any way ... nor her family ... NOTHING was implied ... i attempted to take the high road the entire time but when she left me no recourse but to post a negative rvw i did ... all i did by reminding her that she shared all her personal info w/me was remind her that i was not the asshole b/c if i were, i would have shared that info & i did not & will not & actually did not retain any of it ... u can twist my words & requote me however want

& u really have a problem w/me using the abbreviation "rvw" instead of spelling out "review"? is the absence of vowels that hard for your brain to comprehend?

i suppose these are the white knights i was warned about ... more to follow i guess ... let me go get some popcorn Originally Posted by LordBigHorn

White Knights? Whatever dude. Nobody has taken up for her. She was called out for cheating you. But what you said, that’s a threat. Unintended or not

White Knights? Whatever dude. Nobody has taken up for her. She was called out for cheating you. But what you said, that’s a threat. Unintended or not Originally Posted by txexetoo

You're a nerdy WK and arrived as scheduled to defend the hookers honor, no one cares what you say, especially the whores.

"She was called out, But you said" Got put on a dress now trick lol

You're a nerdy WK and arrived as scheduled to defend the hookers honor, no one cares what you say, especially the whores.

"She was called out, But you said" Got put on a dress now trick lol Originally Posted by BLM69

And you’re clearly a fucking troll. Nobody defended her. But clearly you defend every Douchebag bag on this board. Go back sucking your moms tit

I have reached the conclusion that both provider and John are loose cannons.

And you’re clearly a fucking troll. Nobody defended her. But clearly you defend every Douchebag bag on this board. Go back sucking your moms tit Originally Posted by txexetoo

Change your handle to "he said, she said" nerdy trick, You put your dress on yet?